Inferiority complex, how much love I have missed.

Electa 2022-03-21 09:01:01

"She doesn't suit me."
"She is perfect."
"She is too perfect, too good, too beautiful, too mature, in short, too good, but not what I want, she belongs to the elegant atmosphere of Park Avenue , Staying in a high-end hotel, attending a tasteful cocktail party, can you imagine her wandering around the world with a man with a camera and no savings? It would be nice if she was ordinary! So I'd better give up the fantasy of her and let her find Others are

doing well." Just after watching the opening of the dialogue, I had the urge to write it down. I'm sorry that I always see love in Hitchcock's suspense films. ..

People often do this, facing something that is too perfect and allows us to enjoy it to the fullest, but it will become daunting. It is also in love, inferiority is inferiority, stubbornly insisting on their own ideas, and using various reasons to prevaricate. To refuse, the result is that the other party's pure love is unconsciously missed. Men always love to say how great their dreams are, but in fact they don't have the courage to connect with a woman.
As the saying goes, "The door is right", this is a great principle, but when the door is not the right door, can you give up this love if you want to hurt it? It can only be said that this kind of love is a bit difficult to succeed. If there is no similar experience to bind the two together, it is really difficult for two people to walk together in harmony.
Just like at the end of this film, after experiencing this "murder" incident, the two people finally got married. Although the events in the movie are coincidences, our lives are controlled by ourselves. If there is a big gap between the two people’s life experiences , You can create some common experiences and good memories together. Love is not as strong as imagined, and love that does not experience wind and rain is fragile. But as long as you are willing to believe, don't miss or even hurt the other party because of inferiority complex, and accept a sincere love with your heart, even if you are not right, what does it matter?


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Rear Window quotes

  • Stella: When I married Miles, we were both a couple of maladjusted misfits. We are still maladjusted misfits, and we have loved every minute of it.

  • L.B. Jefferies: Would you fix me a sandwich, please?

    Stella: Yes, I will. And I'll spread a little common sense on the bread.