At the time of marriage, girls have to accompany a huge amount of dowry and organize luxurious weddings to conform to the customs of some local states. Wealthy families have exhausted their parents’ savings for the rest of their lives, and poor families have not only bankrupted their fortunes, but also borrowed when they don’t have enough money. They borrowed usury, and since then they are burdened with heavy debts. So, marrying a daughter has become the least cost-effective business. Who else wants to have a girl? The abortion of baby girls has become a kind of ugly social consensus (go out and turn left to watch the previous episode). Under the cover of dowry customs, cheating of marriage and dowry is popular. Moreover, the operation is simple and convenient, which is loved by all kinds of scumbags. It is the same as putting the elephant in the refrigerator in three steps: be engaged, the woman sends out invitations widely known, and extorts money. When asking for a dowry is so justifiable, when a girl is repented by the man before marriage, she will be scorned and despised by her acquaintances and society around her, and when a man who cheats on a marriage, deceives money and deceives sex, domestic violence and abuse will not be punished by law, the kind of request for a woman The argument that children need to be self-reliant is pale and feeble. This makes me naturally think of Chinese wedding rooms. It’s said that the Chinese mother-in-law has pushed up housing prices. You say I don’t believe in evil. I despise money and only believe in true love. I just don’t buy a house. I talk to my blind date about my ideals in life. If she doesn’t like me, it means she has. Faults, vulgar, vulgar, I don't want such a person. . . You can go on like this forever, but please note that you are using the power of one person to fight against the entire social customs and the entire social values. I expect you to win, but you are actually more likely to be bruised and bruised. The change of social consensus requires the joint efforts and long wait of the whole society. We can't see that day, but maybe our children will see that when they get married, they don't need to prepare the marriage room in advance. Of course, the habit of marriage houses may not disappear at all, or even worsen, because now the ratio of men to women is seriously imbalanced, with more men than women, girls will become more popular, and in the seller’s market, girls can make more and higher demands. . So the question is, what is the solution? There is no one-time-and-for-all method. The only feasible option is to believe that there will always be people who don't like to go with the crowd like you. There are also girls. Your task is to find her.
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