Before watching the movie, I always thought that the two would be together. Until a few minutes before the end, when the male lead returned home and sat on the bed, I thought he would confess with his wife, and then bravely pursue Wendy for the rest of his life.
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How much I envy the life of the heroine, it is the ideal of a deadly youth who needs material security very much. She has a successful and interesting career ~ book reviews, critics, and income can enable her to buy a house in Manhattan to support her daughter in school and support her husband. She is also beautiful, middle-aged, with a charming figure. I like two plots: one, remembering the life with her husband, stepping barefoot on her husband’s barefoot, embracing and dancing, affectionately; when the husband washes, he surrounds his belly and rests his head on her back, this There is a close-up of the scene. The hands are put on weakly, intertwined, and attached to the back, breathing deeply; the director is a female, I don’t know if her female perspective has noticed this, or the actor’s "acting skills", This is a scene that I often can't think of by myself
"You finally care about being in my room
You closed your eyes and kissed me
Don't say a word, hold me tightly in your arms",, all the details, and breathe.
However, as good as her in my eyes, she will also encounter betrayal from her husband. At present, I will not completely accuse my husband, I can understand his cheating behavior.
Husband (Ted), I think the reasons for being a scumbag are: 1. Cheating first, not confessing first. 2. Divide Wendy's property, including forcing her to sell her house and her soul residence. At this point, would I still think so if they were sexually transformed? (A, a woman has achieved such an achievement, even in the United States, they have to pay more than a man; b, whoever cheats is the wrong party in the marriage and should be compensated for the other party. The legal blind thinks this way for the time being.) 3. I think he is quality The problem is that many men, or selfishness, were exposed when there were no legal and social norms. He went back to the house to fetch his own things and delayed time. When the car was towed away, he said to the police "my wife." "Kick me out", pour all the dirty water on the head of his wife, without the slightest guilt of cheating on oneself, guilt of plundering his wife's property. Wendy heard this, so she wouldn't pay to redeem the man anymore. She stood for a while, then left him happily, very courageous in sharing the property. After that, he was open to the king and blind date.
Worship the introspection of the heroine. After the emotional breakdown in front of her daughter, she called to apologize and reflect on herself.
Worship the heroine's calmness. After her daughter is emotionally frustrated, she is advised to stick to her love of agriculture and not let her live with herself during the emotional adjustment period. This is good for both of them.
Worship the heroine's sense of justice and empathy . When the king faced a malicious attack on him by passers-by, she asked with respect and understanding; after the crash, she rushed to the rain to explain to the police, accusing the truck driver of racial discrimination. On the return journey, I asked the king carefully how he felt about traditional marriage. After receiving no clear answer, he would not mention it again. It was such politeness and respect.
When facing the king who she liked was about to confess, she was also calm, with tears in her eyes, and calmly responded with a smile, "you are my faith"; "you are a good man".
The king is also forbearing, standing up straight and taking a deep breath. This is the characteristic that the movie gives to this character, without much demeanor.
Then tell her, "fasten your seat belt first". This is the last thing he can do and express his love for her.
I personally think that this scene is eternal love, and love is instant and eternal. Wouldn't this love last for their entire lives? The world makes them unable to be with each other, and the love in the heart will last until life stops.
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I deliberately designed a lot of bridges to make me misunderstand, the king will confess with the heroine. He asked her what gift she liked, and it turned out to be given to his wife who had never seen each other. He lay on his wife's lap, repeating what Wendy had said. "The husband lies on his wife's lap, and the wife reads love poems." This is his yearning for the heroine; and his wife is keenly aware of it, and he said defensively.
I am not interested in the motto of life that combines driving with life in the film. What I am touched is the details of these helpless men and women in love, hesitant, tolerant, a touch of sweetness, eternal sigh, courage, and cowardice.
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Class difference
The male lead lived in Queens, and the female lead lived in Queens when she was a child. She is a low-level and unhappy family in the United States. Their short-term "travel" to Queens also answered the female lead's own feelings about her father's abandonment of the family. It is considered good for the male protagonist to be born in his hometown. However, different national conditions, immigration, and religion have created new differences and opportunities. This is a fragmented drama. I like their conversation at the beach, the back view, and the shooting angle of the director. I like it very much. The heroine loves to imagine, Wen Qing may be like this.
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I also like the Indian wife, and finally got the courage to go to American society. She first encountered discrimination from a black shop assistant, and then met with community support from the same ethnic group. She went to pray and go to school. The male lead also gave full respect when he saw his wife's gathering at home.
There are also nephews of the male protagonist among the immigrants, who find Jewish girlfriends for the sake of identity and fully embrace American culture.
The king, as a politically asylum immigrant, would rather suffer all kinds of discrimination, but still insist on his beliefs. After he confessed to Wendy, he went to religious confession. There was his wife in the church, and he looked at his wife firmly.
They were in the basement room, stroking each other's cheeks and leaning their heads together. In the future, there will definitely be a strong connection and a very firm intimacy in each other. However, this connection can still exist if the male protagonist chooses the female protagonist, and it will be even stronger!
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The frustration and sadness of love is not that there are good people and bad people, and one party pays and the other takes possession, which is not sad; it is that everyone is good, coincidentally, and disappointed each other.
But if this is my story, my creation, or my experience, I will let the male and female masters be together, and abandon all secular constraints to be together bravely. Because love, the love of heart and soul is too rare. How can you ruin yourself?
They are spiritually connected, have been injured, have the same taste, and will live a more fulfilling life than ordinary. The male protagonist’s experience, knowledge, character, and circle of friends; the female protagonist’s experience, knowledge, character, and circle of friends, can inspire each other, even if there is a spark of friction, you can still do better. Although daily training and cultural differences are all burdens; male protagonists still have these problems if they stick to the current marriage contract, but if they want to be more fulfilled, they can only find people with more fulfilled souls.
The king asked imploringly, "Can we chat, drink coffee, I want to see you again," this is love,
Real love, consuming love, exhausted love; appointments for coffee, chatting, and meeting are all plain and plain scenes, but it takes a lot of courage to take a role, and how much determination it takes to refuse such a request. These are all very powerful. The emotional power and the power of will are the charm of human beings and the charm of love.
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