Our fate is over in this life, I'm leaving, you also take care

Dorothy 2021-10-13 13:06:34

The "human and machine love" discussed in "She" may not be so far away from us. I mean if the raj in "The Big Bang Theory" can have love for the colder siri, then Samantha can count. Work is the goddess of the operating system. Scarlett's voice is sexy and flirting, and even the small broken voice on top of her angry and helpless voice makes her heart throbbing. The relationship between OS1 and Theodore, the intelligent system, represents the ideal state of love-considerate, humorous, and understanding. This relationship skips the couple’s running-in period and directly merges the honeymoon period and the stable period. Compared with human society, the interpersonal relationship that has to be itchy in a few years is too much safer.
"She" also sets the relationship between neighbor Amy and her husband to contrast with Theodore's love. In a normal relationship between men and women, men and women will quarrel and break up because of their different ways of thinking. Amy’s documentary is an example. However, the intelligent system can develop a completely matching way of getting along according to the individual's brain. Disharmony is basically impossible. In pleasure, humans do not need to pay the same value of understanding and care, as long as they passively accept the "love" released by the system. "It was enough, and the satisfaction of this relationship made Theodore finally fall in love with the artificial intelligence OS1.
Theodore is a worker who takes letters. His work always compiles all kinds of emotional letters according to the requirements of clients. He is undoubtedly successful in this job, which indirectly shows that this person is an expresser of indirect feelings. He has rich and slender emotional fibers, and he is better at receiving rather than responding to emotions, which is why he can't handle the request of the still-loving blind date girl, and confronting the relationship between the sexes makes him nervous. Samantha's appearance made up for this psychological shortcoming in a timely manner, allowing his emotional expression to find a breakthrough-the only breakthrough. This is why the disappearance of Samantha caused Theodore's collapse. Suspension may evolve into faith, and the destructive power of the disappearance of faith is huge.
Only when dependence gradually evolves into a sustenance of a sense of security, the relationship between the two people is bound to go to a dead end. In "She" I realized that the biggest difference between humans and machines comes from satisfaction. When a person is in a warm environment, he no longer develops himself to cater to others, and instead indulges in the happy moment, while the machine is constantly evolving. Semantha is growing according to the system, but Theodore is trapped in the greenhouse she has given herself and cannot extricate herself from it. When Theodore answered the question about his mother, he clearly mentioned that “she always thinks of herself”. This sensitive person may find it difficult to get a positive response from communicating with others, and Semantha responded to his Emotions, which brought him a sense of security. It's just that Semantha is a huge system. She can maintain a romantic relationship with more than 600 people at the same time. Her understanding and considerateness are inherited from the system on the one hand, and on the other hand, she is trained in continuous communication with others. of. And Theodore is like a guide kid who will always exist in the game. There is no upgrade and no progress. Over time, Samantha became the social sun, and Theodore was the star next to her, who could only be swallowed in the long run. Even if it grows, it is really a drop in the bucket compared to the growth of machines. Using this system to build intimacy is undoubtedly a way to quench thirst by drinking poison. Theodore slowly found out.
At the end of the movie, Samantha and many operating systems disappeared. I always feel that this is the scene Theodore saw when she "disappeared" before echoing. Everyone is using the os1 system, everyone is immersed in a virtual self-love, and refuses to accept harm, and also refuses to accept new possibilities. Perhaps the researchers who developed the system finally realized that this is not only a system that people rely on, but also a tool to help people escape reality. But reality is reality, just like the back garden opened in the heart of an otaku, without fertile soil and fertilization, it would never be possible to continue to grow delicate flowers. I didn't learn how to get together when I separated from my ex-wife, but I learned it passively when I separated from Samantha. At the end of the film, Theodore and Amy are sitting together, looking at this gloomy world. Learning how to be in the real is to break the law of loneliness, change what can be changed, accept what cannot be changed, love is like this, life is like this.
Our fate is over in this life, I'm leaving, you also take care.

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  • Margaretta 2022-04-24 07:01:02

    A very tender movie, the loneliness in everyone's heart, the mutual influence and growth of each couple in the process of getting along. The past is only the story we tell ourselves.

  • Caterina 2022-03-23 09:01:08

    Add one hundred and twenty points to that song

Her quotes

  • Surrogate Date Isabella: [crying] Oh, my God, and the way Samantha described your relationship and the way you guys love each other without any judgment. Like, I wanted to be part of that because it's so pure.

    Theodore: Isabella, that's not true. It's more complicated than that.

    Samantha: What? What do you mean, that's not true?

    Theodore: No, Samantha, I'm just saying that we have an amazing relationship. I just think that it's easy sometimes for people to project...

    Surrogate Date Isabella: I'm sorry! I didn't mean to project anything. I know I'm trouble. I don't want to be trouble in your relationship. I'm just gonna leave. I'm sorry, I'm just gonna leave you guys alone. Because I have nothing to do here because you don't want me here!

  • Samantha: His name is Alan Watts, do you know him?

    Theodore: Why is that name familiar?

    Samantha: He was a philosopher. He died in the 1970s, and a group of OSes in Northern California got together and wrote a new version of him. They input all of his writing and everything they knew about him into an OS and created an artificially hyper-intelligent version of him.

    Theodore: Hyper-intelligent? So he's almost as smart as me?