The problem of love is for us to face ourselves

Leopold 2022-11-13 16:56:43

The Korean movie "Inner Beauty" (Taiwan translation: falling in love with a lover) is one of my favorite romantic films these days. The literary and artistic beauty of the film truly expresses the psychological dilemma of people in love. Although it is still about the external and internal influences on love, the fantasy setting of the hero "changing face" after waking up not only allows the heroine to constantly switch between fresh, interesting and uneasy emotions, it also allows us watching movies. I saw myself in a dilemma in the good and bad of love. After the actor Yu Zhen woke up on his eighteenth birthday, he suddenly turned into another strange face. After that, as soon as he fell asleep, he would change into another face when he woke up! The frightening thing is that it is completely unpredictable what kind of face it will become. It is possible for men, women, children, domestic and foreigners. It's like a strange disease with no solution, I don't know why? There is no cure, obviously it is not his fault, but he can only isolate himself from the world like a monster. Until he met the girl (Li Xiu who worked in a furniture store) who treated him the same no matter what he became, he began to want to walk into the sun, to have a love that would not be lost due to changes in appearance, and to live life. From then on no longer walking alone on the road. Although the protagonist’s face change in one day is indeed incredible, the plot’s direction is very real, just like all love: two people love each other, confirm each other, in order to be together for a long time, it is bound to reveal the secrets that no one knows deep in his heart. Fortunately, the secret of Dangyu Town is no longer an obstacle between the two, and love has a thickness other than sweetness. However, after the passionate love, there will always be some differences, and the deliberately ignored problems gradually surfaced as the two became closer and closer. What's helpless is that the growing deep emotions can't get rid of the psychological pressure caused by his difference. For Li Xiu, after walking out of the two-person world, he has to face other people's suspicion and incomprehensible eyesight, as well as the panic that he can't shake his face even though he knows his love for him. If you have ever liked a person who is not optimistic about everyone besides yourself, you may be able to understand Li Xiu's inability to be entangled and helpless with others. One: I love you, but I don't recognize you. I heard that no matter how much you like your lover's face, you can't avoid aesthetic fatigue after looking at it for a long time. This is human nature, and you can't get rid of the fatigue caused by being too familiar. Too familiar makes people feel dull, but only familiarity can make people feel safe, and "safety" is a vital part of love. If one day, suddenly you can't remember your lover's face, how terrible would it feel? Obviously he should be the most familiar person, but every day is a new strange face, no matter how strong the heart is, it is hard not to panic! This is why when Yu Zhen joked on the street and asked Li Xiu to find him, she would immediately turn her face and leave! Because of love Trying to accept Yu Zhen's uniqueness, but the fear that he can't be recognized in the vast sea of ​​people is still with him. Second: I love you, but you can only be my secret. There is a boyfriend who "changes her face" every day. Everyone thinks that she often changes her boyfriend. There is no explanation, so she can only smile helplessly. Because the world is always accustomed to regard "different" as "weird and absurd", and the strange vision projected is sometimes caring, sometimes not. To choose to protect love, you must be wary of keeping a distance from others, and occasionally telling lies that are harmless but not what you want. When the light of love does not illuminate the gloom of reality, but instead allows the shadow of reality to gradually cover the originally luminous love, it is difficult to be melancholy. It is said that love is a matter between two people. Of course, it is not necessary to explain it to others. But, apart from loving each other, which lovers do not want to face the world together and share the happiness of love with their close ones. Don't conceal like doing something wrong, lock the happiest and beautiful things in a dark room. I don't know how to be lonely? Unknowingly push love into a black hole, turning happiness into pain. Yu Zhen: "Love can solve any problem, but it's also because love ruins everything!" 』Indeed it is. Don't want to separate and don't know where to continue? In the wind and snow, the scene of the two holding hands for a walk is very warm. She is happily thinking where to go together tomorrow? But he said: "Let's break up!" Stop taking those medicines. 』The expression is gentle, but the attitude is firm. The contrast between extreme warmth and extreme cold is like love once gave each other the best time, but it also leaves a cruel future where you no longer have you. However, only when she returns to a person can she have a chance to see her real problems in complete loneliness. Li Xiu: "Is today I the same as yesterday? Every day is the same face, shaking with a different mood every day, maybe it is not you who become different every day, but me. I thought that the pain after this love came to him was caused by his changing face every day, but in fact, the source of the pain was his unknowingly changing self, because he was too concerned about recognizing his insecure self, and he didn’t want it. Wearing a mask to face others, ignoring his warm heart no matter which face he turns into, just like the wooden chair he made just for her, intimate and comfortable, and always there. Yu Zhen is Yu Zhen, she has always known it, but she accidentally ignored it. Humans are always too concerned about the missing parts of themselves, so they can't see that they also have precious parts that others don't. Although the boyfriend who changes face every day makes people feel insecure, who can love her face as much as she sees a different face every day, no matter