It seems that Ted believes in this sentence, no matter what, always think about everything in advance, regardless of whether all the preconditions can be met.
Robin's refusal made him unwilling. The beautiful vision of love at first sight is ruthlessly shattered at the moment you say "I love you". If you are more than just a tempter, I am afraid that no one can take this conclusion as the final judgment.
Creatures in this world will have the desire to struggle. Whether it is in the face of dying life or simple setbacks like this, there will be struggles, but strong people can struggle longer, while people without self-confidence will give up earlier. But there is no difference in essence, just fifty steps and one hundred steps.
Ted wants to redeem all this, maybe it shouldn't be everything, but only some. After a brief period of pain, Ted, who was rejuvenated, was on the road again.
This time, he chose to create a chance encounter.
When Ted saw that Robin was reporting a program live on TV, he was inspired by adrenaline to quickly rush to the scene of the incident and walked in the supermarket as if nothing had happened.
Similar things seem to happen to us often. For example, when I met a "beautiful beauty" at Carrefour, let's call it this way. Maybe it's an exaggeration, but this girl is indeed very beautiful. So I pretended to be as if nothing had happened, and shuttled around the shelf where she was. Because I was embarrassed to stare straight, so I could only use the number of passes to make up for the short time of a single observation.
Robin at work can't see a figure dangling behind him, so I think Ted, who is anxious, is about to wear the soles of his shoes, and finally waited until Robin put down the microphone.
There are also some things we can often imagine in this accident. The child has been trapped in the game console for a long time, but the people at the TV station don’t seem to want to rescue him quickly. There are also children who take the same approach. His mother, ambulance staff, supermarket staff, and of course passers-by who are indispensable wherever they go. But fortunately, this was only filming on TV, and the naughty children did not panic at all. But if you change the scene, it is estimated that it will not be so optimistic. Do you still remember a reporter squatting on the side of the road to take pictures of a cyclist who fell into the sewer in heavy rain? Many things in real life also have the situation of turning the cart before the horse. It's just that most people are indifferent, thinking that the actual superficial work is far greater than the event itself, and this is the role of the media.
Since it is a chance encounter, it is inevitable to show some surprise, like a normal greeting is no good, it must be different.
what are the odds!
If it is really such a chance encounter, the possibility is really too small, and we are able to meet with such a small chance, it is really destined.
For Robin, it was a coincidence; but for Ted, the sweat rolling on his forehead might not be able to say that.
Many things between men and women, or many things between men and women when there is an interest relationship, cannot be mere coincidences. Unlike the phrase "No coincidence does not make a book" often said in storytelling, literary works are to show the complex contradictions in a narrow space and a short time frame in order to deepen the impression. These are all deliberate. There are not so many coincidental things in the world. If you didn't arrange them, it is likely that the other party arranged them. If they are not, then all right, it can only be said that God arranged them. Anyway, someone has to arrange it, and there won't be anything that goes with the flow that you will accept it logically.
This section further confirms my statement. When Robin said that there were arrangements for next Friday, Ted immediately changed his words and said that it was this Friday; when Robin said why it was not today, Ted immediately said that it was today; when Robin mentioned in the chat with Lily After reaching random, Ted deliberately said "random" once...
Arrangement is a neutral term, and the consequences it brings may also be the result of multiple aspects. From Ted’s point of view, it’s a bit expensive to work hard for an imaginary meeting; from Robin’s point of view, there can be a young man who can jump up and down just for one side. A thing worthy of happiness; and completely bystanders, like a stage play, quietly waiting for the development of things, thinking in their minds how to let the main line go down if they are a screenwriter.
Different people have different opinions on the same thing, and the same people have different opinions at different times. Therefore, basically no one can say clearly what the matter itself is like. In his corner, Peeping Leopard can only see a little bit in the tube.
The temporary decision to open a party will inevitably be extravagant and wasteful of progress. Ted's call came home, just in time for Matthew and Lily to depend on each other sweetly after Yunyu.
In order to cover up, Matthew said that he was writing a thesis and gnawing a book. But how can this fool Ted who has lived together for so long. Without even thinking about it, it is just a sentence "Get out of bed!"
