Destroyer and builder

Reyes 2022-08-25 16:38:07

I don't know how many times I have looked at this. I also recommended this show to many people. I remember feeling boring the first time I watched it. The second time I watched it, I felt it hit my heart. This time I found it to be boring.

Whether it is the first season, the second season or the movie ending, the most worrying thing is PK love. From the second season, like finding true love, even building each other’s lives together to abrupt cessation and destruction, to the last season, returning to the familiar SF, the driver asked P how he felt when he came back this time, P said, you will have a few days Ask me this question again.

Suddenly I thought of a few old friends I met this year. The first one is brother. Not many friends who have known each other for ten years still keep in touch. He is 8 years older than me, and his relationship is very good. Even when I was in the United States, I was emotionally down. He was in Cambridge at the time, so I could still call him to talk about the relationship. I met in Hangzhou in April, Nanjing in May, and Beijing in July. I have a particularly big experience. Every time we meet, it takes a long time and we talk a lot, but we finally don't have to talk about "love" anymore. This feeling is like what P said to Dom in the movie version, and finally turned into an Adult to some extent. No longer continue the topic of adolescent narcissism, self-love and self-pity. Attention began to completely move away from the small self, and began to pay attention to the world.

There is also a small circle of friends who play with the seniors. This junior was the most willful of us back then. After graduation, my senior and I became green peppers, and he entered the financial industry to show off his skills. When I graduated, I made a boyfriend from the school next door. In his words, "When I saw him, I felt that he was this person. I didn't have any doubts." Later, the senior brother occasionally went back to Beijing to check the information, and he brought this boyfriend. Of course, like the ending of many cheesy love stories, they broke up.

When I was on a business trip in Nanjing, I ran into the younger brother while checking in at the front desk, and then recruited the younger brother from Hangzhou in a hurry. I arrived on Friday afternoon, why did I meet him at the hotel? Because he explained his business trip in the Yangtze River Delta, he didn't want to go back to Beijing, so he stayed in Nanjing and waited until Sunday night to come back.

I call him "a person who doesn't want to go back to Beijing."

Why don't you want to go back to Beijing? After that relationship, he seemed to have lost the so-called Mr. Right, but if it was really Mr. Right, why did he lose? His boyfriend actually got married. The younger brother told all kinds of stories to make this matter reasonable and forgivable, but we all know that he just told him to listen to, because those stories have no logic at all, and there is no reason at all.

I have returned from the United States for half a year, and my life has been ups and downs. It seems that I have been identified as a role in a certain position. No matter how much I want to break free, I will still be defined. The three of us, who have known each other for ten years, have all chosen a path in our lives to go down, but after all, we are destined to drift in life.

So I think P is a saboteur going around. He will always live in a cartoon plot he understands, and he has to describe it at any time. He will always have so-called his own moods and thoughts. He wants to be a junior, but he can’t help but love him, and it’s him who wants to move in. He, it was he who gave up. Even if he thinks he is "adult", he still has the ups and downs. After seeing K, he couldn't help but be confused and couldn't say that he was arguing for himself. When he saw R, he thought the old relationship was rekindling, and he thought he was If he loves, he always looks back at the past time, but he will never stop seriously, hold back, think of himself clearly, assume his own role, and then love again.

But everyone around him has grown up. Dom has his own Chicken Window, Doris even plans to have a baby. Augustin, the most unreliable one, is married. K told him coz I love u with tears in his tears. Everyone has gone on solidly in life, only he is still looking around, touching himself and crying like a child, then messing up himself again, and losing the love of others.

Patrick is too vivid, and each of us should be able to see our own shadow in him. But life cannot always be negated, always undermining. When you decide to grow up, you have to start building while undermining. From this point on, I stand as K. He may not be a stable role either, at least he has been planning and building.

Finally, I felt that R was too pitiful. At the end, it will act as a spare tire again. From the life stories I have seen, this will definitely not be a good love story. The replacement of the spare tire can only be a transitional role.

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