When I was young, my favorite superhero was Spider-Man, his handsome actions, mainly like the action of spraying spider silk, and the protagonist is too close to the people, so I often imagine that one day I will be bitten by an animal. Super hero too. . . It may be an illusion that everyone will have in their hearts-hope to defeat the bad guys, hope to save the people from suffering, hope to be needed by others. After coming out of society, many people gradually forget this childhood thought, because they have to live to earn money and learn to be an adult, and they have gradually realized that there are no simple good and evil in the world, but some are just different. Position. This cruel reality makes everyone's relationship more and more indifferent, and negative emotions such as anxiety and impatience are accumulating in modern society.
Coincidentally, the actor in the film is also an ordinary person. He has to work hard every day to be a takeaway boy, a newspaper reporter, a tenant, and a student. Subject to unreasonable work requirements from the boss, the landlord relentlessly asked for rent, and the teacher questioned it. The movie uses a very humorous way to show the plight of such a small person, but the actor did not show the irritability and resentment that should be, instead, he is still a sunny boy next door. Until the life of dual identities finally affected the relationship between him and his friend Mary Jane, he was finally defeated by negative emotions, and he began to hate being a hero, and the hero's work has become a burden. This disgust is intuitively manifested in the film as the disappearance of superpowers. Think about the reality. If you are tired of a job, you will often involuntarily feel that you are not competent, and then you have a bigger reason to quit. Later, the doctor's words inspired him-you have the right to choose, and he finally made a choice between social responsibility and ordinary people's life. It seemed that everything had become better, and there was a glimmer of hope in the relationship with Mary Jane. Until I saw that I couldn't help the innocent life in the fire, the original hero's idea resurfaced again. Aunt Mei's words made him feel relieved-the world needs heroes, everyone has the essence of heroes, and heroes give them strength.
If when he first became a hero, Pete was just out of guilt for his uncle, hatred of sin, out of responsibility to the society, in summary, it is emotional and moral restraint. But now his ideas have been sublimated. He wants to make the world a better place. He wants to unite people. He wants to awaken the power in people's hearts. Every time he defeats sin and every time he gets gratitude from people, it will become his greatest reward. This spiritual connection with people is the necessary factor for him to accept the role of hero. When he has experienced the torture of life and insisted on his ideals, He finally learned to be a hero.
This kind of psychological process from the initial emotional impulse to the mental burden to the active acceptance is worthy of our thinking. Why do some people in society suffer more and more, and some people become more and more active and confident, just because of their ability ? status? A few days ago, I saw two answers in Zhihu that were very enlightening, saying that there are two factors affecting human mental health: one is pressure and the other is social support. This explains why many extroverts in life are more positive and optimistic, because they are better at establishing friendly and intimate relationships with others. This kind of good social support gives them more energy to cope with stress, so they behave more positively than introverts. . Another replied that the passion of work comes from success. The more success, the more passion, so people tend to be more passionate in their areas of expertise. Returning to the movie, the protagonist has not only received the psychological support of Aunt Mei, but also recovered the passion of hero work. Because the nature of Spider-Man's work is to save others, the feedback from others is often an important criterion for judging the success of his work.
As ordinary people, whether you and I feel that life is getting boring and anxious, you might as well learn from how Spider-Man finds his passion for work.
I used to have a longing for things and the future, but now I don’t have any feelings about anything, and I don’t have passion for anything. What should I do? Why is it that no major events actually happen in daily life, and why it often makes people feel tired?
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