Some time ago, as a volunteer, I went to the home of autistic children. It was from that day that it was the first time to get close to autistic children. At that time, I was told by the team veteran that because autistic children live in their own world and have their own rules, when this rule is broken, they will be anxious. The way to improve is to send them to the corresponding special school to teach students in accordance with their aptitude. In view of the fact that early contact with other people other than family members of autistic children will benefit his growth and independence. Due to time constraints, what our volunteers can do is very limited. In the limited half-day time, we cannot deal with their situation. To make improvements, you can only accompany them so that they can gradually get used to contacting strangers and get used to getting along with other people. At the same time, it also allows their family members to take a short break and make time for communication with each other.
After participating in this event, this movie recommendation is none other than "Rain Man".
"Rain Man" is a movie with a road as a background and family affection as a clue, which greatly promoted the public's awareness of autistic patients in the background.
About this movie, Yo wants to share three points, and let me have a cup of coffee and speak slowly.
Autism (Autism). The dissemination of this film has caused the public to have an unwritten thinking, and Yuren is an autistic with a unique talent. In fact, the truth is not so.
Autism, also known as autism, is a subtype of generalized speech disorder. It is more common in males. It starts in infants and young children. Behave in a rigid manner.
a. Social communication barriers: When the two brothers met for the first time, Raymond repelled contact with strangers and could not respond properly to their approach;
b. Language communication barriers; lack of expression skills, unable to speak clearly and coherently, unfamiliar people do not understand, and cannot communicate normally;
c. Interests are narrow, and behaviors are stereotyped and repetitive; most of the behaviors of autistic patients are obsessive, ritual, and stereotyped. In the film, Raymond’s concept of time, bedtime and rest habits, and shopping habits are all stereotyped repetitions;
d. There are extraordinary abilities in some aspects. The Raymond in the film has a high level of numbers that ordinary people can't match, such as knowing the number of matches at a glance and recording cards.
It's about love, giving the other person a sense of participation. The younger brother's girlfriend, Susanna, had been at odds with her younger brother from the beginning. As a boyfriend, I didn’t discuss any decisions with my girlfriend. At first, the company faced a big dilemma. Charlie said that he went to Palm Springs as planned and never asked Susanna’s thoughts. On the way to Palm Springs, my brother said something. Do not post, but Susanna can't accept this silence, hoping to communicate. In a truly harmonious lover, silence is a tacit understanding of each other, not a lack of communication. Later, Charlie asked his girlfriend to wait in the car when he went to his father’s funeral, and when he went to Wallbrook, he also asked his girlfriend to wait in the car. Peer-to-peer communication between the two is particularly important. Instead of just asking the other person's thoughts to make a decision for the other person. Asking the other person to wait outside is like adding a door between the two of them. While shutting the other person out, he also closes himself tightly. Finally, the younger brother was finally willing to tell his girlfriend his childhood experiences and inner feelings. After the door was opened, the girlfriend was able to come in. Yes, here, in front of the right person, there is no need to forbear, and honestly tell the other person how you feel. How can others understand what you have never said.
Regarding family affection, the East is lost, and the mulberry is reaped. The film is mainly about family love, the first father passed away, and the last brothers met each other. At the beginning of the opening, we knew that Charlie was at odds with his father, and even learned that his father had passed away. The origin of everything is that when Charlie was a child, he ignored his father's ban and secretly drove the car out to play. The old father pretended that the car was stolen and called the police. Finally, he did not go to bail, leaving Charlie in the police station for half a month. So the momentary waywardness will never be seen again. Sometimes if the misunderstanding can be resolved through communication, there will be nothing to do. However, movies are movies after all. They originate from life and are higher than life; how can they be complete without these ups and downs. Brother Yu said that he lost his mother since childhood. Staying in the police station for half a month still finds it unbearable for adults, not to mention children, at that moment, all they can think of is being abandoned by their family members, as if they were picked up by themselves. As a result, the shadow of childhood led to decisively leaving home afterwards, refusing his father's many calls. The father’s stubbornness and improper way of education resulted in not being able to accompany the family before his death. In the end, the two things that the father had conflicted with his younger son, rose bushes, and a limited edition Ford car, were also given to the child. Here we are. It can be seen that in the father's heart, everything that is important is given to him, because he is the most important.
The ending of this movie is that the younger brother finally accepted the older brother, and his heart was filled with family affection again. In the film, I have been thinking that if it were not for my brother's superior digital talent, he would never have an exciting record in the casino, so that my brother would not be able to repay the money all at ease. At first, the younger brother took him away because of his brother's inherited property. The good name is that being with his family is a better home, but it is actually for the property behind his brother. I think I can understand my brother, when family love cannot be relied on, but money can bring most of the material, enjoyment, etc. I want. In the process of taking my brother away, the various problems caused by my brother’s autism made people feel bored and inadvertently shortened their inner distance. If they can’t take a plane, they can only drive back; watch TV on time every night. For the show, my brother went to lie to other people’s TVs and bought a portable TV for my brother; he didn’t want to take the highway with frequent car accidents, but he only wanted to walk forward, and his brother could only drive slowly to follow him; satisfy his brother’s eating and bed placement. Let go of the rigid requirements of habit and so on. Every time I want to go crazy, I have to do it every time I go crazy.
The younger brother's acceptance of his elder brother was not because of the casino. Although very happy, it is not decisive. When my elder brother mentioned Rain man, he learned that his elder brother was the rain man who sang for himself when he was sad and sad in his childhood. The person who originally thought that he was only in a dream turned out to be his own elder brother. I was really a little excited. Ah. Later, when he put hot water in the bathroom, his brother’s overreaction, he mentioned that the hot water burned Baby. Charlie knew that the baby was his own, and realized that it was because of his brother’s special behavior that caused him shortly after his birth. Out of protection for himself, his brother never returned home after being sent to Wall brook. At this time, how sorrowful I was in my heart, because my appearance caused another person's life to change. But my brother kept chanting "Never hurt Charlie" over and over again. Charlie's heart softened when he spelled Charlie's name. What a trivial matter. At that time, he was still a baby, and now he is an adult. But my brother has always remembered. So in the final conversation with the doctor, he repeatedly emphasized that since you all know that I have an older brother, why, why didn't you tell me earlier. What if they could tell earlier, maybe they can play and grow together, maybe he won't leave home, maybe his brother and himself will have better company.
Maybe there is a rain man living in each of us, sometimes weird behaviors, our brains can’t keep up with our own rhythm of behavior, and we are eager to be understood.
If Camilles are interested in volunteer activities, you can also look for volunteer activities in your city. Accompanying children, caring for the elderly, animal protection, etc. are all available. It has nothing to do with rewards or business, but within the scope of their own power. To help others.
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