The love that exists in the trivial life

Chet 2022-01-21 08:01:32

What kind of relationship is between parents and children?
When children are young, they rely on their parents to worship their parents. Children are such gentle and obedient little creatures. Gradually, children grow up, begin to rebellious, begin to rebellious, and begin to challenge the authority and life of their parents. They want to be independent and want to try different things. , Began to despise and despise their parents. After a while, they have experienced all the intense growth and gradually become gentle and understanding, because the children are tired and take on the responsibilities of their parents. The children have their own children, and the parents have changed. It's getting old day by day. The aging process is not a beautiful thing, there is no gentleness and obedience, but a long-winded stubborn, stupid, hateful, and repeated cycles, no one can escape this fate. Child-parent-aging-child, this relationship is full of hope and sadness.
The relationship between me and my parents has always been that we resent when we are close, and we miss when we are far away, so I always sighed: It is better to miss each other instead of resenting.
There are various conflicts, disputes, contradictions, and misunderstandings in the whole movie. The incomprehension between relatives sometimes comes from a deeper caring for each other. Outsiders don’t understand, but I hope that relatives can understand and outsiders can know. But they don’t want their relatives to know about their shortcomings. Sometimes they just don’t want them to worry about disappointment. Sometimes the waywardness of growth can also bring disputes and attacks. A little bit, from the beginning of happiness and contentment, the relationship between each other is getting farther and farther. Love makes us care about each other, and growth makes us alienate each other. Even if we are alienated, love still exists. You can't see it, but it has never left. It's just that the law of growth gradually makes it seem like nothing.
Through the different perspectives of each person, the film tells the different lives and changes of a family of five people, the friction in getting along, the disputes between each other, and the tender time together. It is simple, with a unique perspective, moving and thinking. , Whether it is the fragmentation of the family or the laughter together tells us that there is actually love in it, birth, old age, sickness and death to the audience in this short 114 minutes.
Blood is thicker than water. It tells us that even if you resent each other, you are still a family, and even if you stay away from each other, you still have indelible memories.
The subtle touch comes from the details in the movie, the troubles of growing up, the relationship between husband and wife, the rebellious girl, the stubborn old man, love may not understand each other, if you can sit down and listen to each other's needs quietly, Give understanding and care, maybe life will be different, but maybe it's not life anymore.
Every day we spend now is the first day of the rest of our lives. Cherish the present, cherish relatives and lovers. Even if we are about to stay away someday, we must also bring this cherish and love to bless everyone.

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