When facing a problem, whether we should go with the flow or hit the headache head-on is a problem in itself.
For emotional entanglements, in the case of taking the initiative to attack and no results, usually people are only left to comfort themselves by letting the flow go. After all, emotional matters mainly lie on the spiritual level. People need comfort from others, but the more important thing is the self-healing of emotions.
Like any other activity that people perform, wound healing also requires sacrificing time costs.
For most people, even if time can conquer everything, it cannot be denied that there is always a small part of people who have not waited for self-healing before they have collapsed.
I think the heroine is the small group of people who can't get rid of the pain on their own. From this perspective, the heroine is more wise and rational than most people, because she is fully aware that the impact of this relationship on her pain is something she cannot overcome and cannot let go.
Of course, I very much doubt that such a lively and even casual heroine, as portrayed in the movie, would be so nostalgic for such a love that I personally find very unreliable. Don't forget, even if the heroine really deletes the memory, the speed at which she enters another battle is also a bit of disdain for those of us in the Third World.
Of course, sometimes, the people who are easy to be emotional are those who are most likely to be regarded as stupid. Maybe they are really invested in every relationship!
The reason and rationality of the heroine lies in that she did not choose the most stupid way of harming others. And knowing that the pain of this relationship exceeds the time when the law of forgetting everything, I chose active amnesia. This is a very positive and meaningful approach.
However, in reality, at least there is no such "effective" therapy as in the movie.
What I think is that there is no need to be obsessed with forgetting even the painful memories of the past. Rather than bothering to forget the pain, it is better to work hard to find happiness, otherwise it will be a bit upside-down. Failure is at least a stepping stone to success.
Psychology shows that people automatically forget painful memories. I'm not sure whether this kind of forgetting is aimed at painful memories deliberately or randomly at all memories. I believe that scientists can't be sure.
The human brain is too complicated.
People are too imperfect.
If a person is perfect, there will be no show.
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