Eleanor returned to her parents' home in the country and began to live an escape life. What she wants now is not her husband's tightness, but a short period of rest. But just as this film is divided into two movies from a male and a female perspective, the thinking of men and women is always different. When Connor learned of his wife’s disappearance, he began to work hard to repair their marriage. In the male world, what they need more is an ordinary life. As he said to Eleanor’s mother, he chose to continue his life because Moving on is the only way. In fact, he doesn't care about the storms in the emotional world, but is more afraid of the great changes in real life. Eleanor couldn't bear it, she was sensitive to the fact that the child's death had made them strange. She felt that he had taken the child's death too lightly. The same underestimated the feelings between them. In this way, two people live in the same city, but they can no longer sleep in the same bed.
Sometimes we all hope that life can be slower, wait a moment, let us catch our breath. But people who want to live in society will always endure the tremendous changes given by society all the time. Here is the truth that the naive anthropologist Eleanor did not understand. When she saw that the divorced sister started to have her own emotional life again, she felt that she should also start to move forward. So she put the fireflies in the bottle back into the night, and the flashing light gave her the courage to repair their feelings again. Perhaps the time for new life should come. She went to the restaurant to find him, and drove with him into the storm of night. Everything is so beautiful, just like when they were passionately in love. But a man is always a man, always standing on the side of reason, he told her that he had derailed, how could everything go back to the beginning!
Eleanor was desperate, and she gave up, but when her true choice fell, she couldn't take that step. This is the difference between a woman and a man. Connor also struggled before derailing, but in the end she couldn't overcome her desire. The men and women in love let them know that they still have love, but they are also consumed by life without the strength to love.
Their lives have fallen into terrible stereotypes.
At the end of the film, Eleanor chooses to go to Paris to start a real new life, but as her elective teacher said, when you start to escape, you will always escape, and you will continue to escape in the history of life.
Eleanor once asked his father why he could grow old with his mother. She was obviously an unruly French violinist, but his father told her that they also had crises, but he chose to be tolerant. In fact, the solution to marriage problems is not to avoid it but to face it.
In The Disappearance of Eleanor Rigby: Them, there are many contrasts, Eleanor’s suicide and Connor’s being hit by a car, Connor’s father’s feelings and Eleanor’s parents’ feelings, Connor’s recovery and Eleanor’s recovery. . . . . Many nodes let us see how fragile the separation and reunion of men and women in love are, and the separation will only be the grave of love.
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