The first time I didn’t feel that I saw tears from watching a comedy was hypocritical, it was listening to a friend telling him that a brother was watching "Journey to the West". The brother is broken in love, so everyone invites him to watch "Journey to the West". At that time, Zhou Xingchi hadn't put on the tight hoops and had not become "the master of what kind of doctrine". People still went to watch his pure comedy purely. The effect has always been very good. Everyone feels that they are about to succeed, and they are ready to smack each other. Who knows that the supreme treasure on the screen is wearing tight hoops, but the hippie smile is solemn enough to reject Zixia. The brother burst into tears, and the friends' efforts failed. If anyone sheds tears when watching "Journey to the West" now, I would not find it strange. It would be a strange thing to know who can laugh and watch it happily.
After hearing about this, I no longer easily feel hypocritical. Recently, this happened to me. This thing refers to watching a comedy and seeing tears, not anything else.
At the end of last year, I spent two months training in the field. I was afraid that my wife would be bored at home. I recommended her to buy a series that was said to be very popular in the United States. The store was out of stock, so I bought it and said it was also hot and more fun. friend". This drama is really good. Later, when she called my wife several times, she urged me to "tell me what's the matter" because she was anxious to watch it. I'm not jealous. First, I came up with an idea and asked for it, so that my wife's purpose of relieving boredom was achieved. Second, I didn't catch a cold with my wife's appreciation level, and felt that it was just something that children liked.
After coming back, he couldn't stand up to his wife's repeated lobbying, so he sat down and watched to make his wife happy. At the beginning, I still accompany my wife to look backwards from the middle, and within two episodes, I figured out the relationship between the characters and became "poisoned". Even once, because I was about to get up at 4:30 the next day, I was afraid of oversleeping, so I watched it all night. I can't remember when the last time I watched all night, I should still be in college. When I laughed up and down several times, I would be laughed at by my wife: "I still don't believe what I said, look at the silly way you laughed", and I don't care about that much.
During that time, there was always endless laughter at home, but it was strange that I learned the ability to bear with me unknowingly outside. The slightest disapproval of others can make me depressed for a long time. I also know that it's not a big deal. If it happens, it makes me appear to be a small organ. So I began to abuse myself and demanded myself with more stringent standards: sincere to others, 100% sincerity; cut off the nerve of "little cleverness", although it has not been developed enough; not allowed to have even a little wrong. The result of this is naturally to make myself more dissatisfied with myself, so I become more self-abuse... When
I realize the problem, I will want to find out the reason. The reason is not difficult to find, that is, the moral requirements of oneself are too high, and they cannot blame others. What I don't understand is how to learn this bad problem. Until one day I saw the series called "Friends" again, and suddenly I figured out: They were the ones who caused the harm!
They are not perfect, but they are honest, innocent, and kind, at least that's what they pursue. They can also lie, but they are very clumsy, and they often can’t hold back the trick before they can see through them; they can also be tricky, but they are so open; there will be things that make them angry, but they have to tell them. A nasty word seemed to kill them. Sometimes I get nervous because I like it too much: Is it true that the Americans are like this? Are they really that big gap with us? No, this should also belong to the scope of enlightenment. It is precisely because they Americans can't do it that they will make up a play to "guide" people, right? Explain to yourself in this way to be a little relieved. This little worry for myself and my compatriots is fleeting, how to like it or how to like it, is hopeless.
I accompany them at home every night to "live", and slowly find out from them that I have had all sorts of principles of life and behavior. It turns out that the rules that have been repeatedly hit and frustrated are not feasible in the play, so I am not alone, I should stick to it. So, self-abuse started like this.
Watching this comedy that night, I suddenly figured out the reasons for self-abuse. For a while, I suddenly wanted to cry.
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