Recently watched a drama: Sex Study Room
The story is very simple. Although the boy Otis lacks sexual experience, his mother is a sex researcher. He has learned a lot of sexual knowledge under the influence of her own eyes and ears. With the encouragement of the "bad" girl Maeve, she opened a sex study room to help these adolescent boys. Teenager solves sex problems
At the beginning, I was really attracted by the name of the drama with a strong flavor of fishing. As a girl who (suspected) caught the tail of adolescence, of course I have a reason to watch it and learn about this topic that has been avoided since childhood.
After watching it, I found out that this show uses sex as a gimmick on the surface, but behind the scenes it is seriously talking about the growth of teenagers, but this time I did not fast forward like watching the island country education film, I finished watching it, and I was moved .
Let's recall the sex education we received. During the first menarche, my mother casually taught me how to use sanitary pads and walked away. I am ashamed to talk about it with others. I just hope that my aunt will leave soon, unfortunately. Yes, she comes every month as scheduled, and I can gradually get along with this uninvited guest, but the rest only stay in the rumor that "boys and girls will get pregnant by kissing"
In the second year of junior high school, the biology book introduced human reproductive organs. The biology teacher said that he would not take this class. Let us read the book by ourselves. In that class, I felt that everyone was uneasy. The boys were chatting and laughing. The girl pretends to open the book and turn to other pages, either silent or doing something else
That was the first time I saw such a detailed explanation of the reproductive organs. He told me that this place usually urinates, and there are other things that can be done in the place. It is something that everyone can do, but they are unwilling to talk about it.
That is: sex
When I came out of the college entrance examination and the world was no longer full of homework problems, I began to learn to understand the machine behind the world, instead of waiting for others to define it all
Of course, this includes sex
When I was looking into YJ's affairs in my freshman year, I added a lot of group chats. The boys in it will actively chat with you privately, and send you private photos of him, and look forward to your appreciation for his reproductive organs.
Ok? It looks pretty good, I think it would be cuter to dye it pink, or try sending a bow, it will make you look more solemn...
"Dead pervert" The other party often responds to my appreciation like this
This made me a little embarrassed. I sent private photos of myself without authorization and asked me to express my appreciation. I endured the discomfort in my heart and searched my stomach to find adjectives, but I got such a bad evaluation as "dead pervert", which is really unpleasant. (In fact, I'd rather judge their various panties than their genitals)
This made me realize that my sexual knowledge is so lacking, and my impression of Japanese actresses is still on Sora Aoi, who was my first love. Why do they call her Teacher Cang? Is her class so good?
To find out all this, I went to an adult site
Almost in one day, I visited all the links on the website. Although I didn't see Mr. Cang, I saw many "teachers" like Mr. Cang.
After browsing, I deleted all the history on my computer, I felt like I watched something I shouldn't, but my brain didn't give me any reason, it just reinforces my sense of shame and makes me give up delve deeper into this matter
Later, I saw a lot of news on the Internet, about gender, social, psychological
Should revealing clothing be grounds for rape? Is the difference between a virgin and a non-virgin just the hymen? Why is underage abortion more serious? Why do boys like boys? Is it a pervert who likes SM? Are all people who like ice love a murderer?
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The root causes of these seemingly intractable problems are hidden in the biology class that was not taken seriously in the second year of junior high school
Sex is not unspeakable, nor is it self-taught. Behind him is not the lingering back of adult films, but the self-awareness of teenagers, which is part of growing up.
Let's go back to this video
choose to be yourself
Otis' friend Eric is gay and likes women's clothing
His father didn't scold him, just said: If you want to continue living like this, you have to be strong
A father respects his son's ideas. He likes boys and women's clothing. This is what he likes. It may be a little different, but this is not wrong. If you want to pursue what you like, you must realize that not everyone in this world can Accept gays, womenswear, all the choices you make, so you gotta be strong
Eric finally bravely chose to be himself, put on high heels, put on makeup, and danced calmly at the prom with his friend Otis
He enjoys every moment of being himself, he lives not for others, but for himself
Love has to represent nothing
Otis also met a boy who he couldn't love. The boy confessed to the girl at the dance but was rejected. He wanted to seek short-sightedness impulsively. The male protagonist Otis came forward.
You can't force someone to love you, but that doesn't mean no one will love you
In adolescence, we are impulsive and sensitive, and all the little things can be linked to life and death: he doesn't like me, I'm a pitiful worm that no one likes, I have no value in existence, when will I reserve a seat on the roof of the community?
Parents and teachers don't care about the storm in our hearts, they seem to care more about the grades on the report card
Some people may never go through this hurdle in their entire lives, always dealing with a relationship in a way that is painful for both parties, if someone ever taught us: it is too common for the person you like to not like yourself, but it is not It means that no one likes you, you just haven’t met your one for a while, what you need to do is to face this matter calmly and understand that not everything can be as you wish, even so, it does not prevent us from living tasteful
In this way, will we live more freely?
I will not give examples of other dramas, you can go and see if you are interested~ Every character in it is very cute
The biggest feeling this show gave me is to treat sex as an ordinary organ on the body, without covering it up or indulging it. It seems that everyone in the show understands that if you and I like each other and it’s voluntary Under safety measures, having sex is an ordinary thing. The mother reminds the boy to bring condoms when he goes out. When the girl goes to the hospital for an abortion, the doctor is more concerned about whether you have someone to accompany you, and casually asks how many sexual partners you have. , including men and women
They don't judge your chastity morally, they care more about your safety and health
When the dirty, obscene adjectives wrapped in sex are removed, and the glass in front of this restricted area, which was previously banned by the order of the elders, is wiped clean, we can see more and learn more
We have a right to enjoy the sexual pleasure our creator has given us, but we should also learn to take responsibility
Adolescence is a catalyzing period for our growth. We gradually discover the changes in our bodies and the changes in the surrounding environment. Everything begins to become uneasy, self-awareness, relationships with parents, friends, lovers, and what we want to do. Things, future developments, etc. should not be used to prevaricate the past with a sentence: "You are still young, you will know later"
I really hope that in the future there will be teachers or parents who can tell their children everything about sex
And said confidently: I'm just engaging in pornography, no doubt about it
Now look at the question posed before, do you already have the answer in your mind?
Should revealing clothing be grounds for rape? Is the difference between a virgin and a non-virgin just the hymen? Why is underage abortion more serious? Why do boys like boys? Is it a pervert who likes SM? Are all people who like ice love a murderer?
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