"Waiting for so long, your heart will be broken, why haven't you come?"
"I have been so painful, struggling so hard, I have to reach your hand, why did you turn around and leave again, why don't you wait any longer?"
Encountered a crit from life, someone will take the lead to recover and start to create a new life. Others are too slow to come up with energy, trapped in place by the tangled water plants, it is useless to struggle. Faced with this drastic change, the two people who were in the same step began to become no longer consistent, and a more dangerous secondary injury occurred.
I watched him first and then her. I have to say that I chose the right order.
Seeing Yimei approach step by step, trying to do something, say something, try to rebuild something.
At the beginning of the film, he said: I have only one heart, be kind to me. And his girlfriend said: Shut up! Then offered a sweet kiss.
And then, there is no more sweet kisses, but only Shut up!
It makes people feel sorry for him. I couldn't help but complain, why his wife could not be a little softer and not resist him so much.
It is always easy for people to get stuck in their own position, only remember the part they are paying attention to, and always perceive that they are paying, being hurt and consumed. But I didn't expect others to do the same.
Just like the opening scene, what Yimei remembers is: They ate in a restaurant. Escape orders. Run all the way. Kissing on the grass. Yimei said to be kind to me.
In the same incident, what his wife remembered was the grass. firefly. kiss. The wife said that we were going to rent a car and drove aimlessly, and Yimei said that I would think of something rude.
So on the last night of its restaurant operation, Yimeihui chased after the two young men and women who had escaped orders. After catching them, they did not collect any money, but waved their hands and walked back. He is chasing himself when he was young, and chasing his beautiful love when he was young.
As for the wife, she and her little nephew went outside to catch fireflies, remembering that summer night many years ago, and remembering the wish that was mentioned casually. Thinking of the car quake, she fell on top of him, he helped her put on her underwear, and they danced together. After running away from home for a long time, she has always been very resistant to Yimei. She took the initiative to find Yimei this time, chatted casually, and then said let's go, just now, let's rent a car! Yimei is completely puzzled.
Even for this event, their memories are different.
Yimei remembers that he was wearing a white shirt and talked to her about his father. It took a while before she unfastened her seat belt. She attracted herself again, and he pressed her under him. Intractable lust. Then he wanted to talk, and she said goodbye—just like that summer night many years ago. But he still confessed: I slept with someone else.
(It is at this moment that he and her did not start at the same time. He was worried about the restaurant bill and was irritated by the cheerful music of the clerk. When he returned home, he still treated his wife with tenderness. Plea for joy was rejected. His wife seriously persuaded him to go. Derailment. In her version, none of these exist, and the wife jumped into the river at the beginning.)
As for his wife, Yimei in her memory is wearing a black shirt. I have been sensational, looking for memories of the past. Listen to the cheerful songs I have heard in the past, and eat the spicy noodles I have eaten in the past. Without saying a few words, she quickly unfastened her seat belt. She stroked his earlobe, straddled him, and unbuttoned his pants—just like that summer night many years ago. Then she felt his resistance, and she said: Did you sleep with someone else? He said it was you who made me sleep with someone else—he was so quibbling like a bastard—you disappeared, you left me.
Yimei said that his wife left him on a rainy night.
The wife's version is to get out of the car in the rain and walk into the empty subway entrance and cry, but he did not catch up.
What Yimei is worried about is that she was tortured by the restaurant that was going bankrupt, tortured by the pain of bereavement, and tortured by the father who swept through his mother’s wealth and then abandoned them (he thought it was torture), and still Treat her with tenderness, take care of her, and accommodate her at almost every step-why does she leave herself? Why does she still hate herself so much?
What the wife can't let go is that he was so painful that he could barely breathe, but he went to lunch after only experiencing a nightmare for half an hour. He actually went to bed as usual that night. excuse me? He said that he had been by her side, but we can imagine how many nights she tossed and turned, but he couldn't wake up soundly.
We hug each other, but they are thousands of miles apart.
That's it.
Born to be lonely. Also born selfish.
The things that I accidentally did wrong are all due to a reason, and they are all justifiable. The other party is different. The mistakes committed are always low-level, serious, completely avoidable and unforgivable.
We have long been used to justifying ourselves while magnifying each other's faults. Asking to forgive yourself, while criticizing the other party-I have tried my best, why don't you do more?
I thought you would do more.
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