Reading an interview with Alain Botton some time ago, the writer said: "The nature of life is tragic. We will die, our lover will die, and most plans in life cannot be realized. We are tortured by desire and anxiety. I have to sleep and eat..." The words were chilled in my heart.
Once I saw a star in his early twenties being interviewed on TV, saying that he was most afraid of his mother's death when he was a child. For this reason, he often cried in the bed. When he went to burn incense, he would bless his mother to live a long life. Regardless of the fact that an adult man in his early twenties is still talking about how he can't live without his mom's ridiculousness on TV, the fear of the departure of his relatives is indeed common.
In fact, I am not qualified to say that the boy is naive. When I was a child, I burned incense, and I promised it all the wishes of'a family will live forever and be immortal'. There seems to be no other way to deal with the end of death, which is the same destination by different routes, except to blindfold it and not look at it. Until later, when I watched Lin Zhixuan’s interview, he said that when his mother was critically ill, he was by the bedside. A few days later, she suddenly realized that the reason why her mother did not leave was because she knew that they did not want her to leave, so no matter how hard she worked, she also To persist in fulfilling their wishes, at the last moment of life, she is still trying her best to accommodate her children. At that moment, I suddenly understood that death has always been a matter of the living, and has nothing to do with the people who left. People who beg to leave first are selfish cowards. If you really love them, you have the courage to walk behind.
But then? Their departure is just a moment in time, but the days they left have been every minute and every second since then. Time can really smooth everything magically? Or are we just waiting desperately for the final moment of that reunion?
In the winter, the Japanese drama Yuejiu tells the story of a group of forensic doctors called "The Voice of the Dead." In each episode, a group of forensic students worked hard to uncover the true causes of various accidental deaths, and passed the final thoughts of the deceased to his family. The husband who died bizarrely on the road did not run away from home, but wanted to buy milk to make sandwiches for his wife; the students ate deadly food not because of drug abuse, but rather death than being threatened by drug dealers... The forensic professor said that the accidental death was revealed Only by conveying the true aspirations of the deceased can the living people come out of death and live without regrets.
Old Karl finally placed the house next to the fairyland waterfall. He sat on his square sofa and opened Allie’s "My Adventure", turning over their ordinary and warm scenes. If this weren’t the case. Animation, I will assume that he will die when I turn the last page.
But the last page read: "Now, go and start a new adventure."
If I love you enough, how am I willing to consume all your life.
Is there any more appropriate love in the world?
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