If there was once a film that brought us to the edge of helplessness, bulimia, and depression, and then only gave us a chance to shed tears, then "Wallflower Boy" is showing sporadic but needle-like green onions. After the pain, step on the accelerator again and set off for a brand new tomorrow.
A psychology teacher once told me that only those who are truly kind can get self-harming mental illnesses such as autism and depression.
They choose to hurt themselves, choose to punish themselves, in order to alleviate the insignificance and pain of the outside world.
There are only such people. They can see the pain of others and the hurts of others, and they are one of the most powerless people. They have no solution at all. When there is no way out, they choose to stagnate. Come down.
The film is not so gloomy and profound. It looks like all American youth idol inspirational films would have. It has all the elements that this type of film should have. Children in this period can find all the school, family, and favorites. The fragments of people who are experiencing.
It is in this way that the film resonates with the vast majority of young people. Because not all children are in adolescence or adolescence, have experienced psychological struggles, and have faced painful periods of hurting themselves to relieve their guilt.
This is a guaranteed routine. The seemingly small and fresh appearance is enough to win the empathy of a group of children born in the 90s. Together with the familiar Hermione, the secret love and confession during the period are the most talked about by the parties. part.
Therefore, even as a simple light comedy, this is a qualified and excellent film.
And if you want to say a few more words, it is Charlie who silently guards the self-position of others.
On the one hand, in order to cater to the situation of this autistic boy in school, the film was named Wallflower Boy, and on the other hand, he is always a "flower protector". Originally, he was the weakest among all people, he couldn't even make friends, and he was always alone; but in his heart, he was silently guarding the people around him. From his sister's point of view, he is already having trouble coping with high school life. It would be a mess if he wanted to intervene in his relationship with his boyfriend. But in his eyes, his sister is actually the weak, and he always defines himself as a person who wants to carry the burden for all this.
In the eyes of the outside world, Charlie is an autistic teenager who can't fit into the circle; but at least in his heart, what he cares about and annoys is why we are all so weak and we have to be bullied by others. He sees the pain of others all the time, because he can't change it and can't afford it, so he chooses to close himself.
The film puts Charlie’s heart knot and the point of resolving happy knots on Aunt Helen’s "child molestation". This is obviously a labor-saving explanation, but it also discards the insignificance of "unable to save others" that has plagued Charlie for many years. psychology. In my opinion, this is the reason why Charlie became Charlie. It is this kindness that accumulates his denial of himself bit by bit.
One thing that is particularly desirable in the film is that it repeatedly mentions the seemingly central theme of the sentence: "We only accept the love we think we are worthy." This can be regarded as the film's answer to countless intricate love mysteries. Naturally, because we think we are small scumbags, we chose the same scumbag to love; when a good person walks into us, our choice is to push him away and say "No, I am not good enough for you." "
This is the biggest benefit of this film for women who are preparing to become "better" for the New Year. Only when we realize that we are really good, and good people will come, can we stay.
Vera
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