True bravery is seeing the essence of life and still loving it.
Recently, a video on Weibo about "Hangzhou Retrograde Brother" has become popular on the Internet, causing heated discussions among netizens.
What touched me the most was that even though this little brother was emotionally broken down, he was still polite and careful when venting. Although he was roaring, he still secretly maintained rationality and restraint. This news moved me, a middle-aged man: a middle-aged man who lives in a foreign country and struggles to make a living every day can't tolerate any outliers and mistakes.
The collapse of life seekers is too late, but the collapse is not the end. After the collapse, you still need to wipe away your tears and move forward firmly. Today, I would like to recommend a few movies about frustration and collapse. After watching these movies, you can calm down from the collapse and regain your confidence in life.
"Weatherman": The host with an annual salary of one million dollars often collapses, but after the collapse, he moves forward with a heavy load
This is a relatively niche inspirational film, but there is a famous line in it: "There is no easy word in the life of an adult".
This line was told to David by David's father, Robert. Although David was a weather forecaster, his job was easy, he worked two-hour shifts a day, and his income was high, but his life was a mess.
His wife divorced him, his eldest son was a drug addict, and his younger daughter was an unhappy fat man who was often laughed at by classmates at school. All kinds of unhappiness in life made weatherman David have a bad temper. When fans asked for autographs and greetings on the road, he spoke ill of each other. Over time, fans were also very unfriendly to him. David was often hit by various fast food thrown by others while walking on the road. There is no one else who does this for the anchor.
The so-called "No Ji Tailai", although life is not smooth, but David still got an opportunity to jump from the local channel in Chicago to the National Channel in New York and continue to work as a weather forecaster. Before leaving, David hesitated. He wanted to change his life: he wanted to remarry his ex-wife, and he wanted to get along well with his children, so his father told him these words: "There are no easy things in adult life. Character".
At the end of the movie, David still went to New York and worked as a weatherman with an annual salary of one million dollars. At the same time, he began to try to be nice to people, and his life gradually returned to some happy colors. Although there were some difficulties, at least not. Once again hit by fast food, it also achieved "American success", that is, a huge economic success.
The protagonist David is played by Nicolas Cage. From the evil and handsome dangerous elements in "My Heart is Wild", to the unlucky person who plays here, it is really difficult for Cage's handsome face.
It is probably precisely because of this violation that fans did not rate the film very high. However, this movie tells us a truth: Even a handsome radio anchor with an annual salary of one million is not easy, and in the end, he has to move forward under the pressure of collapse. What reason do we ordinary people have to give up ?
"Never Compromise": The beauty of the prosperous age is often let down by the world, and only by biting on it can it be bright
The name of this movie is very inspirational, and the starring is the well-known goddess Julia Roberts. When I first started watching this movie, I was thinking: With such a beautiful woman, life can be difficult?
But the truth is: she is really miserable. Although she maintains the prosperous beauty of Miss Beauty Pageant, she has been divorced twice, has 3 worry-free children, and has no job. At the worst time, there are only dozens of dollars left on the card. Money, the rented house is full of cockroaches.
Without going to college and without a lawyer's license, she found a job as an assistant in a law firm. After that, fate gave her a chance: a giant company secretly discharged sewage near the factory area, causing the nearby soil to be polluted, and many nearby residents were seriously ill.
Through her own efforts, she persuaded these residents to sue the company together. The process was extremely difficult, because the giant company was sophisticated, and the victimized residents were not united. In addition, the strength of the law firm she was in was limited and could not afford to delay... But fortunately: the heroine did not give up, she used all her strength to seize the case.
Why does she have so much perseverance? On the one hand, she sympathizes with those victims and wants to seek justice for them, but more importantly, she wants to prove herself and change the dilemma of her life through this effort.
Compared with the male anchor in "The Weatherman", the experience of the female protagonist in this film resonates more with us ordinary people: life gives you some gifts, and usually takes some things away from you, such as giving you beauty It may give you a messy emotional life and a messy financial situation. What should I do now? That is to seize the second chance life gives you at all costs .
"Happy Terminal": Adversity must also stick to faith, and more importantly, stick to romanticism
This film is a classic inspirational film jointly created by Tom Hanks and Spielberg, which has touched countless audiences. Victor in the movie was stranded at the New York airport because of an accident. He could not speak the language, had no money, and became a black household. He could be cleaned up by the airport manager at any time and arrested by the immigration bureau.
But even so, Victor did not lose hope of life. He seized every opportunity to live tenaciously. Even though the airport manager set up layers of obstacles for him, he was still not intimidated by the difficulties, but overcame it. Difficulty.
What impresses me the most is that Victor still maintains the romance in his heart even in a precarious environment where he has never had a meal. On the one hand, he fell in love immediately after meeting the beautiful flight attendant Emilia and started a passionate pursuit. What if he had no money? Then try every way to save money to invite her to dinner.
On the other hand, the reason why Victor came to New York to be stranded at the airport was to fulfill his father's last wish: to find a jazz player for an autograph and put together a collection of autographs. This is also a kind of romance, which is different from the romance between men and women, but a romanticism for love and liking.
Because it is an inspirational movie, of course there is a happy ending. Victor got the signature in his father's last wish and returned to his homeland smoothly. At the airport for nine months, he made a group of friends and left with a heroic farewell.
True romanticism is the kind of uncompromising in adversity, sticking to romance and faith, and maintaining the pursuit of beauty. "Happiness Terminal" tells us: not only can't give up survival in adversity, but also should cultivate the flowers of romanticism in the soil of adversity .
"When Happiness Comes Knocking": Life is always up and down, as long as you stand and don't fall, you will always reach the bright other side of Yangguan
There is no doubt about the classic of this movie. It can be said that he is the most classic inspirational movie, or the most inspirational classic movie. Such a film, if placed in any Oscar year (years in which the quality of Oscars participating films is generally not that high), will win awards.
Seeing the end of the film, the shock still haunts my heart for a long time: At the end of the film, the male protagonist Garner has passed through layers of assessments, overcame many difficulties, and successfully became a stock broker. I applaud myself, the applause is accompanied by tears, and the next chapter of life begins.
Many people regard this movie as a permanent collection on their hard drives, because it is inspirational and classic enough, and because the life dilemma encountered by the protagonist Garner is similar to that of many of us.
Just like "Hangzhou Retrograde Brother", the thing that makes adults collapse is not one thing, but several things that strike together, the so-called "waves of unresolved waves rise again". Life is like a cruel big hand that presses your head into the water, just as you are about to look up for a little breath, the big hand will press you harder and harder. What should I do in this situation? Be sure to hold your breath to preserve your strength, there will come a time when the cruel hand of life will let your guard down and you will lift your head from its grip and welcome a new life .
The wife left, was driven away by the landlord and had to live in the toilet. There was no bed in the relief center, and there was only more than 20 yuan left on the card... These are not the end of life. After doing everything possible and resisting, life will always be smooth and smooth. . At this time, you must not forget: to applaud yourself.
Roman Roland said: "The real bravery is to see the essence of life clearly and still love it". As long as you don't fall down and don't give up, there will always be a bright light. This sentence was sent to the popular "Hangzhou retrograde brother" "And to every struggling middle-aged and young person.
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