Think about it. From the point of view of two 57-year-old children, the cheating father and cheating mother didn’t feel wrong until the age of 92, until they learned that the injured party committed suicide. .
That's it, it's your closest father and mother. Do you think you can win the attention of others by performing well? Wrong, unless those who follow you fall in love with you for some reason, love you as a lover, love you forever, love you as a son, love you as a daughter, and consider you as a father Love, loving you as a mother, anyway, is not loving you as you are. The protagonist Mattia’s father was almost perfect when he was with his lover, tenderness, generosity, kindness, thinking that he loves his son, but in fact, the son has committed suicide three times because of the broken family caused by his father’s derailment. In his eyes He has the image of his ideal son. The image of this son does not overlap with his real son Mattia, so he does not love this son. Matilda also has an imaginary image of a daughter in her eyes, and this image does not coincide with her real daughter. The two of them are truly a perfect match for love. Only those who are immersed in love can always maintain their perfect imagination, and their hearts are not assigned to the real world at all.
There are many poor creatures in the movie. It is rare to see a poor creature who has nothing but nothing after experiencing three marriages at the age of 57. What Matilda said when comforting the protagonist is correct. You have your own life. You have lived your life like this. You have no reason to blame anyone. In fact, you just want to blame this pot on someone. On the body, although you are now in despair, you are only 57 years old and you still have a life to live. The reason sounds seamless, but it's a bit inconsistent with materialism. The result of a person's past things is piled up to become the person's current appearance. If he has a way to change the results of so many things, then the future is of course beautiful. The fact is often that people actually expect this person to be like this forever. If he really changes the present for the future, it will inevitably affect the future of other people. For example, someone becomes Hitler, Napoleon, Stalin, and this result is other people. Are you willing to accept it? What others are willing to accept is that their neighbors, friends, and relatives are always beneficial to themselves, who do not trouble themselves, and do not affect their quality of life, rather than being strong and aggressive. There is really no justice in this world. Evil, only the question of who defeats whom, Matilda and Matia’s father belonged to the kind of people who would always hurt everyone, and they lived well.
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