A few days ago, my friend broke up with my boyfriend who had been talking for two and a half years. I was afraid that he would be bored, so I went to him to chat, listen to music and eat snacks. Season 10 episodes, each episode is 30 minutes, and just finished all night. Before I left, I couldn't help being curious about this drama+movie, and I copied it over and watched it intermittently for a week. I have never watched a gay drama before (Skam's air bubble cannot be counted). I actually saw a lot of my own shadow in this drama. The words and deeds of the actor and his friends can poke me in various ways, even The last episode of the second season almost shed tears, and the quarrel in the middle of the movie version also made me have to write something to reflect on myself.
The image of the male protagonist in the play is not good. Generally speaking, he is regarded as gay in the green tea. He admires his excellent and shining boss. He knows that the boss has a target or has not been able to stand in, and finally gets together and in turn suspects his boss. At the same time, there is a boy with a lower class and education that really admires him. He is interesting to him from beginning to end, but he has not dared to accept him because of his family, friends, and his own perspective. The story of the hero mainly revolves around these two men. The branches of his two good friends each have their own emotional work and even survival problems.
This play does not portray the relationship between the struggle of identity and the family. It is like a purely homosexual utopia (I don’t know if this is true in a foreign country with equal rights). It has skipped the prelude of coming out and temptation, and entered directly. As gay’s troubles about himself, when gay identity is generally accepted, these problems that heterosexuals have to face: can I get out of the clichés when I have an office romance with my boss? How should I choose between the one who likes me and the one I like? Can I be different from my lover across classes and identities? Can my family and friends accept that my lover is not their ideal type?
The male protagonist is a slightly conservative, orthodox and naive programmer. He is the kind of gay who should be the most normal straight guy if he is a straight guy. He is extremely afraid of AIDS and repels sexual intercourse. However, because of his naive personality, he generally let his family and friends Satisfied, and therefore enjoy a lot of care, but it has been failing on the road of love: for example, the longest relationship is less than half a year (this is a very typical gay circle form), longing for love and caring about giving, others don’t actively give Cherish, you will find that it is not unreasonable for the male protagonist to be single like this-and then you will think about whether you have so much in common with the male protagonist if you deserve no love. In the last episode of the second season, the male protagonist discovered that his boyfriend’s character was not good, and he might pursue an open relationship and was close to collapse. He began to confess his own psychology: I just want to be surrounded by love, and I want to have the ability to be loved and be loved. Value-but looking at it all the way, he is clearly destroying other people’s relationships but trying to clean himself, he even calls his lover late at night after having an affair with others, and has a good prospect in his "spare tire" He was still sad and flirting to make others misunderstood. In order to help him grow up, the script reserved two different feelings for him, constantly polishing his feelings.
When I was finally awakened by the "scumbag" K point, I think this is simply ideal. Which ex will calmly sit down with you and point out that your most fundamental problem is "If you encounter a problem, you want to run and dare not face it." Question of character"? The derailment of the scumbag K has been criticized, but what is more worth thinking about is that the male protagonist is obviously a conservative-minded and ordinary man, who is still going to step into the perfect couple to pursue excitement, use the spare tire to satisfy his enthusiasm and comfort loneliness. This This kind of scum, who would dare to say that he is innocent and innocent at all? Perhaps it is this kind of constant mistakes and corrections that make the characters in the play closer to reality and more lovely.
The title of the play is "Looking" instead of "Hooking". After all, everyone is still looking for a happy blue bird. Roaming like Dom will also indulge in 60-year-old Lynn. Agustin, who is madly pursuing sexual openness, and who is not able to hook up with male prostitutes, ends up with HIV. The masculine cute bear entered the palace of marriage-how did he think ten years ago that he was the first person in this group to get married and settle down? And our male protagonist, watching him from a disgusting coward to a coward who is not so coward, mustered up the courage to face the feelings that he gave up at the end, and the abandoned R asked "If we this time Have you failed again?" The male lead replied: "If you fail, you will fail. At least we have worked hard." Dare to face difficulties and muster the courage to solve them. This is already the first step in pursuing the blue bird.
Have you been tortured by the male god, and finally turned into a scar that can never heal? Have you ever made people cry late at night, and then feel guilty every time you face him? Are you the scumbag who made mistakes with the cute boys or are you asking why fate treats his wounded little beast like this? The hero in the play has his own director and screenwriter’s arrangement of the heavenly objects that are successfully ending, but ordinary people must either control their own desires and fight against the bad environment of the circle; or take advantage of their youth to indulge and continue to suffer after being confused and intoxicated. Pursuing hard; but believing that Jade Bird and with a sincere heart and bravely on the road will always be gifted by fate.
I hope my friend and his ex-boyfriend can continue to look and trial and error, continue to believe in love, and wish everyone happiness in their lives.
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