Say to yourself, calm-some irrelevant words thought of from "Pride and Prejudice"

Trycia 2022-01-21 08:02:23

"Pride and Prejudice" is a novel that many girls like. I think I watched it no less than ten times. When I was at home, the books I picked out when I was bored, either "A Dream of Red Mansions" or "Pride and Prejudice", were books that I could read tirelessly at that time.

The heroine Elizabeth was considered my idol when I was a kid. Although she didn't do anything earth-shattering, she had an attitude towards life that I had never encountered before. The book says that, at first glance, it seems that she is just an ordinary girl, but after getting along for a while, she will slowly discover that she is not a mediocre person, and her eyes are very bright. To describe it in Chinese, she has bright eyes. , Gu Pan shines. Maybe because I was ugly when I was a child, I especially prefer talented women... Now I also like to see beautiful and handsome men, but the most favorite is such people with brilliant eyes, such as the heroine in the 2005 edition of Pride and Prejudice, which makes me think Arrogant, without the lady style of the British era, the look is not looking around, not provocative, not how big the eyes are, but a kind of natural charm. In this regard, the heroine of the 1940 movie version and the 1995 bbc TV drama version They are all in line with my aesthetics. The former is generous and intelligent, and the latter is cute. Both make people naturally think of the description in the book. Elizabeth is not such a beautiful person, but it is unforgettable.

In that era, marriage was a woman’s future and destiny. It was precisely because those afternoon teas, dance parties and small talk not only told people how the five daughters of the Bennett family got married, but also reflected the society and reality of that era. Under the background, the author began to describe with everything she was familiar with. It was vivid and colorful, and because of her intention, she did not become vulgar. I think she should also like the character of Elizabeth very much, and even this character should have her own shadow.

Time flies, thousands of miles away, now, what is the future of women, and what is the fate of Chinese women. Can do more things, get rid of more constraints, can leave the homeland to wander freely, can be more capable and independent than boys, as if there are no unfinished tasks except for physiological differences. It seems to be the case, but I still saw mysteriously a few days ago that Zhang Jiang’s post about marrying his daughter was hotly discussed. Urban "bones", who made enough money, turned around, still hope that someone can rely on, yes. Get married and have children.

It’s said that there are fewer and fewer good men. Even the technician I was doing experiments said, that’s right. Now that all good men are basically robbed, the rest...it’s hard to satisfy you. It turns out that now we have entered the age of leftover women, no wonder even my mother left me QQ messages three days and

two, asking me to pay attention to how to solve personal problems... Two hundred years ago, girls were crazy about marrying themselves out, no matter how beautiful. People who are as smart as Elizabeth can’t avoid thinking, but they act more sensibly. Today, it makes me vaguely feel the tragic and vigorous after a smog of gunpowder. That’s right, a man who is married and a woman who is married, if you live Without marriage, society should be more chaotic...

But isn't the basis of marriage not feelings, and feelings, how can a person have the final say, and how can they be obtained through hard work?

Both the forward edge and the opposite edge are the leading edge. When people think that they can do everything, it is easy to believe that emotions are also okay. Marriage is fine, but feelings are not. Everyone will be confused and tempted, responsibility becomes irrelevant, and it becomes increasingly difficult to find constant feelings. Of course feelings will change, but because of this, people who don’t believe in feelings and don’t want to love don’t have the opportunity to experience the eternal transformation in an instant. I hope I still believe and wait, I hope I can still love with all my heart, if I get hurt, I can still do it. It hurts my heart. If I fail, I can still bless my heart. I hope I’m still sensible, ignore prejudice, recognize arrogance, and not be disturbed by this. Fang Cun has lost myself, and I don’t shrink because I haven’t been happy yet, and I don’t because of failure. Be timid afterwards.

In this world, only a few people can completely see the unique beauty of another person. For everyone, this is the case. Behind the glimpses of light, if you don’t fall in love with that uniqueness, how should you face the temptation of the world of flowers? To fall in love with someone, you don’t need to be perfect, but you can constantly discover each other’s goodness, and it’s not good to be willing to get used to it. To be rich for a lifetime, you can support each other and admire each other until the end of life. Since the end of happiness is just holding hands with that one person, there is no need to panic in the world. I have it, I am lucky, no, my life, each is unique, and the happiness of this world is not measured by speed. , Go fast, go slow, just as fast as you can.

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Pride and Prejudice quotes

  • Lydia Bennet: Look at Kitty! She's a drunken door!

  • Mr. Collins: I understand, my dear Miss Elizabeth, that it is the delicate and charming custom of young ladies to say no when they mean yes, even three or four refusals. I am, therefore, by no means discouraged.