creepy girl's love

Wayne 2021-10-13 13:06:42

If David Fincher's film must reveal human nature or something, I think this film should have an explanation for love. Of course, it will reflect the attitudes of other bystanders in the society, and the behavior of some related characters, but the production and function of public opinion are relatively old-fashioned, and there is no new explanation. I don't want to classify this as an understanding of the nature of marriage, because this is a perverted world after all, and it is difficult to compare it with normal marriage. Maybe it magnifies some of the vulgar points of marriage, so I won't comment.

Regarding love, the attitude of the heroine and the heroine are different. You may have seen perverted plots, and it is hard for everyone to think of the word love. However, the original face of love is erratic, without clear definition and judgment, it is very individual, so let's call the movie love for the time being. The Taiwanese translation is control, and it is also a word used repeatedly in movies. Control and love are easily linked. It is often said that selfish love includes control. The love of the heroine in the movie belongs to this category, but it is a bit crazy to be selfish. Through the accusation of the ex-boyfriend, it can be basically considered that the heroine has always been like this. This is a mental illness and has nothing to do with love. But watching the interview on TV so attentively by the hostess still made me feel that it was love in her heart. She returned to the life that belonged to her and the male protagonist. She had changed her appearance, but she did not hide it from the male protagonist. She is more like living with an ideal man, and she doesn't care what that man really is, as long as she is what she wants in front of her. This is the ultimate selfishness. For why she didn't find a new man to shape, it can be understood as the possessiveness of a control freak. How could a woman with such a desire to control let a cheating man escape easily. Let you die in the name of love. . . .

The part of the diary of the heroine in the movie is fictitious. What the hero said should be facts. Then the male protagonist’s violence and not wanting children are all planted by the female protagonist. The male host loses his job in middle age, loses his relatives, and even loses his dignity with his wife. The pressure can be imagined. This is not to defend his derailment, but to like Ben as me so much, I really don't want this man to become the beginning of everything wrong. This is also a sad place of human nature. When you first saw you, you were so charming. There is nothing wrong with falling in love with you. After owning you for many years, love has become hard work, even a bit beyond the reach.

The female protagonist feels that she has not lost the charm of the beginning, but the male protagonist has entered a midlife crisis. Perhaps this is a manifestation of the difference between disguise and reality. Maybe it was because the male protagonist was also disguising at first, but then he gave up when he was tired.

The hostess said after returning, you know me so well. She probably liked the feeling of being understood, it made her feel loved. It is also the main reason why the rich second generation can't look at her. He doesn't understand her too much, it's not love at all. I feel sorry for the male protagonist, knowing that it is the beginning of hate and the reason for being entangled.

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  • Samara 2022-03-26 09:01:01

    It is especially recommended for couples to watch it together. It is a good film to enhance the relationship and promote each other.

  • Kara 2022-03-23 09:01:09

    The requirements are based on suspense standards, and the last part is completely off-line, using black humor to make up for the far-fetched play; when it comes to fables, it is too straightforward. The price of cynicism is sacrificing the psychological space of the supporting role, but the sarcasm itself is very old-fashioned and superficial.

Gone Girl quotes

  • Ellen Abbott: I so appreciate you giving us this time, Nick.

    Nick Dunne: You went on national television and told people that I murdered my wife.

    Ellen Abbott: Well, I go where the story goes.

    Nick Dunne: You implied that I had carnal relations with my sister.

    Ellen Abbott: I didn't use the "I" word. I said you two were extremely close.

    Nick Dunne: You had a pile of nitwits diagnose me as a sociopath.

    Ellen Abbott: Icebreaker.

    Ellen Abbott: [shows him a robot cat toy] To go with your robot dog.

    Nick Dunne: I'll go find Amy.

  • Amy Dunne: [V.O] What scared me wasn't that he'd pushed me. What scared me was how much he wanted to hurt me more. What scared me was that I'd finally realized... I am frightened of my own husband.