Now the time is 5:20 AM on 6/6/2020, and the time stays on 520. After I write this sentence, it becomes 5:21
I don’t know if there are gay friends around you. To be precise, I don’t know how to call them more respectful. For the "same sex", I went through puzzles to understanding, support to empathy. "Brokeback Mountain" made me understand such feelings, and "Heart to Happiness" made me feel the same. I have also watched some movies with the same sex, such as "Farewell My Concubine", but there is no such thing as "Brokeback Mountain" and "Heart to Happiness" to make me feel more touched.
When I was young, I couldn't imagine what two big men would look like together, how do they make love? In 2005, Brokeback Mountain directed by Ang Lee was released. I downloaded it on my computer and watched it simply because of its reputation. What I didn't expect was that I would see crying.
In "Brokeback Mountain", the women, children, and families behind the marriage accounted for a large proportion. These are all to reflect the society's attitude towards "homosexuality" at that time. Even if you think women are pitiful, they will give sympathy to the male lead to a greater extent. They seem to be more difficult indeed.
The name of the movie Brokeback Mountain is the theme and symbol of the whole film. Jack said to Ennis in the play: We could have lived a beautiful life together, a truly beautiful life, a home of our own, but you don't want it, Ennis, so we only have Brokeback Mountain! Everything originated from Brokeback Mountain, and that is what we have, the only thing we have.
Brokeback Mountain seems to be the holy place in their hearts, the only place in the world where they can be themselves and face their emotions. Every time they get together, they need to go to Brokeback Mountain, and I hope it is Brokeback Mountain. People can be themselves anywhere.
In their last meeting, Jack said: We have known each other for nearly 20 years, and it was so hard for you to tie me... When I watched it again after 15 years, I realized that this really happened. condition. We can't face our emotions, in the long years, in and out of each other's lives, this will make the fragile party painful. In the end, just like the characters in the play, "fight", "quarrel", "entangled" and then embrace and cry bitterly.
At the last moment of the movie, Jakc's clothes and a photo of Brokeback Mountain appeared. With Ennis's sad eyes, it seemed to melt away at that moment. Really understand them, really feel sorry for them, if you also shed tears, it means you really understand.
For a long time I like to listen to the episode "IDon't Want To Say Goodbye". When I really understand a thing, I really understand this emotion naturally. A "comrade" used to chat with me many times. When he identified himself, I had to explain to him that I was a straight man. He has a WeChat group and I am in it. I really "contact" this group of people, play King of Glory together, and like to play Cai Wenji's little experience, it's very cute.
Over the years, there has been a lot of news about rainbow activities abroad, same-sex legislation, and so on. I changed my understanding from the beginning to support. I have discussed the topic of "same sex" with people, and most people avoid it or are full of prejudice. I expressed that when I was very supportive, they asked me, what if your son is gay? I hesitated. It turns out that my understanding and support have never been put on myself. I thought about it for 3 minutes and told them that if he was, I would also support it. I will support him to live the life he wants. The above is a journey of my mind about "same sex". And "Heart to Happiness" made it my empathy.
It turns out that love has nothing to do with gender. Whether you are gay or heterosexual, the emotions are the same.
May Martin is a talk show actress with a history of drug abuse. She has a terrible past, including the present. Georgi is heterosexual.
Mei is a person with an addictive personality, mentally fragile, insecure, and may collapse at any time. It's like staying in a dark dungeon, expecting a light to shine in. And Georgie is her light.
On Qiaoji's friend's birthday, Qiaoji still called Mei a friend. This is not the first time that Mei has been concealed. It was also at a wedding before. This is truly empathetic for Mei who is insecure, and me, who is insecure. Do you fall in love with someone, you are together, but you never know her/his family or even friends? I am not as good as Mei, I don't have her confidence, I don't have the courage to face each other's family and friends. If I don't even know my existence, I will really be at a loss.
After his birthday, in an accident, Georgie came out due to the effects of morphine. When a person enters a new field, Qiao Ji will naturally be confused. The two broke up because of their orientation and gender.
After the two separated, Georgie began to understand something. She asked her friends: How long have we not talked about serious topics? Finally, say: "What kind of friends are you?" Then you know who your true friends are.
And Mei is in the mutual aid association, holding the 1day sign, which means that she has relapsed. The two mutual aid association members who did not like each other started a "mutual aid" conversation.
Like most things that can temporarily numb ourselves, we can never seem to stop. We have never thought about the reason why we really "take drugs", if because of a certain thing, we try to do it well. Instead of doing nothing, wait for it to go bad, and then relieve the "pain".
After Mei went through everything, she said to her mother on the other side of the phone, I want to go home. The mother who drove her away from home said that she should book her tickets now, ask her if she has money to go to the airport, give her money, and let Mei's father cook soup for Mei... ..
May asked: Are you still angry with me? Mother said, I have never been angry with you. This sentence is so familiar. My mother seems to have said to me like this, you are my child, how can I be angry with you.
At the end, Georgie said to May, I don't know what I would do without you. The ending is two people hugging and kissing, which is beautiful. When most of us are in love, we feel that we are missing each other. What should I do? How do I live? After all, life is life, we leave everything to time, and time did do it, and we let it go.
"Heart to Happiness" is a British drama with a lesbian theme. You can watch it all in one go. I also recommend that you use it for a weekend, in the afternoon, to do it all in one go. "Heart to Happiness" is about "addiction", "friends", "relatives", and "love".
Each of us seems to be more or less addicted. Smoking? Watching a show? Dependence on a certain person? Psychology says that addictive personality has certain defects. Of course, we all have flaws. The more you care about something, the more you lack it.
Regarding friends, one always meets many friends. It may be simple to distinguish, who is the person who can discuss serious topics with you. Or always by your side, you never noticed.
Regarding relatives, it is mainly parents. I think there is nothing to talk about, because children who are children will never know how much their parents love him. We can be indifferent, but when this world begins to collapse and fall apart, that home will always shelter you from wind and rain.
As for love, the reason for our breakup was that we chose rationality and chose a good decision for each other. He cares a lot, but he has to keep comforting himself. In fact, we just made the "easy" choice.
Imagine the other person is in the abyss, whether you really want to be his/her light.
From "Brokeback Mountain" to "Heart to Happiness", when one day, their label is no longer "same sex" but "love". People may only really accept it. At this moment, they are because of love, which makes me feel the same. Thanks! ?
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