This is an old film. I saw this film by chance in college, and I liked the love story very much at that time. I watched it on and off many times. I feel that every time I watch it, there is always something that touches me. , I used to think that this film was mainly about tradition and openness, breaking through the inherent barriers and plucking up the courage to pursue love, but with the continuous in-depth study, especially recently because of the psychology book "Love is a Choice" , which gave me some new views on the characters in the movie. There may be many deficiencies, and the expression is not deep enough (because I am not a professional psychology expert). Today, I finally started writing and wanted to write some of my own thoughts:
1. Is the principal a drag?
I recently read a book on psychology and talked about a mental illness called drag syndrome (addiction to people, behaviors, and things), which means that I hope to control inner emotions by controlling external people, things, and things. I think the principal in the movie is most likely a patient with drag syndrome, because the principal is addicted to work and doesn't really care about his daughter, but he is very dependent (indulged) in his daughter's care in life, and only lives in the inherent state of life. , was unwilling to change, and when he was told that his daughter was in a relationship, he immediately dropped the boy from school, which was a very morbidly dependent attitude.
According to my simple psychological knowledge, I think this principal is a procrastination patient. Conventional treatment for procrastination patients needs to revisit the painful experience of the past, tear open the wound, and then heal it through guidance. After watching the plot, I think that the principal's illness later healed.
2. Who killed the daughter?
At the same time, because of my father's disapproval, I committed suicide, making me also a question mark in the forehead? Influenced by recent psychology books, I had to sort out my daughter's experience:
The daughter's mother died very early, and the father didn't actually care much for the daughter (it can be seen from not even remembering the birthday), which shows that the daughter's "love tank" has not been irrigated by love since she was a child, and at the same time, the daughter has taken on a lot of responsibilities at home. The responsibilities of a "mother" are to take care of the father at home, do housework, etc., and this process is also the process of her outputting love to her father.
This makes the poor love storage tank even more depleted. When a boy who loves her appears and continuously delivers the "love" that has been missing since childhood, this "love" becomes indispensable , like a straw to save the people, and her father's obstruction made the girl think of suicide.
A girl's lack of love actually makes me feel that her own personality may be imperfect, and that girls are relying on boys to give her the "love" she has been missing, which makes me think that this kind of love is also problematic. It is not sound. If you follow rational thinking, the space of boys will be slowly occupied by girls, and there will be no independent space of their own.
3. Thoughts on Love
On the contrary, I think the love between the three pairs of students is more real. Everyone has their own favorite people. From liking to falling in love, it is actually a very long process (at the beginning because of the beauty, to the rejection because of the beating, to the later Apologize, until the two people got to know each other because of dancing, and finally dated together), during this period, you need to contact, and only through constant contact and understanding of each other will you fall in love with each other, right?
Does love have to be smooth sailing? Does it have to be turbulent? I don't think it's obvious. If I were asked to describe what love is, I might not be able to answer it, but seeing the love in the three pairs of movies made me yearn for my love even more.
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