"Little Man": Don't talk about money, and cold-blooded

Glennie 2022-10-21 10:02:27

Xiaojie's grandfather had lived in a two-story house in Brooklyn, New York City. His grandfather lived on the second floor. The store on the first floor was rented to a mother and son: Tony and his mother who was a tailor. Before his death, Grandpa left the property to Xiaojie's family. After grandpa passed away, Xiaojie and his parents moved in naturally.

Because of their similar ages and similar interests, the 13-year-old Xiaojie and Tony quickly became inseparable friends. The two play together, play games together, and even dream of going to high school together.

However, due to financial constraints and living pressures, Xiaojie’s parents had to charge Tony’s mother a higher rent (just the same as the Brooklyn market rent. Before that, Xiaojie’s grandfather only accepted Tony’s mother rarely Rent) to provide household expenses. However, Tony’s mother said that “I and Xiaojie’s grandfather are very good friends”, “This store adds a lot to this street”, “Compared to you (Xiaojie’s parents), I am more like a child "Grandpa Jie’s relatives" refused to pay more rent, and refused to move out when Xiaojie’s parents drove him away. For this reason, the two families moved from being friendly to each other to disputes.

Because of the quarrel between the adults, the friendship between Xiaojie and Tony was gradually affected. Tony's mother forced him not to play with Xiaojie; Xiaojie's father no longer stayed at Tony, and even refused to let Tony come to their house to play games. In order to avenge the interference of their parents in their friendship, Xiaojie and Tony both decided not to talk to their parents.

In the end, Xiaojie's father used legal means to drive away the mother and son who were unwilling to pay more rent. Xiaojie and Tony parted ways.

This story is the plot of director Ella Sachs’ film "Little People". From the confrontation between the parents due to the rent to the two children being affected by the disputes between the parents, the director explored the subtle changes in the friendship between the children with the delicate and rigorous shots and the deep life of the still water. How innocent, can't resist the calculations of the adult world.

"Adults look at benefits, children value feelings." This delicacy in the movie is reflected in real life and directly touches the heart of everyone with similar experiences. Recall that when you were a child, were you forced to become a victim of the phrase "Don't play with him/her!" because of the discord between your parents?

Looking back at this story, are Xiaojie's parents wrong? No, because they increased the rent at a reasonable market price. Is there anything wrong with the two children? Not to mention, is it possible to make a friend and be condemned by God? But when the two are mixed together, the problem arises: the children's feelings are stifled by the interests of the adults; the parents are in a difficult choice because of the close relationship between the children.

People often say, "Talking about money hurts feelings and talking about feelings hurts money", but they can't find a solution. How can money and feelings not hurt at the same time? Isn’t it the only thing left to talk about money and cold-blooded?

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Extended Reading

Little Men quotes

  • Tony Calvelli: [describing his father's infrequent returns home] We seem like a normal family, and then - boom - they start fighting about something stupid, like always, and... I realize it's better when he's not around.

  • [acting class, with teacher and student frequently repeating each confrontational exchange multiple times]

    Acting Teacher: How long have you been doing this exercise?

    Tony Calvelli: How long have you been doing this exercise?

    Acting Teacher: I'm not playing with you!

    Tony Calvelli: I'm not playing with you!

    Acting Teacher: You know, you make me make mistakes in my own exercise!

    Tony Calvelli: You know, you make me make mistakes in my own exercise!

    Acting Teacher: You make me make mistakes in my own exercise!

    Tony Calvelli: You MAKE me make mistakes in my own exercise!

    Acting Teacher: I make you make mistakes!

    Tony Calvelli: I make you make mistakes!

    Acting Teacher: I make this exercise the way I like it!

    Tony Calvelli: I make this exercise the way I like it!

    Acting Teacher: I LIKE the exercise!

    Tony Calvelli: I LIKE the exercise!

    Acting Teacher: I love the exercise!

    Tony Calvelli: I love this exercise!

    Acting Teacher: I don't wanna do any other exercise!

    Tony Calvelli: I don't WANNA do any other exercise!

    Acting Teacher: I DON'T wanna do another exercise!

    Tony Calvelli: I never wanna do another exercise!

    Acting Teacher: I never wanna do another exercise!

    Tony Calvelli: I never wanna do another exercise!

    Acting Teacher: You have a terrible attitude!

    Tony Calvelli: YOU got a terrible attitude!

    Acting Teacher: Your attitude is more horrible than MINE!

    Tony Calvelli: Your attitude's more horrible than MINE!

    Acting Teacher: You're a master of horrible attitudes!

    Tony Calvelli: YOU'RE the master of master horrible!

    Acting Teacher: You got the swiss cheese up inside your skull instead of a brain!

    Tony Calvelli: I got the swiss cheese inside my skull instead of a brain!

    Acting Teacher: I don't know how you get anything done all day long!

    Tony Calvelli: I don't know how I get anything done all day long!

    Acting Teacher: I don't know how YOU get anything done all day long!

    Tony Calvelli: I don't know how YOU get all day done at all!

    Acting Teacher: I don't know what you're talkin' about!

    Tony Calvelli: I don't know what YOU'RE talkin' about!

    Acting Teacher: I never know what you're talkin' about!

    Tony Calvelli: I never know what I'm talkin' about!

    [pause]

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