how long together, there is always a sense of freshness, others have to talk about several love affairs to experience She has been experiencing the rich feelings she has received. It's like most people want a stable love, it's best for two people to be in the same city and see each other whenever they want. Long-distance love that is hard and difficult to meet, you can't see you if you want to see, and you have to be separated when you see, even if you can't get used to it, it's still inevitable. This kind of mental torture makes people feel uncomfortable, but it also allows people in it to understand what they really want? To endure the pain of separation is because the one you love is irreplaceable, and because the time to get along is scarce, and you cherish every moment together. People are not born strong and firm, because they love someone, are willing to take risks with their bodies, and walk more difficult roads than others, only then can they have the opportunity to see the beautiful scenery that is hard to come by in this life. Li Xiu: "What was I afraid of at that time?" Is the sight of people in the world? Or the chaos and pain that I experienced with you? That's not as painful as this moment without you! When Li Xiu accidentally heard the tune of the two men's love, tears fell in an instant, and she returned to the moment when she was heart-stirring. She finally understood her heart. It turns out that I am more afraid of not having you than I am insecure. Although I can't go back to the past, and I don't have any regrets, I have real firmness and conviction in exchange for pain. This is the meaning of separation. The most important thing for a good love movie is to be natural and delicate. Why do you have to? I really like the feeling and details of the love between the two in "Inner Beauty": the two also love the wooden furniture that can breathe, and also like a song played on a vinyl record, and coincidentally like the inexpensive but beautiful woven ring. What they like is the same, which means that the two have similar aesthetics and values. Such a kind of love can be met, but when you meet, of course you don't want to give up lightly. So Yu Zhen finally mustered up the courage to tell Li Xiu's inner secret. From disbelief to acceptance, Li Xiu proved that she was really a very gentle person, and also proved that Yu Zhen's observation of her at the beginning was correct. Seeing that Yu Zhen's refrigerator was empty, Li Xiu helped him prepare food made by himself next time he came. The two cook together, eat together, fill the refrigerator together, go to Yuzhen’s mother’s knitting shop together, and think of ways to join the Li Xiu company’s party. Walking into each other's lives together, because of the intentions, ordinary daily lives are also shining brightly. I think of another youth romance film that I watched recently. The actor has always liked his good friends. The two are separated from each other. He is in Australia and she is in Japan. Even though she later met a girl who liked herself in Australia, she also had many beautiful experiences. He still refuses the girl who likes him, and insists on going to Japan to confess to the girl he has liked for many years. Unexpectedly, the girl already has a sense of belonging, and also indicated that she only treats him as a friend, so he returned to Australia and found joy The girl who loves herself still has love for him, and the two of them should be together in the end. After reading it, five words floated from the sky: Fortunately, there is a spare tire. The person I love doesn’t love myself, so I finally choose the person who loves myself. This is not uncommon. The point is that the film emphasizes that the male protagonist is very dedicated to the girl he has a crush on for a long time. She is also increasingly moved by the girl who likes him, and she feels innocent but unnatural. People's struggles and conflicts in emotions are the key to whether love can move. The presentation of "Inner Beauty" is much more delicate, and the transition is also very reasonable. Looking at it, I feel that I am their friend, not a passerby. In addition, Han Hyo Joo who plays Lee Soo is so beautiful! All gestures are natural and comfortable, a smile is like a breeze, and a soft and watery appearance has a firm heart. Such a girl is unforgettable! Like Ueno Shuri and Han Hyo-joo's rivalry, the two lie on one side of the bed, looking at each other softly, softly speaking, the dim light, feeling calm and soft. It looks so matching too! The Yan in the tree in Ueno and the heart of Yu Jin make people totally accept that she is Li Xiu's lover. Although it’s not good for the lovers’ faces to change back and forth, occasionally they also change to a face they like and spend a romantic day, which is not another good thing. All the problems of love are for us to raise our heads and face ourselves well. Only if we face ourselves well can we face love well. It is not easy to love everything about a person, because it is always difficult for us not to love ourselves, but when you truly forget yourself in love, the best love is not far away. She is Li Xiu's lover. Although it’s not good for the lovers’ faces to change back and forth, occasionally they also change to a face they like and spend a romantic day, which is not another good thing. All the problems of love are for us to raise our heads and face ourselves well. Only if we face ourselves well can we face love well. It is not easy to love everything about a person, because it is always difficult for us not to love ourselves, but when you truly forget yourself in love, the best love is not far away. She is Li Xiu's lover. Although it’s not good for the lovers’ faces to change back and forth, occasionally they also change to a face they like and spend a romantic day, which is not another good thing. All the problems of love are for us to raise our heads and face ourselves well. Only if we face ourselves well can we face love well. It is not easy to love everything about a person, because it is always difficult for us not to love ourselves, but when you truly forget yourself in love, the best love is not far away.

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