Men say that women nowadays are too realistic to not get married without material conditions, and they will always want you to love her more than she loves you. In fact, they don't know that girls who truly learn to cherish and be grateful for their lives must have started after the collapse of their fantasy castle in the sky. And who is it? Who will let us know that life is not an idol drama, Prince Charming will never love or only love you. So, what's wrong with reality? Only when the years are peaceful, can we feel safe. And what is love? Thousands of years ago, in the "Book of Songs·Mug", we have been warned early-"Yu Shou is a girl, there is nothing to do with the scholar, the scholar is too late, it can be said, and the girl is too late, there is nothing to say. "(Women, don’t indulge in love with men. Men are addicted. They can also get away. Once a woman is addicted, they will never get out.)
Once I saw Tang Jili’s interview, at that time he was promoting "The Myth ". When asked why he made such a title, he said-"A woman can wait for love for two thousand years. This is the dream of all men; a man can shelter you from the wind and rain and save your life. This is also true. The dream of all women, this story is a "myth" for contemporary male and female audiences." The so-called myth is a legend that does not happen often or at all in real life. In this age of fast food, holding hands and breaking up are no longer earth-shattering, even easier. The vulnerability of feelings in the face of reality has caused it to encounter an unprecedented crisis of faith. Many people are just playing, and more people have learned to protect themselves. If someone around us is as infatuated as in these movies, we are used to laughing at him/her stupidly.
But, why do you burst into tears while watching the movie? --Because that was who you used to be? At that time, you believed in love so much!
The so-called sculpting time means that life is like a blunt knife that smooths out our sense of touch, while movies are a heavy medicine for detoxification. It makes people suddenly realize that our hearts are much more sensitive and cleaner than we thought! The flower in "Rouge Button" was so stupid as to wait for fifty years. Because he agreed to live and die with the one he loved, he had to wait to become a wandering soul. And what about that man? To live surreptitiously, did not bear love and vows. The first time I saw this story, I cried so much that my heart was deeply stabbed and I didn't recover for a long time. Why are women who are determined and brave forever? The hero in the story is always cowardly and desperate. The troubled times have been resolved calmly and profoundly. Now there will be no more such slips, which can make people hate them forever, and there will be no such looking back, which can make people love for a hundred years. The most frightening thing is that you love so sincerely, but you find him cowardly enough to make you discouraged. You waited so hard, only to find that he is so strange that it makes you feel bad. Seeing the twelve youngsters who had grown old, Ruhua returned the rouge button to him and said "I won't wait anymore", then turned and left. This time, she didn't look back. Li Xinjie also died for love in "Looking for People in the Deep Sea". Some people may think she is stupid. But I think the picture of her walking into the sea in a white dress is so artistic. Because there is a lover waiting in the depths of the sea, death becomes poetic. In fact, those who say "no one can live" are not despising love, but they have not yet met the person who can make him willing to die for it, because it is too rare. If you meet, even if you die, because you have the deepest love, then happiness is unparalleled. It's just that not everyone can understand this kind of feeling, so I can't understand it.
How much magic does love have on a woman, and how much can a woman do for love? Even if this love is only a moment, even if this person is just a passing away, even if you know such feelings, there will never be results. The aunt in "Sweet Honey" spends her life missing a meteor-like love. No one believes her, only she knows that everything is true. She persisted in the love of her life, and she surprised us just as much as the youthful face in the photo. Many people say that "Painted Skin" is a movie about "Little Three Children". The love of Xiao Wei, played by Zhou Xun, is the core of all drama contradictions. She has hurt many people and is a morally critical "villain", but when she finally sacrificed herself in order to save the man she loved, will the moviegoers still hate her? If we fall in love with someone, we can’t control ourselves. Even if we know we shouldn’t love, that person doesn’t belong to you, and the relationship will be fruitless. The time of meeting is wrong. Too early or too late is destined to be a mistake. But meeting someone who can love is not easy in this world. If you can let go if you say let go, and if you can forget you can forget, is it still love? This kind of helpless pain and rational struggle is the most tormenting. For the one you love, even if you know it is wrong, a woman can't refuse and soften her heart. She can only listen to her heart's call and follow her emotions. All previous rational efforts often fail in front of love.
But what is love? Do we really know now? In the face of a simple life, love should be a kind of commitment and responsibility, willingness, recognition, happiness, warmth, and courage. If this man really loves you, he will not put you in such an embarrassing position. Love is upright and upright. I can’t wait to let the whole universe know-I love you, you love me, and we love each other.
Many people were also moths fighting fires at first, willing to do everything, no matter what, absurd, stupid. The stronger the love, the easier it is to faint. No one is optimistic about him, no one is optimistic about love, he would rather hit his head and bloodshed than let go. I don’t understand what it means to receive or release, but I know that I love him, and I have to give everything I have. Until I found out, he didn't love me so much. Even worse, he doesn't love me. So I learned to think of myself first, learned not to give it all, and learned to look back and see if there is any way back when I go forward courageously. Learned to doubt and suspicion, feel that you can't be stupid, and be passionate when others love you not enough. Learn to think about how far you can go.
Such maturity is actually sad.
I am sad because it is no longer the original me, the moth that can desperate for love. If you can, how willing to talk about a simple and beautiful relationship, you love me, I love you, nothing will change, and everything will be believed. But the fire before was too hot and too hot, and the wound was too severe and severe, and I didn't want to be scarred again. Does everyone make a person sad, and at the same time be broken by another person? The conservation of energy in this love is also destined to be a moth once in our life.
So when we grow up, we can say with a smile-moths are so stupid. It’s just that when looking at the sky, we feel lonely and sad, because we think-where is the girl who used to be in love with someone?
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