It is especially suitable for watching a TV series around the stove and eating snacks in winter. Because it's really warm.
It's still late autumn, and it's raining outside. I watched this TV series alone at home, and the feeling I was frightened yesterday has now recovered a little. I even felt a touch of Christmas joy, as grand as watching "Love Actually".
The ultimate free romanticism is perfectly reflected in this TV series. It is not contrived, exaggerated, and pieced together. It is revealed in every touching detail. Even each viewer will feel different and will be moved by different stories. I was somewhat healed, pulling me back to a state where my vacuum layer wasn't broken or was broken but I had the ability to repair.
Before yesterday, the love in my fantasy could still be, how to say it.. It looks like Pete and Susan in "The Sixth Sense of Life and Death", just on the street or in a restaurant, one morning or evening, and then After a few chats between strangers, they found that it was very interesting to chat.
After yesterday, I almost changed my mind, thinking that grown-up people take the initiative to meet new people, these are the behavior of warriors. I seem to be losing that courage, maybe being pushed back, I don't know. Curiosity is also dangerous, and there are battery-draining moments, you know.
Every day changes, those thoughts. Some are extreme, some are rational.
But now, I can clearly see them falling in love on the way of talking (some words are hard to translate in Chinese, just like some Chinese are hard to translate in English, and also crush), those romantic ones The thought swept in again, like a wave that had receded to the sea and returned to the shore, smashed hard on the shiny but dried shell, and came back to life.
Young, old, old, opposite-sex, same-sex, cross-age, a pair of people, they were walking on the street, I followed them and walked back to the three "Love is" time.
Weird, I cried in episode 6.
maddy said she didn't have such an experience with man, didn't know what it was like, someone didn't take care of you as you asked. I do not know either.
When you go from tremblingly and cautiously summoning up the courage to try to establish a relationship with others, and then slowly infiltrating and then trying to believe in this relationship, trying to put your heart into it, you will find that it is all a misunderstanding, each other’s needs in the relationship It's completely different, which is really sad.
I have come to understand more and more that misunderstood relationships all happen when you lack the relationship you are asking for. Compared with other relationships, the more you will fall and the less rational self-control, you will automatically add filters to beautify, because it is You need. So we have to learn to identify the relationship and whether the people in the relationship are real, but the signals given by both parties may be wearing coats, and the transmission and reception of the signals will be hindered, which is very difficult. It's like you know what the answer is, but you don't know the calculation process, you can't do anything but try each process until you find the answer.
So compared to Guzmin, everyone will be greedy for a relationship like Guzmin, it's a perfect relationship. Who cares what kind of relationship they have, because it is meaningless to entangle whether it is friendship, family or love, love is fluid, love is emotion, love is emotion, love is love, it can exist in any relationship , can also exist at any age, relationship is only a means of link, love is the purpose, relationship is for love, love is enough in the relationship between Guzmin and Maggie, this is the truth.
This scene of Anne Hathaway seems to me back to "One Day" again, I'm so touched. But this time, what she has to deal with is her relationship with herself. I think Gemini, who was born in June like me, can better understand this feeling. Every day, she is in dialogue, struggle, companionship, and encouragement with countless myself. . Sometimes I feel like the sun is shining, and sometimes I feel like I'm full of holes. At a certain moment when you come home happily, the light above your head suddenly goes out, the whole world becomes dark, you can't see and can't do anything, the sad pain will hit every cell in your body in an instant, Until blood and tears come into your eyes, and you lie flat on any piece of ground crying, twitching, screaming, and slowly waiting for it to calm down. Later, I also understood the pain of Hao Lei crying while lying on the ground for no reason in "YHY". Please believe me, you better not know this kind of pain.
She almost screwed up all relationships, nice guy Jeff, and many former colleagues, classmates, and friends, because there is no way to face them with her true face, she can only leave the most high-profile side to them, afraid that they will see On the other hand, you will have to run away. Just like Yasmine's extreme search for attention, there is no way to give herself enough affirmation and confidence, and naturally she cannot enter a stable relationship. But in fact, everyone is two sides of the same coin.
I've always believed that everyone has a light above their head and a switch. The color and intensity of light determine your mood. You can be high or low, but don't flip the switch, and don't prevent emotions from appearing.
I especially like the scene in "CMBYN" that touched me the most. After Elio and Oliver separated, when they returned home, his father said to him, maybe you want to be numb now, maybe you don't have any feelings anymore, but feel what you feel something. If you feel pain, soothe, if there is a fire, don't put it out, and don't be cruel. When withdrawal keeps us awake all night, it can be a very bad choice, but seeing others forget about us before we are willing to be forgotten is not much better. In order to be healed much faster than we need, we deprive ourselves of so much that we are depleted before the age of thirty. Every time we start a relationship again, we have less to give. What a waste not to feel in order not to feel it!
Feeling emotions may bring us closer to pain, but it also keeps us young.
Anne Hathaway no longer hides her other side, I don't think it's too dramatic or too dreamy, we need this kind of encouragement too much.
It is worth exploring the two pairs of sarah and dennis and tobin and andy. Maybe they are afraid of the new relationship, maybe they are tired of the old relationship, but the reason why their relationship can be maintained is because they have not given up on each other. As long as one end of the relationship gives up, that relationship will cease to exist, so this is a good reason for all marriages to exist.
Sometimes arguing and communicating are a great way to remove obstacles.
If you are like julie, after many years, you still have someone in your heart, she will tell you to be brave to find the answer, whether to continue or let go, she will encourage you to rebuild the relationship until you Find your heart. While love may be sublimated, another relationship may be betrayed and broken. But the point is to pay attention to all relationships, people in all relationships, and your state and your mood in all relationships, so that they don't become ghosts in your ordinary life, and you don't become a sunbeam Consumed mummy.
The last rain seems to wash everyone's emotions, but the relationship will still unfold intricately. your life is still going on.
Did you receive it? the truth of love.
PS: Every song in it is good~
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