I have not been a crying child since I was a child. I was sick a while ago and went to the hospital for an injection, and I always saw children crying heartbreaking because of fear. My dad sighed to me: When you were young, when you were getting a doctor and getting injections, you never did this. However, in my opinion, crying is a child's right, and no one can deprive it. When you reach the age when you can't shed tears unscrupulously, you will find that wanting to cry has become a difficult task.
When we were young, we had many reasons to cry. When criticized by the teacher, I can cry; at the end of the semester, I can’t judge the three good ones, I can cry; I fall down, I can cry; when my mother is locked at home and practice piano all day, I will cry... But with Growing day by day, we are less and less expressing our emotions through crying. When the label of "children" fell off us, the right to cry also drew a clear line from us and drifted away.
I know that "crying" is the best way to vent my emotions, but after I learned to "endure", the ability to cry was gradually lost. So much so that occasionally I feel like crying, but squeezing out a tear is no longer the way I did when I was a child.
When was the last time you shed tears, do you remember?
I remember that when I was in the fifth grade, in art class, I spent a whole class time carefully completing an assignment. During the break, I went to the office. When I returned to the classroom, I found that the work was not Knowing who got a lot of wet, can no longer recover. I didn't even think about it. At that moment, I suddenly burst into tears, shocking the surrounding classmates and the class teacher.
When I first entered junior high school, I fell in love with someone, but my parents discovered unfortunately. The two of them cut off the relationship by all means. I still didn't understand it at the time. It was really difficult for me at that time. One night I couldn't help it anymore. I sneaked into the toilet, covered my mouth, and looked into the mirror, crying so hard that I couldn't breathe.
In the first year of high school, everything was still very uncomfortable, plus living on campus, there were a lot of grievances. One big exam, the test was very poor, for me, who used to be the top few in the class, it was really unacceptable. That time, I ran to the top of the dormitory with my mobile phone, called my dad, and cried at him on the phone for a long time.
These three cryings spanned 6 years. In these six years, are these three things that made me cry? Of course not, but I already understand that as a boy, I must be able to withstand the pressures and blows in life, because I am no longer the age to cry unscrupulously.
Thus, the movie became the reason why I could just shed tears.
When I was a kid, "Titanic" was released. I was about 7 or 8 years old and didn’t understand anything. But every time I saw the end of the movie, Rose lifted Jack’s hand away from the floating door and asked him to When it sinks, I will cry with my nose and tears.
When I was in junior high school, I was obsessed with Korean movies for a while, and it was not played by Jun Ji-hyun, or produced or written by Kuo Jae-yong. At that time, there was only one purpose for watching these kinds of movies, and that was to "cry out", or watch it for nothing, so , Whenever I look at it, a large pack of tissues will be prepared by my side. Now think about it, although it's really not an ordinary silly, but being able to cry is a happy thing after all.
Later, there were fewer and fewer movies that moved me, and I no longer shed cheap tears for deliberately sensational movies, but "Happy Birthday" still made me shed a lot of tears. I still remember that the day I went to the cinema was the last day of the final exam. The last test was English. I was no longer in the mood, and I would wait for the papers to be completed early. As soon as the rewinding bell rang, I was the first to rush out of the classroom, carrying a few large bags of books, and rushing to the cinema. I still remember the opening time was 5:20 in the afternoon. That day, in the huge theater, there were very few audiences. I was sitting in the middle of a row by myself. At the end of the movie, I looked at Xiaomi, who was still in the dark, and said the phrase "Thank you for always being with me." When I was with me when I needed it most, tears flowed down my eyes. Walking out of the cinema, the street lights were already on.
Then after a long time, "Wall·E" made me cry again. Seeing the end, EVE desperately recalled Wall·E's memory, and when he held up his rusty little iron claw, I still couldn't control myself. On this day, Wall·E also waited a long time.
Last night, I watched "THE NOTEBOOK". The first love of seventeen or eighteen is always so beautiful. Noah and Allie's summer romance finally came to fruition after going through twists and turns. Although Ellie didn't know Noah in her later years, they hugged and left the world together. This should be the best ending. It was the part where Ellie and Noah encountered heavy rain on the boat when they were grown-ups. When the rain came, they laughed on the boat, as if they had regained the feeling of youth, breaking through the world, desperate, and the grievances and misses of Noah and Allie over the years, although the backlog was too long, but after all Let them come together again.
This world gives us the right to be moved, so don't be stingy with your emotions and tears. Whether you are moved by other people's stories or your own memories, it is happy to be able to shed moving tears.
PS actor Ryan Gosling turned out to be the actor of "LARS AND THE REAL GIRL". I have put this film on the shelf for a long time and haven't watched it... To be honest, he is really affectionate in "THE NOTEBOOK" .
Looking forward to the new play "The Time Traveler's Wife" by the heroine Rachel McAdams
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