Pretending to be ordinary, but actually moving

Luisa 2022-08-28 23:02:15

I didn't expect this film to make me feel so much.... I can ignore the troubles and efforts of the two young people Paul and Valentino in their lives, after all, that kind of life is far away from me. But I Seeing Carlo and Gillia living together in this family, so painful and hard, they try to find sustenance in another relationship, Carlo meets a former love played by Monica Bellucci, and their old love is rekindled , wanting to break everything together, Gillia drove to another man on a rainy night and told him that she thought she was in love with him, but the answer she heard was regrettable: I am gay. Everyone knows it.

One finds a lover, and that one loves him too.
A man who confesses his love to someone, but also understands that it is wrong.
This is how the contradiction arises. Gillia immediately stepped back to be with Carlo, and her rage disgusted Carlo, who wanted to have love. He rushed out of the house, but like the bastard in "Bitter Moon", he was hit by a car and taken to the hospital.
Monica was waiting for Carlo's reply, she sent the child to her mother, she and her husband talked about everything, however, she didn't know that Carlo was in the hospital and was not awake.

During the long time in the hospital, Carlo gradually became peaceful, and Gillia made new progress in her career. Her attitude towards Carlo gradually became gentle, and her son and daughter also achieved small gains in what they wanted, harmoniously. The situation arises. A home seems to have become happy again. The scene where they fought fiercely was like it never happened.

The film doesn't say too much about how Monica spent the rest of the night in that waiting. However, when they met again in the supermarket after a long time, they didn't know what to say, maybe there was too much to say, maybe it was useless. .

Outside is a happy family, inside, Carlo hid on the phone and whispered to Monica, I have a lot to say to you - but, I am afraid he will never have the courage to leave this home, and Monica, too. The love was shaken and everything was over. That moment of desperate love is over forever. . .

I often think, if Gillia got a positive answer when she confessed to that man, then, does their family still exist? Chances should be slim. All I can say is, "That's not true love." But God, what is true love? If Romeo and Juliet lived together twenty years later, they might have problems too. True love only happens in a moment, and it is as difficult to maintain as flowers for a period of time. As for the family affection that evolved later, I think, more often, it is because human beings are so lonely, so afraid of loneliness, they always choose a safe retreat for themselves, and they are not tempted enough. That's all.

It doesn't seem to have anything to do with the movie. However, who cares...

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Remember Me, My Love quotes

  • Paolo Ristuccia: Tell me the truth Valentina, what do you think of me? What am I like from the outside?

    Valentina Ristuccia: You know what I think about you.

    Paolo Ristuccia: Tell me anyway.

    Valentina Ristuccia: I think you're clueless and inexpressive, when you talk it sounds like you've got a rag in you mouth and people can't understand a f**k, you don't shower and you dress like a communist loser when the world goes in the opposite direction. This is what I think.

    Paolo Ristuccia: Anything else?

    Valentina Ristuccia: No, that's enough.