How to not be dumped by your girlfriend?

Dave 2022-03-22 09:01:05

Sean, who is only 29 years old, suffered a mid-life crisis: hair loss, being ridiculed by a 17-year-old colleague for being bald, and just a small employee; good friend Ed was unemployed at home and only played games; another roommate Pete complained fussy and couldn’t get along. Harmony; in the end, as expected, I was dumped by my girlfriend who had been dating for three years. Finally, when a wave of zombies arrived, Sean successfully counterattacked and won back the heart of his ex-girlfriend.

After being broken in love, Shaun was drunk and indulged. After experiencing the life and death of zombies, he realized that love needs condiments:



1 When you are with your partner, please devote yourself to the

film called "Shaun of the Dead", British humor It has been shown many times that although Sean is alive, he is alive like a zombie. Walking on the floor in white socks every morning, he moved slowly and his eyes were dull. So, at the beginning of the film, Liz was in a distracted vacuum when he was talking with him in Winchester.

The most painful thing about person-to-person communication is that both parties are not on the same channel, and he is completely absent-minded about what you tell him. This happens most often in old couples. The wife is talking endlessly, and the husband is wandering, and occasionally a few words popping out of his mouth are also unreasonable answers. So Liz couldn't help feeling a little melancholy after speaking out his inner thoughts, and felt that he was nagging like his mother again.

After the conversation, Sean wandered again.

For young people, after mobile phones have become inseparable things, most people have become heads down people. Although some couples spend a lot of time together, when they are together, they don’t experience and feel the moment together. They just look at their phones together and swipe their phones when eating together. Seeing interesting things is like saying to themselves. Saying a few words like to himself, the other party just said "Oh? Really". There is no eye contact, and no intention to listen to and respond to the other person.

Accompanying is the most affectionate confession.

When accompanied, please devote yourself to it.



2 Don't take your brother and her best friend to date.

At the beginning of the video, Sean and Liz talked. I thought it was a date. Then when they put it on their friends, I suddenly realized that it was a gathering of friends.

In a work team, the most annoying thing is that two of them are lovers, because in such serious occasions, they will always be watched to show their affection. For couples, the most annoying thing is that they have a bunch of light bulbs when they are dating. They will always give you various pointers on your relationship and how to get along, and they can even cleverly throw sharp questions to affect one's thoughts. , Shake the feelings between you. Especially girls, they are easily influenced by others and have difficulty making independent judgments.



3 Life needs some adventure.

Love can withstand wind and rain, but cannot withstand the ordinary.

Marriage is often consumed in the triviality of firewood, rice, oil and salt. Liz was also tired of the same stay in Winchester every night, "I want to do something more interesting" said her heart.

Some surprises and small excitements can make the feelings more flavorful. If you feel plain and do something different, you may gain a lot.



4 Face up to her demands.

Liz several times expressed that she wanted more, "I want you to want to want to do it, too."

And Sean missed the third anniversary is already a taboo in the relationship, and promised to After finding an ocean restaurant, I forgot to book again, and finally my girlfriend broke up and broke up.

Compared with feelings, Sean is more attentive to friendship. Ed has no friends, so he takes him with him every day on dates. The small matter of booking a restaurant has been forgotten several times. From Liz's point of view, it is really "valuing friends and despising sex."



5 Arrange enough time alone

for two people, alone time is very precious. Only when two people do not need to play other roles for each other, they are just the true selves.

I like you not because of who you are, but because of who I can be in front of you.

Being alone can get to know the real counterparty and explore each other's interests and three views. Even a nerd like Zuckerberg understands the importance of being alone, and has an agreement with Priscilla, "On a date a week, get alone for at least 100 minutes, and you can’t stay at Zuckerberg’s house, nor with him. Office".



6 Find your own shining point

Sean is a loser in the movie, but he saves himself and Liz in the end, let us see that little people can also be heroes.

In the love of two people, a woman needs some sense of admiration. If there is not even a small amount of admiration, even if a woman falls in love, it is nothing but moving and general.

Therefore, although Sean's rescue operation was not completely successful, it also showed his capable side and made his image taller.
Find your own shining point and carry forward. Worship is the first step towards love.

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Extended Reading

Shaun of the Dead quotes

  • Barbara: [over the phone] Some men tried to get into the house.

    Shaun: Well are they still there?

    Barbara: [over the phone] I'm not sure, we've shut the curtains.

    Shaun: Did you try the police?

    Barbara: [over the phone] Well I thought about it.

    Shaun: Are you OK? Did they hurt you?

    Barbara: [over the phone] No I'm fine. I'm fine.

    Shaun: Mum...

    Barbara: [over the phone] Well they were a bit... bitey.

    Shaun: [concerned] Mum, have you been bitten?

    Barbara: [over the phone] No... But Philip has.

    Shaun: [calmly] Oh, OK.

    Ed: Has she been bitten?

    Shaun: [to Ed] No, Philip has.

    Ed: [calmly] Oh, OK.

    Shaun: Listen, Mum, what sort of state is he in?

    Barbara: [over the phone] Oh, he's fine. Bit under the weather.

    Shaun: I see.

    Ed: What's the deal?

    Shaun: [to Ed] We may have to kill my step-dad.

  • Ed: We're coming to get you, Barbara!