Feminism, time, life, life.

Jake 2022-01-21 08:02:43

I was bored today, so I stayed at home with my parents to watch a movie. I just saw the movie "Days Without Relying on Men" on CCTV Six. Out of curiosity about the name of the movie, I followed my mobile phone. After a few glances, I put down my phone and looked at it intently. I thought this was another cliché female story. What woman does not rely on a man to become a "successful independent woman", but in the end she is alone in a tall building alone. Drink red wine. But this film was different from the very beginning.

The heroine takes her daughter to live in the country alone, and then meets a farmer who has a good impression of her, and then the farmer said:

"You took your daughter by yourself, it just so happens that my son also needs a mother"

Then the heroine's answer was: "I don't need your son."

He politely refused the farmer's courtship; and in another dialogue, the heroine said: I and my daughter have something that we can't do, can we help?

So what can I get? The farmer replied

Like a good food? The heroine said

Then this conversation ended, and the farmer walked away silently.

For a marriage without love, it is an equal exchange of benefits.

The daughter grew up and said to her mother: I want a child. The mother said: Then you need a husband, and the daughter said: I don’t need a husband, I only need children. So the mother took her daughter to the city to find someone who had already given birth. A woman who had three children and was preparing to give birth to her fourth child, and then the mother asked her to help her daughter find a "good man" to help her daughter fulfill her wish. As a result, the woman took the mother and daughter to meet her younger brother, and she went smoothly. After fulfilling her daughter's wish, the daughter gave birth to a girl, and this girl is a gifted child, but also a good friend of a philosopher who never goes out, and also a spiritual mentor to the heroine and granddaughter. And in the philosopher and the heroine and granddaughter about time The dialogue is also very interesting:

The philosopher said: The original 80-year life span will end in 29 days, or it will last for 80,000 years, so what is the time?

The little girl replied: Maybe we can invent time,

The philosopher replied: we can make it up

The little girl replied

"Maybe ants live in their own time, crickets have their own time, and stars have their own time.

So, what can be anxious, time is defined by people, and our time is not the same. At the same age, some people are working, some are studying, and some have already given birth to the next generation. , Wait, everyone is moving forward according to their own life trajectory, we don't need to look at other people's time progress, because our timeline is different from birth.

Regarding life, philosophers said that our world is a hell, each of which is a suffering soul, and life is a combination of all kinds of misery, and in the follow-up of the film, the heroine pats the thigh and said a sentence that expresses its strength. He Huida: Life is nothing more than this! Because this life will not get better, and life will not get worse, it just changes.

At the same time, after the heroine's great-granddaughter was born, the great-granddaughter asked the philosopher: Why do you never go out; the answer of philosophy is: There are two best things in the world. The first is the unborn thing, which exists when you are born. , Existence is nothingness, and the second is death.

The philosopher said the essence, the world is sad. But a little poem written by the great-granddaughter at the back is touching. I understand that the thing that makes the world better is love, because we will be because of the existence of a certain person. And extremely happy.

Life is disappearing all the time, and it is also appearing. At the end of the film, after the mistress gets old and dies, the conclusion is that everything has not reached the end. Therefore, death is not the end.

Remarks: The film also has a name "The Antonia Family"

Also, I didn't remember the name of the person at all, this movie will definitely go to the second screen, the first time is just fragmentary memories and feelings.

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Antonia's Line quotes

  • Verteller: "Like seeks like," Antonia said.

  • Verteller: Days turned into weeks, then into years. Antonia planted, Danielle painted, the fields turned green, then brown again.