Online dating is unrealistic, and talk is unreliable. After Di An was disturbed by the stubborn gentleman on the phone and ran into the inner fawn, and promised to meet, the man was as knowledgeable, learned, rich, and wealthy as she imagined... If you ignore it If he is only 136 in height, then he is the perfect level of the lover of his dreams.
Alexander clearly saw Di An's disappointment and embarrassment, but he did not feel embarrassed by inferiority, instead he actively mentioned his height to relieve Di An, joking to relax her.
People will become sensitive to inferiority because of their own flaws, not to mention making fun of themselves, even if others may unintentionally mention a sentence, they will become annoyed. Since the defect cannot be changed, why not look at it from another angle? The reason why we are unique is not only because of our strengths, but also because of our shortcomings, that makes us what we are today.
When you no longer see defects as your own shortcomings, then no one can take this to laugh at you and hurt you.
When we first met, Alexander was very wild. He took Di An to skydive and felt the heartbeat together. The exciting and novel experience made Di An unforgettable for a long time. So they met again. This time Alexander brought Diane's romance and fulfillment. They went to a restaurant that Diane had never been to and danced on the dance floor. Such an interesting appointment would make Diane's heart become Alexander. Sink.
However, on the night when the two decided to communicate deeply, Diane looked at himself and Alexander in the mirror, and the traces of loss and faint anxiety still buried hidden dangers for their future.
Can we ignore the eyes of others and truly follow our own hearts to make decisions? Does Diane like Alexander? The answer is undoubtedly that she was really moved by him. Because she always smiled when she was with Alexander, and when he was not around, she would also smile because of the time she used to be with him.
But when her mother, friends, ex-husband, and outsiders all looked at her with strange eyes, Di An still chose to back down. But what right do we have to blame her? Haven't we given up our choices and our dreams because of the evaluations and opinions of others?
When the whole society is using "leftover women" to refer to unmarried women, how many older women are anxious to find a partner even if they don't have a favorite marriage partner, even if they are not in a hurry, their parents will be arrogant for them. So he kept on blind dates, got married and had children as soon as possible, and spent the rest of his life in the family and the firewood, forgetting what he meant as an individual in this world.
You have not lived for yourself, but for others.
After Diane finally figured it out, he plucked up the courage to take the helicopter and jump on the umbrella they had skipped together to pursue Alexander. I really like her confession to Alexander: "You are an extraordinary person, do you know? When I am with you, I feel loved and understood. When you are away, I will miss you and learn every day. New things, you make the world bigger."
This time, she didn't evade and kissed Alexander openly in front of everyone. When we truly go deep into our hearts and pursue what we want, we can finally ignore the eyes of others.
"Shrinking Dream" not only expresses the touching love, but also the process of finding oneself and following the heart. Alexander is indeed only 136 cm, but this does not prevent him from becoming a charming and attractive man. He is confident, humorous, and interesting in life. He is a good father as well as a good husband.
He will teach his son how to become a person who actively seeks opportunities. He will lead his lovers to experience an unprecedented surprise and adventure. He will also be serious and responsible for the project he has designed. He treats everyone around him sincerely. And friendly. So people often marvel at his character more and ignore his short height.
Although some people are tall, their short souls are destined to look down upon; some people are short, but interesting souls are worthy of many people's love.
Hope you can also become an interesting person.
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