A woman's admonition book "Mrs. Bovary": She has made all the mistakes women should make, and many women continue to make the mistakes she made.

"Mrs. Bovary", a woman who loves vanity, loves the poor, loves the rich, loves the new and dislikes the old, does not want to say a word to her husband, and finally pursues the so-called love and cheating, and finally ruined her own life and her husband’s life. Look now It's just like in real life, it doesn't feel old at all, because this is a theme that never disappears. The theme of admiring vanity, dissatisfied with the poor and loving the rich for the so-called love and then derailing and ruining oneself, such a theme is the theme of many women's lives , Even if the great Flaubert has been described incisively and vividly more than 100 years ago, who would learn such a lesson, only want to regret when oneself is ruined, everything is too late, and the fate of the doctor is also very representative Sex and kindness are absolute models for wives. Husbands are good men, but in the real world, the better men are, the more likely they are to be betrayed by their wives. But Mrs. Farley cuckolded her husband time and time again. When the disaster struck, the lovers who loved her all the time did not lend a hand. Only her husband ruined the family property and returned what she left for vanity luxury consumption. Debt, this Mr. Farley is the epitome of a good man, and it's too embarrassing to speak of. When those derailed women find that the so-called love they pursue is so illusory that they can't stand the test of vain, and that they are nothing but playthings played by bad men, I think Mrs. Bovary at this time must regret her original admiration for vanity and vanity. Derailed to pursue the so-called love, but everything is irretrievable, only at the end of his bleak life to pay a heavy price for the mistakes he made, will later women learn the lessons of Madame Bovary? No, they always think that they are pursuing great love under the seduce of bad men. The tragedy is staged in an endless loop, so when we see the great writer Flaubert’s "Madame Bovary", we always have a strong feeling. The sense of reality is just like happening around me. At this point, the humanity portrayed in this book is worthy of its status as a world-class masterpiece. Mrs. Bovary, she has made all the mistakes that women should make, and many of the mistakes made by Mrs. Bovary are repeated by women. Only the smartest woman can safely guard her warm family and spend her life peacefully.

