Bergman, Summer Festival

Gracie 2022-01-29 08:08:08

I was surprised when I saw Bergman's grief last night. It turned out that he was still there. When you knew that your daily vision was also in his eyes, he had already gone.
He's on an island, maybe cut off from the world.
On May 1st, I watched one of his films for the first time, "Autumn Sonata". It is said that this is his most drama-like film. I don't understand the structure, but I know that this film touched me.
I remember when my mother and daughter were arguing, I burst into tears.
Seems like you see yourself.
I'm an Aquarius. This zodiac sign is famous for being rebellious. Adolescence must have been a little more difficult. My mother is Aries, and she is straightforward and hot. On the balcony on a cloudy day, looking at the gray sky, wanting to rain before it rains, that kind of mood.
The war between mother and daughter is two ways that are not connected. At that time, I knew that there were too many difficulties in the so-called love.
One party is forcing you to accept it well, but you have no time to think about it. All you think about is that I am myself, and I don't want to listen to you. When I thought about leaving, I really did. After leaving, I understood a sentence. The so-called hometown is such an existence. When you leave it, you will really know it. Like me getting to know my mother again. Her urgency, my boredom. What's right or wrong, it's just that time, I don't understand, and she doesn't understand either.
Because she is afraid of your pride, she refuses to praise her, and this daughter has an overly tenacious self-esteem. After many years, she learns to be indifferent. At that time, it was all kinds of torture.
The mother and daughter in "Autumn Sonata", on that night, put down all the masks of politeness, and the calm, hideous and hysterical cry of the daughter was closer to the real human nature. In fact, I am afraid of noise. That will leave scars in the heart. But I still remember the scars I left her, stabbing me from time to time, she remembers no.
Pretend to be polite, to pretend that nothing happened, or to settle it happily. I don't need to fix it anymore. I got to know her, and later she let me know that she was actually amazing. Finally one day, she said, you have to believe in yourself, if you live well, I will be happy.
That's it. Throughout my childhood and adolescence, she refused to tell me anything.
We love in our hearts. always like this.
Bergman speaks of this love in that movie. The news said that he cut ties with his family when he was 19 years old, but was it reconciled later?
His daughter released the news, his death, and his daughter's name was Eva.
Yang Dechang went, Cai Qin said, thanking God for letting him go with the person he loves the most. Peng Kaili, his wife.
So does Bergman. It's a relief.

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Extended Reading
  • Lavonne 2022-03-29 09:01:08

    You turn a blind eye to me every time you leave

  • Elbert 2022-03-28 09:01:12

    "This film depicts the emotional alternation of love and hate between a mother and daughter who have reunited after a long absence in just one day and one night. The complex performance of Ingrid Bergman vs/Liv Uman is vividly displayed The subtle human feelings, especially the mother-daughter relationship. It deeply reveals a thought-provoking theme: on the one hand, people yearn for understanding from others, but on the other hand, they often do not understand others.” - recorded from the introduction to the film. "Have you ever understood anyone other than yourself? You have successfully ruined my life, just as you have ruined yourself. As for the mother-daughter relationship, what is this? Emotional? Insanity? Mutual damage is such a terrible feeling. Mixture! The mother's pain must be borne by the daughter, the mother's setbacks in life must be paid by the daughter, and the mother's misfortune and misfortune will turn into the daughter's misfortune, as if the umbilical cord between them was never cut. Mom, yes Isn't the daughter's tragedy or the mother's victory? ...Mom, I'm very frightened, and you're happy?"

Autumn Sonata quotes

  • Eva: There can be no forgiveness.

  • Eva: But one thing I did understand: not a shred of the real me could be loved or accepted. I didn't dare to be myself even when I was alone because I hated what was my own.