At first, this drama attracted my attention because of my curiosity about the life of compensated dating women. I didn’t understand this “industry” before, nor could I understand why some female college students would be willing to engage in such a “career”. Fortunately, I encountered this drama. However, after looking at it as a whole, I can't really feel the same, but I know more about such a group of girls. I have no disgust or criticism of the protagonist of this film, and the same is true of the drama itself. There is no such thing as "salvation" or "moral commanding heights" to directly show Christine's aided dating life in a cold tone. So the whole series is actually left to the audience to judge. Then I will talk about my opinion.
"Girlfriend Called" shows Christine's aided dating from two vertical and horizontal lines. The vertical line is how she went from a sophomore law student to an independent aided dating girl, and the horizontal line is the reaction and attitude of her colleagues, friends, and family members as she changes.
In the process of Christine's choice to do compensated dating, what I saw was not a woman forced by life. Her independence, intelligence, and calmness sometimes make me admire, and at the same time, these words can also be interpreted as: loneliness, clear purpose, and cold-blooded. She is a woman who is surprisingly calm and knows what she wants. In the early days of getting involved in aided dating, she seemed to be curious, but in fact she had already made a decision. I cannot criticize a person who yearns for a better life, nor can I accuse a beautiful girl who wants to dress up, live in a big house, or go to high-end restaurants. If sex is a necessity in life, why can't she use it to make money and make her life better?
What is the so-called aided dating? It is very different from ordinary prostitutes. Although it is also selling oneself, because of its high knowledge, customers also have emotional needs and the need to talk. Don't think that this "career" is easy, just smile beforehand, enjoy it during the event, and take the money afterwards. Since the dates are all successful middle-aged and elderly people, what they need first is spiritual comfort. They need emotional resonance and someone to talk to. When their wives are tired of listening to them talking about professional terms and business experiences in the office, it is so comfortable to have a beautiful woman who constantly affirms and puts forward her own opinions, and at the same time allows them to feel their strength. After getting the satisfaction of the soul, you can open the room and hug the beautiful and graceful carcass. It is really enjoyable. Afterwards, watching her nest in her arms was also fascinating. Therefore, the above "market demand" requires the aided dating women to have a certain amount of knowledge, a graceful figure, a decent appearance, and a good talker. You know, pleasing others not out of sincerity requires skill and tiring. If all of this is done, then her return is naturally generous-besides the one-hour salary of $1,000, there are other benefits.
Christine can be said to be lucky when he first entered the industry. At least the few "customers" she met were all normal high-end people. The process of "transaction" starts with eating and chatting. It can be said that the process of "dating" is taken, which should be regarded as a kind of respect. Over time, several clients got caught up in it, doing more for her (borrowing money, leaving her inheritance, etc.).
However, compensated dating is, after all, an elusive "professional", and it is always full of dangers:
1. You have to completely separate your real life and aided dating life, not just yourself, but also your "clients";
2. Because you can't see the light, when someone uses compensated dating to threaten you, you are almost helpless;
3. Once the life of aided dating is exposed, the face is a complete collapse of life.
The above points can be said to be fatal, and Christine also walks in danger every day. Generally speaking, this business can be said to be a game, and both parties will be happy to follow the rules of the game together, but if there is one person who wants to cross the rules of the game, it must be hurt, and the injured are more of compensated dating girls. Because in terms of morality, a man may be forgiven for cheating, but if you are a compensated dating girl, then I am sorry, everyone in the world will question your morality. The scary thing is that such a situation has really happened. When Christine's compensated dating video was exposed, her real life can be said to be over. No matter how careful she was before, no matter how careful she was to maintain it, the collapse was only a momentary matter.
If you really want to give Christine a reason to do compensated dating, I think there may be reasons for selfishness and loneliness. Looking at her circle of friends, it can be said that there are almost none. At the same time, she does not seem to have a particularly affectionate relationship with her relatives. If things don't happen, she may be judged as an independent personality. And if you want to use a derogatory term to describe it, it's selfish. In the chat between her and her sister, we can see her view of interacting with people "unless you can achieve something when you communicate with someone". In fact, I agree with this view. People-to-person communication or maintaining a relationship should be more objective and must be profitable. When you communicate with another person, there are three motivations: 1. It can bring happiness; 2. You can learn; 3. You can get benefits (money or other help). Think about it carefully, it's nothing more than these. Therefore, if your purpose is clear, it is impossible to have people who waste time and useless to you to maintain the relationship. In the eyes of the public, this should be "selfish".
Of course, in the later period, her mother also made a selfish evaluation of this "unfilial daughter": she didn't care about others at all. In the end, thinking for yourself, getting what you want with a clear goal, and not caring about others, is really selfish? Suspicious here. Probably because of Christine's worldview and way of doing things, she seems out of place in the real world and is naturally lonely. And the characteristic of loneliness is exactly in line with the characteristics of compensated dating: this obscure business cannot be shared with others. Every time she blows her hair and pretends to "take the job", she is destined to be alone. Then, when she wore high heels and walked to the door of the last presidential suite under the dim lights of a high-end hotel, she could be said to be the loneliest figure I have ever seen.
Finally, let’s talk about whether people can do the so-called "laughing at the poor but not at the prostitution". Under the public moral judgment, a girl like Christen is dead. If you don’t go to college and sell yourself to make money, your brain is sick, right? However, we also look at the so-called lawyer's business she is engaged in. Are there no unspoken rules in every industry? There are many unclean law firms. Some collude with their classmates and communicate with the legal agents of the two companies. Some use their bodies in exchange for the power of a case. There are also ubiquitous internal transactions... It can be said that these are truly against the law and Dirty things, but no one despises them. On the contrary, when our heroine was exposed in an indecent video, people made irresponsible remarks, eyes, and judgments about her. However, I asked myself, what do I think about aided dating? Can I see them in real life without wearing colored glasses? It should not be. After all, I have a moral standard that has been instilled in me since ancient times. However, as individuals, I believe that we should respect the career choices of others (of course, if this is a career).
Every industry has its own drawbacks. Compensated dating women are no exception. While getting money easily, Christen's emotions and life are completely different. At the beginning, she could also face the "customer" with emotion, and she could even show her inner smile slightly. When one of them died, he was moved and wept bitterly. Faced with the accusations of the "client" wife, she would still be nervous and even shake her hands... But as she gradually met more perverted people, she also became "professional". A mask was gradually put on her face, saying "professional" words, doing "professional" work, not giving any extra points or giving in. Maybe due to frequent loveless sex, she lost interest in making love later, and could only satisfy herself with her own masturbation video-because the oldest way of obtaining happiness in mankind can no longer give her any pleasure. At the same time she also lost the ability to love. Isn't this a kind of sadness?
(Here does not show the front of the wife, but only shows the silhouette, which is a kind of endorsement for all wives)
With these 13 episodes, I saw the birth of a compensated dating girl. In the world's judgment standards, she is shameless. But when she chooses to take such a path of life, I think she has her own reasons. What I can give to girls in this industry is more of a concern: after all, this industry has no legal or ethical protection. Whatever you can do is to protect your own safety as much as possible.
May 8, 2016 0:40
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