After watching the whole play, what left the deepest impression was the line "We accept the love we think we deserve" that appeared twice in the play-we chose to accept the love we thought we deserved.
This sentence appeared twice in the movie. The first time Charlie saw that the people she liked and her sister were dealing with bad people, and asked Mr. Anderson, "Why do nice people choose the wrong people to date?", Mr. Anderson thought for a while and said "We accept the love we think we deserve". The boy asked "Can we make them know they deserve more?", "We can try", and then the boy smiled and left. The second time was towards the end, the night before Sam was leaving, the same question was asked to Charlie, "Why do I and everyone I love pick people who treat us like we are nothing", and this time Charlie told Anderson His answer told Sam "We accept the love we think we deserve". However, things are not over here, Sam knows that Charlie likes him, and Charlie chose not to say the reason is "I just didn't think you want that, I just want you to be happy", this is how many people think they love , What I said to myself behind how many bitter secret loves "He shouldn’t like me, I just hope he can be happy", but Sam’s words later let those who are immersed in this kind of thinking come out: Don’t you get it, Charlie? I can't feel that, it's really sweet but ,you can't just sit there and put everybody's lives ahead of yours and think that counts as love. I don'
When I first watched the synopsis, I felt that I had a strong sense of substitution with the protagonist. The haze of childhood. The undercurrent of the family. Lonely without friends. Questioning love. Confused about myself. Curiosity and fear of the world. Always choose the wrong person. Don't know how to say goodbye.
Seeing the lively crowd will be at a loss and at a loss.
The old and new friends rave everyone lofty wine and song and you're in their own little corner of the nest hesitantly
God knows how hard you want to try to integrate into the immediate social circle, but every time you are fruitless and sorry to leave, no one will pay attention to
on the one hand, you always feel depressed lonely and helpless when a person alone, you want to scream, be heard, and his understanding
on the other hand, you Stubbornly resisting anyone to set foot in your world, stubbornly pretending to be a totally indifferent calm posture, deceiving yourself and saying to yourself over and over again, "Everything will be fine, I just need a little time and a little adjustment"
during class Facing the teacher’s question, he was well-informed but he didn’t dare to raise his hands or even raise his head to make any eye contact, but quietly write down the correct answer
in the notebook. When eating in the cafeteria, always sit in a corner far away from the crowd and eat your own food.
Various parties At the ball, he could only stand silently against the wall holding a glass of juice and cast envy and helpless eyes at all kinds of peers on the dance floor.
He learned from him to start accepting a new life, and began to try to take a bold role in "Rocky Horror Reality Show" on stage. His life began to take on a new color. And all this is because he loves him, but he can't let him know. He is afraid that the other person will not want this love, and he is afraid that he is not worthy of this love. We accept the love we think we deseve. That's it. It is possible that such "I think" has created many misses and misunderstandings. Sam said "I can't feel it", even if you already think he is more important than the whole world in your heart, but he doesn't know it.
The boy Patrick with a little charm, maybe he is the only one who has been bravely pursuing his love. It's just that he loves another boy, and his relationship that can't be publicized died out after being smashed by an accident. Until the end of the movie, I was alone.
"you can't just sit there and put everybody's lives ahead of yours and think that counts as love" Yes, maybe this is not love at all. You do not express and refuse to take the first step. You just silently make one CD after another, thinking about him while listening to one song after another; you try to chat with him on various occasions; you silently understand everything about him through various channels, past, hobbies, what do you think Become the person who knows him best; you pretend that you have someone you like and don't let yourself be too obvious to get along with it; you think everything is fine, but no one knows. The movie has given me too much resonance, but I still can't know how to take this step, the same as Charlie in the movie will be afraid, especially when maybe this is also a feeling that can't be publicized.
After Emma Watson left Hermione in Harry Potter, she has been experimenting with different styles of movies. The focus of the goddess is often hope to break through. This time, the rebellious and charming Sam is a different style, but it feels that the characters are not very vivid.
The two male protagonists are both 92 years old, and I can't help but sigh that the next generation is terrible.
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