In fact, the film is not gloomy or gloomy at all, although the ghost weather in England is indeed a bit gray, the tone is relaxed and natural, and even a little comedic. James, a young man suffering from cancer, went to the bay for the last camping with three friends after his birthday. Although there is no laughter along the way, as a long-distance tour, it also has the wild fun and joy that a long-distance tour should have.
If there is no shadow of death, this can be a beautiful and lively story like "Meeting Love at the Corner of the World", full of twists and turns, adventures, and sincerity revealed by people on the road because they are separated from daily life. But it didn't. Pills, morphine, and crutches always appear at the moment of joy, reminding us from time to time that this is a journey of death.
Death, where is its greatest harm?
When I first heard the news of the death of someone close to me, I really didn't know what to look at. Is it crying? Do you want to be sad? why? Death rationalists always like to look for reasons. Later I saw the body, and at that moment I suddenly realized that all the things with that person had become memories, and there would be no updates in the future. In an instant, the pain of eternal loss overwhelmed me, so that when I was asked about the saddest experience a long time later, I couldn't help crying in front of a group of people I didn't know very well.
The absolute end, this is where death is the most overbearing. What is disagreement, what is rupture, what is regret, as long as the other party is alive, there is always a way to recover. The hardest thing is not to recover, but irreversible. What's more hurtful is that this is only your unilateral irreversibility, and the other party has completely abstained.
Of course, one can also look at it from the opposite side. It is precisely because of the absolute nature of death that it sets off the preciousness of life. James naturally thought so too. He was angry with those friends who didn't care about wasting time, and he was angry with him for not being the person he wanted to be, but all was to no avail. In front of death, clamoring about the meaning of life is itself a futile thing. Did you take your life seriously before seeing death? After seeing death, can you calmly accept the fact that it is about to end? To die without regrets is a word that comforts oneself to the point of deceiving others, but not to die is the normal reality.
Especially, when you are the one left behind, you will hate these rhetoric that implies liberation even more. Because the only option left for you is acceptance, whether you like it or not. Then all you can do is let go.
Remember those good times, remember the various figures on the side, front and back, remember the plain and moving trivial and concise words, remember the clear and shallow conscious and meaningless hugs, and then start to get used to this little A human world.
However, regardless of whether it is far or near, now or in the future, the sense of vacancy caused by death may be accustomed to, but the matter of death itself can never make people accustomed.
PS: The master of Downton played a strange and wonderful passerby male paper in it, which made people cross in an instant! The male paper of the British corruption country is so magical!
PS and PS: I said a certain Aquema face brother, can you play a cheerful film? Are you trying to make us depressed to die? As a staunch member of the Appearance Association, always watching your horse face with all kinds of painful and tangled expressions and loving you like an idiot, what an inhumane thing!
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