Chandler’s parents divorced on Thanksgiving Day. When they were young, they used fantasy people as their friends. Dad was gay; Monica was the second child in the family, and the parents’ attention seemed to be on the elder brother. The elder brother was the pride of the parents, but she did it. Everything will be criticized, and neglected children grow up to become neurotic about details and pursue perfection. Phoebe has a complicated experience. He was abandoned by his mother. These children who did not have a warm childhood can still see the influence of the past after they grow up, but they live a serious and relaxed life. There are such a group of friends who can share everything that is happening. They can laugh at themselves and make jokes like they don’t care. The tone said the weight of the past. In my opinion, they are all living happily, living according to their own wishes, and the life they live is a warm life.
I think a large part of their warmth comes from having a group of friends who can share the unhappiness and variables in life. I don't know if Americans can face each other so openly and honestly, maybe they are simpler than us. Misunderstandings and contradictions time after time, they can talk frankly about their ideas and work hard for each other's relationship. Many things, in fact, if everyone really starts to discuss it, there will be solutions. Even for robbing someone else’s girlfriend, Chandler got his friend’s forgiveness by shutting himself up in a box and reflecting on it. Chinese, this range is a bit large. But from the people around me and myself, we hide ourselves too deeply, and it is not easy for us to confide in anyone. Some people may say that this is unnecessary, but I don't want to live alone. But why can't we live without a boy/girlfriend, because the power of loneliness is so great. Love shouldn't be the product of emptiness and boredom, right? The thing is often, strangers get acquainted and start to feel good, but slowly they become uncomfortable with some things that the other party does, and there is a little bump in their heart, but no one is perfect, and it is not demanding. It takes a long time. , The little lump became a big lump, and finally became a conclusion to the person, and he started to go far again. As a result, many, many people have been walked through in my life, and many, many people have walked out, but in the end they all walked out of my world. I always think that we don't know how to love. Originally, we could have better friends, lovers, and family members, as long as we can speak our own thoughts and listen to their thoughts. The characters in Friends have their own favorites, but everyone has their shortcomings. If they are the people around me, will I be friends with them for ten years? With so many incidents, every time if there is no good communication, every time may be the end of a friend. Just like ourselves, everyone makes mistakes. Do we allow others to make mistakes?
Their warmth also comes from their persistence in living the life they like. Rachel’s escaped marriage, from an independent girl who relied on a credit card, to finding a job in the clothing industry, and working hard from the bottom. After Chandler got married, he gave up a job with a stable income and started working as an intern in an advertising company. ; Phoebe makes a living by massage, but disdains to sell her own songs to the company; Monica faced the pursuit of millionaires but ended up with him not because of money, nor did he break up with him because of money, even though she was a big one. The cook really wants the restaurant that the man opened for her; Ross loves dinosaurs, and he has become a doctor in the field he is interested in; Joey is often too poor to rely on Chandler to help him and do all kinds of strange jobs, but Never give up wanting to be a good actor. They live not as tired as we are. Living for themselves and listening to their inner voice is also a kind of warmth.
Family affection, maybe what they have is not perfect, but when they grow up, they slowly accept it and begin to find their own happiness; love is always thousands of times, and before meeting Mr. Right, it is destined to have countless views. It looks like a prince’s frog, but in the end most of them find their own happiness. They always feel that the plot of Monica and Chandler together is the most touching. Neither of them is perfect. They had shadows when they were growing up, and they are most likely to be abnormal when they grow up. People who love each other cherish each other because of love and give each other the best love. This kind of love is true romance; friendship, they have each other, each has its own unique charm and distinct shortcomings, but everyone Tolerance of each other can make this friendship for ten years like a day; career, they are just a group of small people, ordinary like any of us, but they do what they like, and have real plain happiness.
After reading Friends, it seems that every character there has really existed. Maybe this is impossible, but the warmth it brings to me is that it has really existed in my heart.
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