Extramarital affairs are generally referred to as affair. In fact, women "steal affair" and men "steal sex". The vast majority of men’s extramarital affair do not involve emotional factors, or very few. Women tend to pay a lot of emotional expenditures, and in the end they can hardly control and extricate themselves. Let me tell you the mental state of men when they have extramarital affairs: men are all lustful, I don’t need to say more, at first he pays attention to you, pay attention to your face and body, (there are only two things, really) Knowing that you are a married woman makes him even more excited. Driven by the strong attraction to the body of the opposite sex, and the pleasure of conquering (conquering you, and your husband), he will attack you with many methods, sweet words, and steady. Wisdom, calmness, generosity, wit, humor, etc. (he is still a big master, a careful man, just like your husband).
Do you think this man is really good? Why do you think your husband's stinky problem is just the opposite of your husband? Gradually, you like to talk to him more. He always makes you laugh. One sentence can make you amused. (This is a necessary method). You laugh more often with him in a day than with your husband for a year. Much, you start to like him, and you have regained the feeling of first love. The difference is that this time there is no greenness, but a lot of real sweetness. At this time, the original curiosity and impulse in your body germinate (Everyone has it, it’s Pandora’s box), this box was opened by a man who looks like an angel in your eyes, and this box has been closed forever since the day of your wedding, (being a good wife with peace of mind) Mother) Now that it has been opened up, your psychological position is gradually increasing and getting bigger, and your husband only has the so-called commitment to marriage in your heart? Apologize for the child? But what makes you afraid to take one step forward is the pressure of society and the shackles of traditional ideas. What will your colleagues think? lead? parents? Are you afraid.
You are really scared. At this time, if you rein in the cliff, you still have time. but. . . You deliberately hide from him for a few days, and the more you hide, the more you miss him. You want to see him at work. His cute and charming smile always makes your heart tremble, and his calm and wise humor always makes you cling. Your heart flies to the sky, you don’t want to work, you don’t want to cook, you don’t want to see your husband (because that will make you wobbly again), you don’t want to sleep, and your heart is all with him, then you are finished! ! ! What? ? Haven't you gone to bed yet? Go to bed? ? Isn't it just a matter of course? . Because you really feel "love", you betrayed for "love". At this time, you don't want to go home and want to spend all the time you can with him, talk to your husband about working overtime, accompany clients, and classmates Reasons to play and so on. . . . . . . . . . . . . . He won, won, won you, and even more, won your husband, stepping your husband on the bottom of his feet. I'm scared, and I've done something wrong. After two days, my husband will still be so stupid. Your heart is settled. My husband didn't notice (you know that comes from trust in you), so go ahead, his sweet words seem to be forever Can't finish, do you want to break up with fear, excitement, guilt, tension, and pain. Are you willing? Husband didn't find it again. Or if you want to worship him next week, you will be even wilder this week. Are you really willing to look at this man you love (you think he also loves you too)? One out of 100,000 women can afford it, are you her?
Paper can’t hold back the fire (you know this better than anyone else), and finally one day the Dongchuang incident happened. Your husband knows everything, divorce! ! He only said two words. You cried, with guilt, regret, resentment, and relief in your tears. You don't want to leave, you still need face, and you have to be a man in the market, you still have children, parents, no! ! You can't get a divorce, you swear to break with him, and beg your husband to forgive you this time. Do you know the psychology of most men at this time? Let me tell you: a bowl of rice with a maggot in it, can it still be eaten? Even if this maggot is taken away (severely broken), can it still be eaten? Isn't it disgusting? Well, even if you run into a bad guy, remove the maggots and bite the bullet and eat them, will he feel better when he thinks of it in the future? It's disgusting when I think of it, can you feel better again? This will always be a scar full of maggots.
Okay then leave, you think at least you still have him, the man you love and love you, you go to him and say you have nothing now, no husband, no children, no home, maybe even no job , Without the understanding of friends, without the forgiveness of parents, you only have him, guess what he would think? sad? A little bit guilty? Almost no pain? how is this possible. gloat? That's not enough. It can only be indifferent. At a loss. You must know that he still has a wife, children, parents, career, and future. you? He likes you, really really likes you, really really likes your face and body. He is willing to give you money, but I promise that he will pay more to her wife. You don't care about his money, you want his people, he is still indifferent, bowing his head and smoking. In fact, he knew in his heart that it was impossible. He only wanted a lover, no, a sexual partner to be more accurate, to satisfy his curiosity, sexuality, and the psychological pleasure of conquering other people’s wives. It’s as simple as that. , Really, men are simple animals, love? You may have a little bit, but only that little bit. 30% of men’s affection is in the mother, 30% in the wife, and 30% in the child (wife-to-child ratio can be adjusted). Do you have 10%? ? ? Then you are really not easy (in bed).
Okay, so far the story goes, you buried your happiness with a vigorous "love" (sex happiness, heart happiness buried happiness), what will happen later? Maybe you two continue this cheating game, but that is just for him, there is no "steal" for you, maybe he gradually alienates you (this is the most common situation), you still have to live your own life , But full of bitterness of regret. Your ex-husband will remarry, he will not look at you again, your child will grow up, in his heart, you? Mother? Oh you gave birth to him. Your parents will not be able to hold their heads up, in the neighborhood, in front of relatives and friends. Finally died in resentment towards you. . . . . . . . (Press: man, seeing this ending, if you have a little compassion, can you not regret it? Remember, don't destroy other people's families...)
This is the story of cheating, just this is your husband, no, it's an ex-husband He's a pretty good person. If you meet someone with super small eyes and big guts, then what is waiting for you is the occurrence of a bloody crime. I don't dare to think about it.

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