Most people have a certain degree of intelligence and self-protection mechanisms, so it is difficult for us to face others, or even ourselves, with our true face. The truth is often difficult for people or one to accept.
He pays attention to dressing up, and he follows the European style, not hip-hop or sports style.
Their success is not how clever their deception is, but they know how to grasp the weakness of people, and what they show is what others want to see and hear. Sometimes even if you want to confess, others don't want to believe it.
When she was exposed, she arrogantly defended herself. Who would not pretend to be ourselves in order to survive or to make a name?
Isn't it all disguise? Don’t you all want to fool others into thinking that you are not a good bully, or just to get promoted and get rich and get out of the current dilemma.
It doesn't matter if you wear heavy makeup or put on a pose, you use it every day because it works, even if it's unbearable, it's a part of yourself.
After careful management, the so-called "chengfushen" and "pass accidents", this kind of mask may always be effective. Because the back of cheating is greed.
If you feel that you have been deceived by life, it is better to ask yourself what you have coveted for life.
Changing yourself is by no means a black and white thing, it may be motivated, or it may be a disguise. Reading books to enrich oneself is a change, and beginning to learn how to look at beauty is a change. Except for crimes, good or bad lies not in the means of change but in the motivation for change. For example, if you want to exchange the envy of others, or use it to please others to achieve your own goals, I am afraid that it is not a noble motive. If you are afraid of failure or avoid change because of laziness, this cannot be called self-preservation or innocence.
Many times we subtly hypnotize those motives that are dependent on the existence of others to ourselves, telling ourselves that these are the goals of work or courtship. Our hearts are gradually unable to discern what makes us happy, and when the goal is reached, there are still endless desires to fill. If you feel this way, perhaps your motivation is not simply "better material conditions" or "a man who loves me" or "a stable job."
The true kindness will not do bad things, and the good intentions for doing bad things are mostly fake good intentions or kind intentions that are unknown.
Our motives may be mixed with different proportions of selfless justice and quick success, to find out early that is beneficial to ourselves and others. "Live on the ground", "Ordinary" is not to encourage you to give up your ideals and become cynical. Recognizing one's own face and motives, there is no loss to anyone if there is no change or not.
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