"Don't be kidding, family is actually very important. Watching the three of you grow up is my happiest thing. Having children is the most beautiful experience."
"When I was fifteen, I didn't know how to write a courtship letter, so I liked it. 'S girl sent a bunch of hair, the kind of hair on a human body, yes, pubic hair."
"For years, you have lived meaninglessly? Then why don't you live meaningfully?"
"As a father, I can't blame You smoke, but how can you still light your cigarette? It's too
shameful ." After watching the French film Laisse-moi vivre, it was strange that all I remembered were the words of the taxi driver's father. He, lean, seemed unsmiling. He is very much like someone I know in life, grumpy, but self-righteous. I think of this because the middle-aged man I know has been full of complaints all his life, wondering that his life is always making no progress, and his relationship with his father is extremely bad. Not to mention.
In the end, I remembered Ang Lee's "Diet Men and Women", which was also about a family with several children, but the treatment of Chinese and French is obviously different. Ang Lee focused on the relationship between his daughters and his father, and focused on the dilemma of old age, which lies in the understanding between father and daughter. The same is that there are sudden contradictions.
Maybe this is the so-called evil getting along.
I don’t have any family experience. I mean, I really don’t spend much time with my family. What a pity. When I was young, I lived on campus for many years. After I worked, I finally returned home. My family still treated me as a guest. There is almost no quarrel with parents like that. When I say this, is it because of the emotions in the film that I think that anger and beating are also part of daily love?
Okay, recall the outline of the story, it's a mark of watching this film.
My father was a taxi driver and he had nothing to do in his life. He was often ridiculed by his grandfather. Father is often annoyed by this, thinking that grandpa doesn't love him because he doesn't even hang a picture of his son at home. Many years later, when Grandpa died, he saw so many photos of himself in his father's wallet. This kind of father-son relationship seems too common. When I see each other, I always don't have a good face. I have to wait until the yin and yang are separated before I suddenly realize that they shake hands and make peace.
Mothers, like all mothers, have difficulty understanding the rebellion of their children. The main thing in the film is the tense relationship between her and her daughter. The youngest daughter will have to go through many injuries, frustrations, and hopeless escapes before she understands that what the mother said is all right. This process of understanding is the so-called growth. Everything they did when they were young is worthy of forgiveness, there is no way, they have the capital to toss. Those good memories are just because I have devoted myself wholeheartedly. As for the mother, she wanted to protect her daughter under her wings. As a result, the daughter began to provoke. She said in her diary that her mother was also a woman, and it seemed that her menopause would only go away. She also said that she is so old, and it seems that Dad will not touch her anymore. As a mother, she accidentally peeked at her daughter's diary because she was worried. She began to change and even hoped that her son, a plastic surgeon, would give her breast augmentation.
"Since I was weaned, I haven't seen this pair again. Don't spoil my good memories, okay?" With
a little crazy, incredible humor. The whole film is going on in such a lyrical tone.
Then there was the death of grandpa at the eldest son's wedding, and the father and son were separated from each other.
Then there is understanding.
Then came birth, old age, sickness and death.
Well, let's not talk about heavy topics. When facing those, everyone is often powerless. Let's listen to the young voice. Listen to those brave words.
"Family is a machine that frustrates feelings."
"Life is a disease that spreads between the sexes."
"We spent an afternoon trying to practice first, but I just put it in my mouth..." (Little daughter under sixteen Before the age of 10, he and his boyfriend practiced bed activities, but failed.)
"What does a taxi driver want a study room for?" (After the eldest son moved out, his father wanted to use it to transform it into his own study room, but he didn't expect to be rebutted by the second child.)
"What a weird tea. You know? These teas. They were all chewed by Tibetan monks, and the biochemical enzymes in the tongue fermented the tea leaves.” (The eldest son was seduced by the daughter next door the night before he moved out.)
“Do you know how to go? Don’t worry. Go wrong. Is the way down? Did you miss it? Suddenly I found myself lost and there was no one around." (The elder son accidentally got into his father's taxi, and his years of entanglement finally reconciled in that small space that cannot be escaped.)
And Higurashi's voice.
"It's not going to China. We will always meet." (Father said before the son moves out.)
"I can't keep you, but the photo will always be." (The mother takes a photo before the son moves out.)
"At home. There is also a doctor.” (Grandpa heard that his grandson had been a plastic surgeon.)
“Are you all going to leave before you go.” (At a family gathering, first the father yelled, then the daughter. Grandpa just said this. I want to laugh when I see others being so angry.) The
movie is divided into five segments, but it talks about six people. Although they are all bit by bit, everyone's general life situation is clear at a glance. I mean, how can such a picture be converted into concise text?
This is a problem.
Of course, for a music blind like me, it seems that I also like many of the episodes in the film. It adds beauty and warmth to the trivial daily life and tight nerves in the film.
After all, don't make family jokes, those seemingly fragmented, boring, and contradictory may be the center of life. Well, other people's stories, right and smile, when it comes to the head, do it and cherish it. You must understand, know, how to love and how to be loved.
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