In my opinion, there is no point in arguing whether human nature is good or evil. What does goodness mean? It means not harming the same kind, and cooperating with the same kind, cooperating to raise offspring, cooperating in production, cooperating to create a living environment, and cooperating to meet each other's various emotional needs. The reason why human beings need to cooperate is because a single human power is too small, and human beings cannot rely on their own thin power to survive in the natural environment. This social nature of human beings is imprinted in genes, which is the fundamental source of human goodness.
So when will human nature be evil? The heroine in the movie mentioned in a clip that her first sexual experience seemed to be forced; there is also a plot where the heroine, regardless of the feelings of a victimized girl, insisted on letting her appear in court (in fact, she can Be more patient); and threaten the defendant while in the parking lot. These depict the heroine being more sensitive to disrespect from the opposite sex due to past experiences. When she faced the accusation of her stepson, she was able to do things so "absolutely" not only because she was a lawyer, but because she felt that her self-esteem was threatened.
When people's physical and psychological needs are greatly threatened, in order to protect themselves, they may lose the bottom line in doing things.
However, it is obvious that the heroine in this drama is a more extreme situation. Due to her past experience, she is more sensitive to disrespect from others, her self-esteem is more likely to be threatened, and she is more likely to do things that lose the bottom line. In fact, I think when she decides to lie to her husband and accuse her stepson, she should be able to understand the consequences of this. Even if it does not lead to the suicide of the stepson, it will also cause the stepson to lose his family and suffer a lot of psychological harm. But she still did it, showing how much her self-esteem was threatened.
In fact, when solving this kind of problem, it is not to satisfy one's own need to be respected, because this kind of higher than normal needs is like a bottomless pit, which will make people live very tired. The correct approach is to start from the cause of low self-esteem, eliminate the impact, and restore a normal level of self-esteem.
The shortcoming of this film is that it has not designed enough pictures and plots to more deeply portray the low self-esteem of the heroine in the relationship between the sexes. This has caused some people not to understand why the heroine would do things so terribly. They may think that the heroine is inherently evil, just like most Chinese believe that those who do bad things in the real society are evil people. In fact, this is not the case. For a person who is mentally normal, able to think and make independent choices, goodness is imprinted in his genes. The reason why he does evil is only because his physical or psychological needs are threatened.
I don’t know if you have a feeling that it’s easier to get along with people who are respected than with people who are not respected. Because of the first type of people, their need to be respected is fully satisfied, and they know how to respect others. The situation in China is a bit special. The fourth item in Maslow's five major needs theory is generally lacking in Chinese people. Therefore, when some special events happen, we will be shocked by the evil shown by our compatriots. This is caused by the traditional culture and the existing social system for thousands of years. This situation is also prominent in Korea and Japan, which is influenced by Confucian culture. However, Japan is relatively light. It may be due to the renewal of the social system, or it may be due to the renewal of the social system. They realized the bad side of this social culture, so they used more honorifics and etiquette in their interpersonal communication. A better level of economic development can alleviate this problem to a certain extent, but it cannot fundamentally solve this problem.
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