KPR in my eyes is still unfinished

Jules 2022-09-03 09:37:32

After eating raw meat and watching the final film of LOOKING, I saw too much of myself in P. Probably I couldn't objectively evaluate the show from the beginning. For me personally, I don’t think the KPR line in the ending is convincing enough, but this does not prevent this drama from becoming the unshakable top in my heart.
To undertake the PK quarrel at the end of S2, P chose to leave San Francisco to escape This relationship, while waiting for the movie version for a long time, I have been thinking why P can’t trust K. In my understanding, P didn’t have enough confidence in this relationship from beginning to end, or P didn’t have any confidence in himself. With enough confidence, he can’t believe that he can completely get K’s love. If he still has an impression of the previous lines, P once mentioned that he was always fat in childhood. Although his family seems to be harmonious and happy, But both mother and sister are critical and powerful women of the drama queen type. I think in this sense, we see P is a handsome, charming, easy-going caring family background and a bright future for a perfect boyfriend, but in P's positioning, he It's a fat and incompetent gay who is disgusted by the family and is incompetent in love. So in PK's relationship, P is not confident, and P does not believe that he has the ability to control the relationship. I think this kind of relationship is quite subtle. P has different judgments about this relationship intellectually and emotionally. He understands that they get along in a pleasant and harmonious relationship, and he is comfortable in this stable relationship. of. Emotionally, he is not sure that he has the ability to maintain such a relationship, and in terms of emotional processing, P is completely immature, and he is very emotional, which is true for both K and R. So in my opinion, has PK ever loved it? of course!!! But P’s love is very reserved, he lacks confidence in himself, he is afraid of being hurt, so after K’s normal gray area problem was raised, he lit the fuse, P broke out and P escaped
For K, the broadcast of the movie version of the passages allows me to be sure that K is absolutely in love with P. Regarding PK's feelings, no matter how I like Xiao Qiao to empathize with P, I can't deny that K has been hurt more. The feeling of lack of confidence seems to me to be logical. Because P is different from those glamorous bitches!! (Big fog) P is the kind of beautiful, charming and unknowing person. As a fan of Xiao Qiao, I really think Xiao Qiao’s image and personality fit P, Sweet Joe It’s not for nothing. In S1 and S2, P silly white sweet occasionally sells stupidity and is interpreted by Xiao Qiao very moving. Returning to the role setting of P, a 30-year-old gay still retains the innocence of a teenager, plus the lack of humans and animals. He looks sweet and cute, and smiles warmly. This attraction is deadly. If you match K’s growth experience (drinking father, mother leaving home, rebellious teenager, leaving home early) and his career promotion, it is easy to think that K is a precocious person, and his uncertainty about relationships comes from him. The misfortune of his native family, but he expects a stable relationship. Even in the relationship between K and J, he has been struggling with pain, and he is also trying to restore the relationship and get the relationship back on track. Back to the PK, it is obvious that P is in line with K’s perception of an ideal partner. In the last stairwell of S2E10, where K’s vision of sitting on the porch together is really prickling, he must have really thought about it. This passage must have moved P, at least in the movie P used two old man stalks when he calmed A's anxiety before marriage on the hill. K has always been protective of P. The comfort of Halloween in S2, the unreasonable B at the exhibition, the bad reviews about APP, and even the proposed office etiquette distance all come from his instinctive protection of P, so in In the movie, when K pokes at P and says I want you to be happy, that is really K's consistent performance.
Let me talk about my views on R. I am not optimistic about PR's feelings. Is R true love to P? Yes! What about P vs. R? not necessarily. Starting from S2, R is too much like a spare tire for P. Every time he feels that the relationship with K is not going well, he chooses to find comfort at R. It is no wonder that B has such a relationship with P. Deep hostility, isn't B's angle of my strange boyfriend and his green tea-based ex-boyfriend. In fact, the plot developed to the movie version, I quite dislike R. R’s attitude towards feelings is too frank. R is the kind of careless love between you and your old love. From time to time, he engages in small ambiguities with the old love. When you can’t bear to break up with him, he will continue to play the role of the victim. What's even more shameless is that two hours later he will tell his old love that I have been dating a person I don't love for a year at a super low level. Then the old love's two words of comfort, he gave him a hug again!!!! Those little friends who think that PK is a green tea base, how do you double mark that R is a positive energy little angel. It's too ugly to appear in such a posture in a relationship. If you want to cheat, you should at least have the consciousness of being a wicked person. Distressed B... Even if I put aside my subjective aversion to the role of R, P and R are not a harmonious combination. P is only in this relationship. Have enough self-confidence, and this kind of self-confidence generated by the inherent social class is a kind of pseudo-confidence, does this kind of control over feelings make sense? Is this kind of security what a good relationship should have? , The wise see wisdom.
The processing of the paragraphs of P and K in the movie is really heartbreaking. A second before seeing P fiddle with his hair on the elevator, K and P seem to be casually joking, K exaggerated "show love" when ordering coffee, chatting I complained about silence and panic from time to time, but I couldn’t help but blurt out the words'were you ever in love with me?' Angrily and anxiously said'you donnot even try', you quit, you run away, you donnot take risks, ever." K threw out his anger for nine months, but he lost the battle when he saw P's sadness. They don’t know how to be friends. How can someone who truly loves be a friend? Will you sleep with a friend? He wouldn't kiss you like a brother, but no matter when, you still want to sleep with someone you love.
——Kevin, do you honestly think we would have worked?
——I would like to have given it a try.
——Becaues despite everything,I just want you to be happy,man. ——Why
?
——Cause I love you.
the last hug, K hugs P, kisses his profile lightly, kisses his lips, rubs his ears, just like the day they struggled and finally got together, at the door of P’s apartment, K carefully bypassed P's injured arm, took his face, and brushed his fingers across his ears. Everything seemed to have never happened. They were still the happiest.
K turned and walked off the subway. For me, this movie ends here. In Heimer’s story, this is their ending, but the people in my heart who truly love each other won’t be separated so easily. There are so many dissatisfaction in reality. I want to believe that there is a better ending in parallel time and space.

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