has a strong sense of fear for this kind of unsolvable difficulty, entanglement, falling into emotion or any other inextricable powerlessness caused by the infinite loop. What is the right way of life? What do you want?
I went to him again and again, but instead of getting a solution, he was disappointed again and again. The gap in emotional understanding between men and women has gradually widened into an insurmountable gap. This distance cannot be solved by communication. What is needed more is tolerance. This is the only way to maintain a long-term relationship.
At the moment when he finally went to find him when he moved, she already understood that she wanted him and decided to stay and relive as a way to end her stay in the tri-state area, but she still left. Too many unresolved personal problems, and the estrangement between each other, is not a psychological distance that can be eliminated by "I love you" with each other. He couldn't understand her too much, and she was too paranoid to let it go. No one is right or wrong.
I want to find him and find the original someplace good again, but they are no longer the same. I wanted to find someone free and easy, but at the last moment I found that it was not what I wanted. Trying to find something that can be fixed, trying to eliminate the powerlessness caused by uncertainty by finding something that I have determined in the past, and constantly looping back and forth, she pushes away to find him, she goes to find him who she pushes away Attempt to retrieve the past. I want to push him away but I want to get close to him. Fall into an infinite loop that cannot be broken away.
I feel that their relationship is somewhat similar to the relationship between David and Giovanni in Giovanni's room. David didn't know he wanted G until the end, after he left with H and found that he could no longer love her or anyone. When G was about to die, when the story was narrated, he knew that he wanted G. But when I was entangled with G, I wanted to escape him. I loved him but hoped to break free from him, and hope he would disappear forever. They don't know what they want, so they fall into an endless loop of emotions. This feeling of being stuck in the middle is like Rigby wants to leave Conor to start over, want to escape her someplace good memory, escape her child's memory, but is left behind by his love for him. Stuck.
Feeling that the final outcome is probably her final decision to let go of all this and start again after a long time of thinking. She decided to tolerate the other party and decided to understand the other party's incomprehension. I really like this HE. It's not about hugging and kissing, just being calm, and re-accepting each other.
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