"Marriage Story" made me a staunch anti-marriage

Ludie 2022-03-16 09:01:02

Noah Baumbach's new movie "Marriage Story" hit Netflix tonight, sad and angry. I don't know where the anger came from, and I wrote a few anti-marriage words on my face, knowing that my Facebook friends would think that there is something wrong with my brain, who the fuck cares.

My anger is mainly aimed at the greedy, cunning, evil, and lying American lawyers. Marriage Story is the Kramer vs. Kramer of the 21st century. In a divorce, only the lawyer wins, and everyone else is losers. It is said that Americans know this truth, but when it comes to divorce, even smart people can lose their heads and spend all their savings and debts to find a lawyer to file a lawsuit, for what? Just for a broken child. So I said on Facebook that there are two things to do to completely avoid this crisis: 1) Only love and live together, never get married. The value and necessity of marriage has been exaggerated for thousands of years, hugely overrated. 2) If you get married in your head, don't have children. Children are one of the causes that cause you to lose your freedom. Our planet lacks everything except people.

The movie is 2 hours and 10 minutes, and every minute grabs your nerves. You watched helplessly as two decent, knowledgeable and educated people, a pair of people who originally loved each other and then cared about each other, tortured each other involuntarily. It's not that they want to rectify each other deliberately, but that they have lost the ability to think calmly when their nerves are high, and they are prone to listen to slander from lawyers when they are mentally fragile. It wasn't until they lost everything that they realized they didn't want that. Crazy, lost, and finally quieted down. Maybe life can start again, but what is lost can never be returned.

The two actors, Adam Driver, and Scarlett Johansson, acted brilliantly, especially Adam, as natural as real. What's interesting is that when the United States introduced him, they pointed out that he was from Mishawaka, Indian, while the mainland introduced him as a Californian. He was indeed born in California, but his mother was our small town of Mishawaka. A native, Adam moved back from California with his mother when he was seven, and Adam didn't leave until he finished Mishawaka High School. So, Adam Driver is a guy from our small town, okay?

Adam Driver is a very strange actor, he caught my attention when he played Patterson, and I hope you all go to see that indie film, which is one of my 100 favorite movies. Adam is very different from other Hollywood actors. Most Hollywood actors have never read a book, and few have graduated from a bachelor's degree. Adam graduated from the Juilliard School of Drama Department. He lives in New York, not Hollywood. To be honest, between Los Angeles and New York, I don't hesitate for a second to choose New York. New York has culture.

Director Noah Baumbach is not unfamiliar to the Americans, and perhaps not many films of him are seen in China. I remember him because his partner is my favorite director/actor, Greta Gerwig! I've previously covered Greta Gerwig's film "Francis Ha," which the two of them wrote together, and it's basically Greta Gerwig's own story. This year, the pair have both done well, with Noah Baumbach directing "Marriage Story" and Greta Gerwig directing "Little Women." Both films are big hits for next year's Oscars.

The end of the year is the season of good movies. Next will be "Little Women"

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Extended Reading
  • Dee 2022-03-25 09:01:06

    There is nothing wrong with the two people, and they both love each other, but it is difficult for two artists with personality to maintain a marriage (suddenly I found that the quantifier "pile" is very vivid in marriage)... the law involved The details may seem ironic in the eyes of American audiences, but I am very envious. When it comes to human relations, the law can be so complete.

  • Kole 2022-03-23 09:01:24

    It's much more beautiful than I expected! Can't fault it. The embryonic form of this script should be Noah’s assumption that if Greta did not display his ambitions but continued to be his muse to support him behind his back, the future of their marriage might go in another direction (I guess, but In the end, the heroine nominated for the Emmy Director Award instead of the Actor Award. Isn’t Greta nominated for the Oscar for Best Director in the intertextual real life hhhh). Scarlett was still crying with the driver's stinky face a second ago, and she shed tears when she turned around. If the academy is the fourth Snub nomination this year, it is really shame on you Oscar; the driver is better than this year's "Joker". There are too many senior Joaquin selling curious, and even hope that he can go back to 2008 to teach Xiao Li, who is filming "Road to Revolution", what is retracting and releasing.

Marriage Story quotes

  • Charlie: You'll never be happy, in LA or anywhere. You'll think you found some better opposite guy than me, and in a few years you'll rebel against him, because you need to have your voice, but you don't want a voice. You just want to fucking complain about not having a voice !

  • Charlie: You want to present yourself as a victim because it's a good legal strategy. Fine, but you and i both know you chose this life ! You wanted it until you didn't. You used me so you could get out of LA.

    Nicole: I didn't use you.

    Charlie: You did, and then you blamed me for it ! You always made me aware of what i was doing wrong, how i was falling short !