Mom, don't treat your child as the whole thing in your life!

Gloria 2022-12-21 23:25:26

Yesterday, I watched the first episode of "Mrs. Fletcher". Wow, the old mother I watched is so painful.

The first episode is about the night before Mrs. Fletcher's son Zach graduated from high school and was about to go to college. Mrs. Fletcher divorced and raised her son by herself. She spent all her feelings on her son. Apart from work, she is her own son. She has no social or hobbies. The night before her son was about to go to college and leave home to leave Mrs. Fletcher, Mrs. Fletcher prepared a series of procedures for the two to get along with each other and say goodbye. Within the plan. When packing up, Mrs. Fletcher tried his best to talk to her son about topics from desk to desk, but Zack was so drunk with his cell phone that she swept all the items on the table out of the box because Mrs. Fletcher was annoying. inside. In fact, Mrs. Fletcher doesn't know how to clean up. Thinking of the upcoming parting, she just wants to get along with her son and talk more, but the son's indifference hurts the old mother's heart too much. And after dinner, Mrs. Fletcher also carefully prepared small cakes, but his son didn’t even look at it and said that having an appointment with a friend was the last night after all. Cherishing the last night before leaving home with his son, Zach was busy with his own affairs, which really hurts.

Thinking of myself, thinking that I now devote all my time and attention to a pair of young children, is this right? My children are still young, and I am all in my eyes. My feelings are treated equally, but when they grow up, go to school, and have their own friends and their own affairs, then I will slowly become only their lives. Part; when they fall in love, get married, and work, I really only occupy a very small part of their lives. Will I, like Mrs. Fletcher, always put my feelings and attention on the child, and when the child grows up to break free from his own sky, I will be extremely lonely and pitiful. What percentage of my life should my child account for?

Papi-chan said that her life sequence is self>partner>children>parents, yes, children will grow up to have their own vast sky, and there shouldn’t be only children in my sky, so there are so many new colors. Into your own life, partners, interests, hobbies, friends, work, relatives... can't shut out the things that children need because they need themselves.

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