There should be no hate

Alden 2022-01-21 08:01:03

The whole movie, the beginning and the end are the familiar story. When I read this story before, I would warn myself not to trust anyone, including my father.
The father caught his son once, twice, and let go for the third time. The heroine in the film kept asking, "Why did you abandon me?" "Let go" and "Abandon". In the child's thinking, the father shouldn't let go, and the mother shouldn't abandon her, but they just did. In many cases, "should or not" can decide all of this.
After the hostess is pregnant, should she drink a second sip of wine, should she play "car shock" passionately with her ex-husband? If the child in her womb could speak, she would definitely question her, "Aren't you supposed to take good care of me?"

When the hostess's many "shoulds" were broken, she could only question her faith. People only want to see the world they want to see, and only want to believe in the God they believe in. I often overlook another world, another kind of God, and another person who will turn around and love you again.

"You love your life far more than you love me!" the hostess shouted hoarsely.
Yes, this is true. But what qualifications do we have to ask our parents to love me more than themselves? Those families that are not separated from flesh and blood are just lucky enough to not encounter such a powerless storm like this. They are the majority, they are ordinary, but not "should". No one deserves to be lucky, and no one deserves to be unlucky. Child, bad luck is here, you shouldn't hate it, because you don't know, in another place, mother is looking for you.

As the title of this movie, "Later, she found me". There will be such a day, I believe.

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Then She Found Me quotes

  • April Epner: Your wife was seeing someone else?

    Frank: Pretty much everyone else. I was too much for her.

    April Epner: Your wife? I'm sure she didn't feel that way.

    Frank: She told me.

    April Epner: What did she say?

    Frank: 'You're too much for me.'

    April Epner: Ugh.

  • April Epner: There is a Jewish story, an ordinary Jewish joke. A father was teaching his little son to be less afraid, to have more courage, by having him jump down the stairs. He put his son on the second stair and said, "Jump, and I'll catch you," and then on the third stair and said, "Jump, and I'll catch you." And the little boy was afraid, but he trusted his father and did what he was told and jumped into his arms. The father put him on the next step, and then the next, each time telling him, "Jump, and I'll catch you." Then the boy jumped from a very high step, but this time the father stepped back, and the boy fell flat on his face. He picked himself up, bleeding and crying, and the father said to him, "That'll teach you."