The mutual understanding between people can only be deepened through continuous mutual exchanges. No matter how accurate they are when they look at people's faces, those are deceptive tricks. The so-called Lu Yao knows horsepower, and this is the truth when you see the truth over time.
No one can fully understand another person in short-lived communication, not only because people are complex creatures themselves, but also because people's thinking is often short-circuited so that they can't see through.
Do you know your friends enough, or don't say they are your friends, try someone who is closest to you. Can you know if he or she stretches his or her ass? Impossible, most people cannot do this. It’s not that you don’t want to know him, it’s not that you don’t want to remember some of his characteristics, but that man must be self-centered in nature. This characteristic is also designed by God when he created man. .
Don't you believe it?
Let's do an experiment.
For example, you take a group photo with a group of friends or a group of colleagues or any group of whatever. When you get this group photo, your eyes will definitely search for the only person, this person is yourself.
Am I right?
On the other hand, if a friend knows most of your habitual behaviors well, I am afraid he has really studied you. Here I have to write down another sentence. People who fully study you include enemies besides deadly good friends. Such as Zhuge Liang and Sima Yi.
When a person is alone, there is no restriction on people’s thinking, because if they are a group of people, everyone’s unwillingness to be lonely will always make the topic focus on a few basics. On the central issue, a person is often prone to digress, and sometimes runs too far to return. This is why sometimes it is more effective for everyone to get together to brainstorm than to work behind closed doors.
But not all the crowded occasions I like. For example, "Parking lot for 2 yuan and 5 minutes in Beijing" is one of my favorites. There are too many gatherings.
The gathering of friends is a little better, because friends can always form small groups no matter how many people are together. These small groups can give full play to their own characteristics in a large group, so that everyone can find their own topic partners. . But in some business occasions, it’s not so like that, because in this case, most people are wearing a mask, which is not real at all, so there is always no excitement in meetings, but in meetings. There is always a loud voice.
I am a typical person who likes to be quiet and not to move. In a noisy environment, I often choose to stay in a corner. At least I will have a stronghold where I can retreat. PUB is not suitable for me, and the same is true for large parties.
Can such thinking be regarded as the initial stage of autism?
However, there are probably many people who hold diametrically opposed views. Still the same sentence, Shangdi has fully considered the needs of diversity when creating human beings. His old man had arranged all your destiny for you long before you were born. ——This sentence is not nonsense. Let me give you an example of the fallacies and heresies that the constellation that I used to determine the fate of. Although most of them are dismissive, I can barely tell some truths. At the very least, there must be some differences between children born in winter and children born in summer. After all, the mother's body is also affected by the external environment. Although the transmission to the baby is attenuated a lot, it will eventually leave some marks. Bar.
Ted’s fantasy novel seems to be a nonsensical comedy, but no matter what the foreplay is, it ends up at the same point "Want to go on the roof to see it?"
Why did you get to the roof? Matthew uncovered the mystery "Lily and I have done it several times!"
Different routes have the same goal. There are many ways to fall in love with horses. I am afraid there are very few processes in the process, but only the beginning and ending versions are roughly the same. : From the beginning of the conversation, to the end of sex.
God is a person with a lack of imagination, or God's profession is a bad elementary school language teacher, he came up with a fill-in-the-blank question, making everyone in the world embarrassed.
God tells you how you should start, and also tells you how and how you want to achieve in the end. The stingy person just doesn't want to tell you how you should do it. It's like the superior martial arts in the martial arts. You know that if you succeed in cultivation, you will inevitably hit the world's invincible hands, but no one can tell you how to achieve a positive result. You can only rely on you to realize the process during this period.
Like all teachers, they will say a word to excuse themselves, "The master leads the door, and the practice is personal!" If everything is arranged for you, what is the difference from a machine?
People, the most awesome thing is to subdivide events into processes, thereby transforming the process into a program flow for the machine to perform for it, but when one day applies this set of tricks to yourself, unless you do it yourself It is the machine or the external environment that will never change, otherwise there will be various deviations in the pre-set program avoidance.
Ren Junlong on 2007.12.16 03:54
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