When I saw the back, I wondered why Chinese directors couldn't make such films, the most popular subjects, and profound topics.
When this topic is halfway through the story, the contradiction begins: It’s okay if you love me, we are also great together, but when we are together, we have to go out to drip, there are people outside, when someone other than you and me Can you be calm when you see you and me?
This is more like a Buddhist proposition. If you think we are normal, then what outsiders think is not normal to you is not important. Only when you think it is not normal will you be stung by the eyes of outsiders. ...
This love conversation is more like the heroine completing the practice of self-recognition. From the past, like her ex-husband, she was the same person who used all means to achieve the goal. Later, the gentleman did something and did something. I want to find a man with excellent physical conditions, but I find that it is only an external match (like her ex-husband, a talented person, a similar career, but a mess...) I can’t get along with each other at all. Two people need more content when they are together. To support, for example, understanding, attentiveness, tolerance... Only these inner core powers can really fuse two people together, as for the others, it is irrelevant... I think this is what the director wants to express!
The low score of this film, I think it should be that the heroine’s transformation is not hard-core enough, and that she should touch this level more heavily. I think this transformation is more convincing, rather than through her. Assistant, her mother is here to remind...Also: Since the role of stepfather has been arranged, he should play a bigger role, for example, let him arrange a soul conversation between her and her mother...Finally (?♀️My requirements are quite a lot...) Before she goes to him again, she should arrange for his son to have a collision with her. Only his son can get along with his father most calmly, and his perspective can promote her more. The transformation...
But it's already very good. I like it to show the depth of growth and transformation in popular stories! ?
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