At the same time that the male protagonist's love career has two harvests, let's take a look at the females. The protagonist. Throughout the entire movie, we did not see the actor visiting his father-in-law. The final clip has a little description of the wedding of the two. In short, it does not talk about how the heroine’s family opposes, how the two are more affectionate than Jin Jian.
However, for a small inspirational movie, saying that one theme is enough, so in the film review, let's talk about the other half: love.
Combined with the Chinese talk show we just watched, it is said that it is the love between the deaf and the little returnee. Homeless people with disabilities and young American girls studying abroad, what an inspirational topic, of course, there are powerful evil forces in Xiaomei's family who are even more powerful.
My parents are firmly opposed, and relatives and friends sigh. Forgive me for the jump. Thinking, in this movie, or even bigger, in the Western worldview, it seems that money\property feels very indifferent. It's not that there is no, it's not that it is not important, but in the eyes of Chinese people, it is Western." There are too many idiots to understand that beautiful college girls drop out to raise children with her boyfriend who graduated from high school and earn tickets; they can’t understand seeing the firefighters whistling, but they don’t even look up at Duo Jin’s bald lawyer. Can’t understand Divorced women with children are favored by aristocratic unmarried men. They can’t understand that 40-year-old women still have frequent social activities.
Chinese people can’t understand too much. This is normal. Don’t say that true love is supreme, love is sacred and inviolable. The whole society They are all raping your will. It has nothing to do with whether you have prejudice.
Americans will not show much surprise to the beautiful girl married to the disabled boy, and the family will have voices of opposition, but In the face of their love, marriage and freedom, they appear so weak that they have no power at all. Romeo and Juliet have been dead for so many years, but Westerners still take a warning and firmly engrave freedom and equality in their minds.
Only a few years after the Chinese talents were opened up, the whole society was soaked in prejudice. The prejudice against women, the prejudice against divorce, the prejudice against the oil bottle, the prejudice against the disability, the prejudice against the poor.
Just like the show. Li Jiabin said, you may get married because the other party has a car and a house, but those who divorced are not because the car is gone and the house is gone. They have gone from alive and kicking to being paralyzed in bed. The divorce is because the love is gone, the feelings are gone, and the marriage was originally married. The life I envisioned is nothing more than a Penglai wonderland.
Psychologists don’t need to have suffered from mental illness to become a doctor, but the maturity of a person must have grown up from immaturity at the beginning. Parents have gone through, knowing the suffering of no money, and knowing how to be Discrimination is the pain of being ridiculed, so their opposition is normal. Those who scold their parents are abnormal. It is precisely because you are in society looking at the disabled with colored glasses, looking at divorced women, looking at poverty, you Discrimination and ridicule, so there will be opposition from Xiaomei Niu's parents and so many disagreements. Human maturity lies in experience, but parents have not experienced it for their children, so they cannot be arbitrarily inserted.
In contrast, in the West, In contrast, what the girl said in the movie: "Compared to the men who only boast, think, and can’t keep their mouths shut, this little problem of yours will not affect me at all." Because the entire Western values are one kind. "Happiness-oriented", not money or anything. This is a bit absolute, but if we can see the mainstream, Western values are so different from Chinese values, I don’t mean to criticize, I’m just thinking about finding one The logic of explanation.
I know that everyone’s pursuit is different, so we should respect everyone’s different pursuits. If you want to have a stable and prosperous life, then please respect the so-called "crazy" of those people who disregard each other's background, money, and education for love They may be immature, they may regret it, but at this moment, they have an emotional impulse, they are pursuing and yearning. After this period of enthusiasm, they may be mature or experience the next period of immaturity. This is born in life. Privileges, everyone has, but not everyone has the opportunity to use it.
My mother’s classmate once complained about the miserable life of his excellent son who was the chief surgeon of a tertiary hospital for his beloved girlfriend when he was young. The mother strongly opposed his son when he was 20 years old. Now, the son is 40 years old. It took 20 years to prove their determination and determination. In the future, they will have to prove their love for a lifetime. The mother’s classmates regret it, and the children’s happiness is ruined because of their perseverance. Maybe they got married and gave birth when they were 20 years old. Child, quarreled, broke up, reunited, quarreled again, divorced. It is also 20 years. But that is life. Now, the excellent son lives in the memory. The woman who was beloved at the age of 20 is already
My wife became a beautiful cinnabar in my son's heart. I didn't mean to praise the Western Paradise, nor did I criticize Chinese society. I just think that in the West, people live more freely and more self-consciously. Those in our opinion Crazy things may be another kind of life.
You can't get everything. Your lover can't meet everything in the ideal. You want stability, dullness is an irresistible by-product, and you want excitement, accompanied by insecurity Sense. This is the same as if you want to drink, you must endure a hangover. The most important thing is what you want, not what the people around you want. But as I just said, the whole society is in Strengthen your will, this has nothing to do with your own thoughts.
Face a strong player, or resist to the end, or enjoy it seriously.
Or die quickly, or live well.
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