Recently, I saw a gimmick Weibo and several conversations between husband and wife, which were clearly about the same thing, but their focus was completely different. The most memorable one is that the husband told his wife that he was injured at work, Xiaoting sent him to the emergency room. The current condition is very serious and he may have to amputate! The wife blurted out: "Who is Xiaoting?" At first glance, it seems funny, although it is a bit exaggerated, it also shows that women are the animals that go first with intuition, and men tend to focus on facts, so their reaction to women is always the same. Can't figure it out. No way, men and women are very different. When you are in love, what the other party says is fine. After being together for a long time, everything gradually changes after you enter the marriage. Men begin to feel that women are making troubles unreasonably, but just trivial things, but they always take the blame. In the end, it is not a problem of giving in, but a problem of psychological pressure. If a man wants to escape, a woman will chase him; the closer the woman is, the further away the man will be. As a result, various vicious circles led to the final breakdown of the relationship. He said that he would hold hands for a lifetime, but in the end he didn't want to touch it for a moment. The most intimate relationship that was originally has gradually become the bondage that most want to escape, and this is the case for many marriages that can't go on. The movie "Control"﹙Gone Girl﹚, that pair of beautiful couples is one of them. The wife disappeared on the fifth anniversary of the wedding. The husband, who was originally not emotional, was astonished and could only bite the bullet and figure out how to find his wife. Unexpectedly, during the search, the husband gradually changed from a family member of the victim to a suspected criminal. However, the law of suspense movies is usually: the more you look like a murderer, the more often it is not the murderer. [A man never knows what a woman cares about] Nick (played by Ben Affleck) and Amy (Rosa Monpark) were originally a loving couple. Looking back at the time when the two fell in love, the love that hits everybody with all their hearts. It's as beautiful, like a beautiful couple made in heaven, and when the time comes, they will naturally enter into marriage. However, the married life is not as expected, from loving each other to drifting away from each other, from talking about nothing but speculation, and slowly, Jiaou becomes resentful. This seems to be a common marital status. Some people choose to close one eye while others can't ignore it. If you can't bear it, you have to do something. People will change, so will love, but marriage is not allowed to change. Or it should be said that the more real, the more disillusioned. We often love the other person in our imagination, and the other person loves you in our imagination. And marriage is a cruel process from a beautiful imagination to a real state. Some people get to know each other better after running in; but some people can't get in and only complain that the other party doesn't understand themselves. Once love has resentment, the love of the past will really become the past. If you want to keep the marriage unchanged, the two have to make changes. In the self-cognition, it is often not themselves who need to change. In fact, falling in love does not mean real understanding, and getting married does not mean getting married forever. It is of course undeniable that the heart when you fell in love at first cannot be denied, but that is only part of the love. As time goes by, the impact of more details in the heart of the other person is the key to whether the love can continue. In the movie, a diary written by Amy becomes a sharp and cold perspective, hidden behind the true and false, which is the growing resentment towards her husband over the years. And the husband outside the situation will not know the true thoughts of his wife even if he is killed. It is like two people are in a maze. The wife has reached the core, but the husband is always hovering at the entrance. No matter how alive, it can't be compared to the unintentional day and night in the future. For couples who have no love, the big deal is divorce. However, what is worse than no love is that love becomes hate. When hate becomes the fulcrum of love, the relationship between the two is not only as simple as it appears on the surface. Partial hatred tends to last longer than love. Love can make people willingly change themselves; hate is to change others in every way. The war between men and women often stems from: men never know what women care about? And proud Smart women will never give up! [The "truth" is the result of control] Although this is the disappearance of a family, through the gathering of the masses and the instigation of the media, it has turned into a sensational social case across the country. Obviously it's not about oneself, but everyone can say a set of their own opinions. With a little imagination and media comments on what they see, the "truth" is about to come out. In fact, no one cares what the truth is? But he can easily speak out about other people's life and death events. People are terrible because you know they are wrong, but everyone points their mistakes to you. It's like you are locked in a lunatic asylum, you desperately say that you are not mad, but others are more certain that you are a lunatic. One of the most impressive was that Nick knew he would be repaired and still bite the bullet to participate in a popular talk show. The media is best at manipulating people's minds, but as long as you can manipulate it, the one-sided results may be completely reversed. What people want to see is not the truth, but a brilliant "performance show", whoever has better performance ability can turn defeat into victory. Therefore, the "truth" is often not the truth, but the result of careful control. [The shadowy trembling is the most horrible] David Fincher's movies never disappoint! This film is adapted from the novel of the same name by Gillian Flynn (Gillian Flynn). Never read a novel, the effect of watching a movie directly is even more terrifying! In the beginning, the pace was slow and calm, and as the plot twisted, we who watched the movie unknowingly became the unknown husband Nick. The wife (enemy) has disappeared, but she seems to be a ghost who walks in the shadows. What's more terrifying than death is that you are always shrouded in the shadow of death, but you don't know when you will die? It's as if someone puts their hands on your neck and doesn't exert any effort or remove their hands. Taiwan’s translation of the title into "Control", personally feels quite accurate! There is no real perfection in this world, just as it is difficult to have a complete understanding between people. I think I know each other and want to control everything about each other. What I have is nothing but perfection in my imagination. The reality is still the farther and farther heart. Understanding human nature and controlling the human heart is indeed the most powerful revenge! But control is not love, and fear is not love. If you don’t care about love and just want to live in a world of self-deception, of course, that’s your choice! Flynn﹚'s novel of the same name. Never read a novel, the effect of watching a movie directly is even more terrifying! In the beginning, the pace was slow and calm, and as the plot twisted, we who watched the movie unknowingly became the unknown husband Nick. The wife (enemy) has disappeared, but she seems to be a ghost who walks in the shadows. What's more terrifying than death is that you are always shrouded in the shadow of death, but you don't know when you will die? It's as if someone puts their hands on your neck and doesn't exert any effort or remove their hands. Taiwan’s translation of the title into "Control", personally feels quite accurate! There is no real perfection in this world, just as it is difficult to have a complete understanding between people. I think I know each other and want to control everything about each other. What I have is nothing but perfection in my imagination. The reality is still the farther and farther heart. Understanding human nature and controlling the heart is indeed the most powerful revenge! But control is not love, and fear is not love. If you don’t care about love and just want to live in a world of self-deception, of course, that’s your choice!
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