"Female Collector": How do men face women they can't handle

Zack 2022-12-05 08:48:18


Some friends here said that they couldn't understand "The Female Collector". I thought I could understand it, so I came here to talk about it.

Female collector, what are you collecting? Collect men. That is, she keeps changing a man, so it is not a man who plays with her, but she plays with a man.

So is the heroine of this movie such a woman who deliberately plays with men? I think it is not. But it seems that what men demand for women is that they have love, and love is a single-minded affection for a man. And this heroine is a little confused, emotionally casual, and can change men one by one without emotion, which directly challenges a man's self-esteem. But she doesn't think there is anything wrong with her. Getting along with men is part of her life. She may be surprised by the uniqueness of men's feelings for women.

In the beginning, the two intellectual men despised this casually dedicated girl, thinking that they could refuse to be her collection. But at the same time, they have to admit that there is a unique charm in the girl's frivolity, that is, the kind of charm that cannot be subdued.

So the mathematician took action first, but did not conquer the girl, and got her body instead of her heart. As a result of frustration, he fled after scolding the heroine.

As a collector's hero, he thinks that the heroine really likes him, and he feels that she is constantly seducing him. But he was not in a hurry, he hoped this girl would take the initiative. He doesn't want to be another collection of hers, he wants to be her only, stamped heavily in her life, for this reason he has been restraining himself and acting very indifferent to the heroine.

The actor emphasizes his self-esteem, emphasizes his spiritual pursuit, and emphasizes that he is not an ordinary man by refusing to become a collection of girls. It seems that women should be passionate for such a man.

He left the heroine at the merchant's house for an excuse, not only wanted to show that he didn't care, but also faintly hoped that the girl could openly express his attachment to him and refused to stay alone. But the girl did not refuse, which made the actor very disappointed. When he pretended to be outside and returned to the merchant, he was anxious to know the relationship between the girl and the merchant, whether she had dedicated her life again.

When he realized from the businessman's attack on him that the businessman did not succeed, he was naturally a little proud, so he seemed to fall in love with this girl, she was not unintentional, and he seemed to touch her heart.

On their way home in a hurry to accomplish something good, the heroine met her male friends. At this moment, the hero realized that he could not grasp the woman at all. He finally chose to flee without waiting for the girl to return to the car. Drove away.

At the end of the movie, he called his girlfriend and wanted to go to his girlfriend. He realized that his girlfriend was safe and safe for him, but he couldn't control this girl, which made him obsessed and desperate.


This movie tells us that even if men are carnal animals, they are not necessarily happy to undress and go to bed. For men, when women do not pay attention to their bodies, it is more meaningful to conquer the soul than to possess the body.

This movie also tells us that when men meet women they cannot grasp, these women are often particularly attractive, and it is also particularly fun to conquer them, but men fear those women they cannot grasp from the bottom of their hearts. They often choose to flee.

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The Collector quotes

  • Daniel: I'm still interested in perversity. But nothing like that kind of chick.

  • Daniel: The more girls a guy has, the more he's suspect. The important thing is not to be liked. It flatters me. It's nice not to be in her collection.